George, I don't know how to tell if she really saw your father (or his ghost!) or if it is a case of mistaken identity.

So what scared her so much? Is your father scary? Was there something symbolic in where or when she saw him, some meaning that upset her? is it the possibililty that her world-view was lacking some important information?

I admit that things that rock my world view have a strong emotional impact on me. I'm just not sure what your point is.

How has she used this event? Has it changed anything in her life?

george stone wrote on Sep 30^th, 2008 at 2:59pm:


To some people seeing a dear departe one could/is a shock it's understandable..Hope she'll ask questions the next time; maybe there're unfinish business to be dealth with.
R.