Hi again,

I often dream of souls who ask to be born with me.

They ask me to be their mother and they try to persuade me. What on earth is this?

They show me how much light they have,
OR they show me that giving birth is not that painful,
OR they tell me they stand in line waiting for me to make up my mind,
OR they show me that they are not happy because I don't want kids.

I don't know what this means.

I don't have a boyfriend and I believe having a child is a big responsibility. If you have a kid, your intention(s) has to be that you will want to give the best to that child: physically and emotionally.

To world is so hard for kids nowadays. They have to be everything to get some love. If I had to be a mother, I would love to push any of these souls as high as I can help them, but as a human being, I know I have limitations and I feel sorry.

I share this with you, because I am curious to hear your opinion about all this.

Much love,

Sonia

Sonia:

This World might seem harsh, but it is a chosen method of growth for many Souls. The difficulties we go through are worth it. If you saw the entire picture, things might not seem so bleak.

Perhaps there are Souls who want to incarnate into this World and would like to have you as a mother.  Perhaps advanced Souls who are seeking to help out with the spiritual growth of this planet.

Your dreams could also be a way of helping you get over some limitations you might have. If you believe this World is too harsh to bring children into, consider my first paragraph.  If you believe you aren't qualified to be a mother, think again. If you believe being a mother will be too stressful, perhaps you're being told that you can deal with the stress. If you have a child or two, you might find having them is a great opportunity to grow in love and share love with others.

Here's another possibility, since I can't say for certain what your dreams are about. Perhaps the possible children your dreams speak about, represent ideas and possibilities you can bring to life, if you get over the ideas that prevent you from bringing them into life.

No disrespect, Alan.  But I do not understand why you would "banish" anything.   Sounds odd to me.  Maybe Sonia wants to learn more about this dream.  "Banishing" would not give her the opportunity.  Instead asking questions gives her opportunities to learn, imho.

communication from a child , to me, is all about love. Sort of like with a dog. No matter what, they love you. Especially when they are small. The need from them is as great as the love they give. Communication comes in many ways. Especially NVC. I didn't get the message, but to me it symbolised love as a child gives you. Love without a boundary, and unlimited. Perhaps ones of your self. I recall from one of your posts that your still young and have lots of years before child birthing will be out of the question. Perhaps its a communication of love from a future child that you will have...someone from a past life that you have an agreement to be with again and this is the best way for your time lines to come together is by being your child...or a potential child of yours that needs to incarnate so as to complete a need that they have in their new life. So many possibilities. Next time you have the opportunity to be engaged in this dream or in the communication, ask, and see if anything come back to you. Remember, NVC can be confusing and it is important to remember or write down what you see or hear so you can review it. It could come as ROTE and you will need to open it more than once to get the whole meaning.
Joe  

Sonia-

My dear friend and partner Janice used to say she heard voices telling her much the same about birthing. She used to say she thought it was the "little angels of motherhood" that I would never ever hear, being a man.

Many of my younger female friends "just want to have ababy." Perhaps you are more fortunate that these feelings have words for you. It is clear to me that you are very sensitive. Have you ever considered writing these messages down?

In some cases these are ascpects of our selves which we are in the process of retrieving and reclaiming. I used too be confused by hearing a baby crying until my parents told me as a teenager that I had had a younger sister who died....

Just thoughts. Remember that you are the Creator in them, and command them all. If they are fear-inducing, tell them to be gone! They have no power over you and cannot harm you in any way. ANd so it is.

Thomas