Doc said: is this a good system for the vast majority of people to turn toward love and spiritual growth?
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do you mean Is FEAR a good system? or do you mean is it a good system to turn towards love for spiritual growth?
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kinda tricky wording. love is always what we should teach, whether to a child or anyone because love is what we are.
that does not mean a child should not be taught there are some in the world who do not think about that child's best interests. therefore if we want to get children's faces off of the milk cartons, who are missing, we have to protect them. Not by instilling fear in them, but letting them know, that if a stranger calls a child over to a vehicle, they must run home fast. then when they get old enough, you can tell them the truth, why you made that rule.
if they insist on asking why daddy? like kids do, you can say that some strangers are crazy and need some mental help. something like that. I'm sure you can protect your kid without causing them damage.
like the couch, where he is showing off for you, what he can do. that's normal, trying to impress you. take him to the park where the jungle gym is Doc! let him show off for you there!
I will go back and re-read what everyone said here, but basically, this planet ELS, has all degree of humans in various stages of human evolvement. It's basically a spiritual kindergarten of the universe, as I view it..and the kids who are born in the last 20 years, I hold the belief that they are going to help us move forward spiritually. I call them Indigo kids.