I point this message TO Justine.. I empathize with your fear of eternal TIME!!...Laurence Van Der Post said in one of his books..."The only Hell is to be trapped in the Past" I feel that is not much different to be trapped in TIME!!. or our concept of the Present/Time...In this realm we live in Space/Time...In the next realm this is not so!!...Maybe your fear about this prospect is the fact that you are now trapped in time!!.Easy enough, this what we were . born into.
In the after death realms
there is no sense of time like here..believe me..Can you imagine a realm of existence where there is no sense of time?? An eternal  NOW..?? No Beginning...No ending...Always is....Always was..There is only now...There was no beginning...This is very difficult for a mind residing in space /time.We were born into this realm to experience time because it gave us the experience of narrowed focus...time produced the time bound ego...no problems until we faced the end of our physical existence   then we were faced with dying to our time based concept of self...then comes fear because we had no knowledge of the timeless...it seemed to be beyond our comprehension...then...transition..and then remembrance!!...then awakening...so please don't fear...don't try to understand timeless existence in an earthly timebound concept.Can't be done..Remember where there is LOve there is no Fear..Release yourself from limiting concepts that you took on to yourself in your innocence long ago.Find your wisdom which will answer you only when you ask...don't delay..
LOve.
Devayan.