Hi SL,

There are some moments when words are not really enough.

However, there are those here who may be able to help, and you also can certainly help, simply by sending your loving thoughts to your brother. Let him know that whatever he needs to do is okay, that if he comes back you will be supportive, but that you understand if he needs to leave soon.

This is a difficult position for you to be in, but this is actually our reality while we are here on earth. None of us knows when we will be in a similar position, and modern medicine can allow miracles sometimes, as well as prolong situations for families.

I am asking for some resolution for you, in my prayers, and for insight. There are times when we must wait, in a state of loving patience, and I think this is one of them.

I understand that it can feel unbearable to sit and watch, to sit and wait. Think about this. If your brother can leave his body now, because of the damage done, we don't really know where he is or what he is seeing, or when.

If he is nearby, which he is, you can speak to him. You could write a letter while he sleeps. Post a sign in the room that says, "We love you."  You could play him some music that he loves, something peaceful, or just talk to him.

Be kind to yourself and your family right now. This is a terrible shock to you all.

We are here for you, love, blink

SL;
Sending love/healing energy to your brother and  family.
So be it for the good of all.

With love;Romain

I agree you can talk to him at his bedside just as if he can hear you, because he can. he can sense your presence from a higher level.

I know it's hard when someone leaves this planet and especially leaving children behind. I will be sending some prayer thoughts your way too.

Back in the 80's my husband was in a coma from an accident. he had passed out while driving his car. It was one of his exit points. We all have exit points, and I think you may be right, this is one of your brother's possible exit points. he may be with his disc members and guides discussing what to decide right now.
I decided to talk to Mike while he lay in a coma. I just poured my heart out that I wanted him to come back and guide our children into adulthood (we were divorced)

he came out of the coma a few days later, so I thought I had something to do with him staying with us. I was sure he heard me.

He only lived a year after the coma though. at age 42, I decided he really never meant to have a long life this time around. so long as we think the body is that person, we are going to have huge suffering when a family member exits. they are so much more than a body and they have their own life plans and exit points.

you seem to realize this, from your post. from losing Mike, even though I know he still lives in another dimension and even I've made some contacts with him, we are not able to escape the pain of losing them, but you can express love for them nonetheless right thru the anguish, you will find that in yourself. This they will receive and aides them tremendously to discover your devotion.

so good advice here, to write it down, or say it, right thru the grief of it all and place the note in the hands of an angel. it will get there.

hang in...it gets better, I promise.

Thank you all...
Thank you Blink, Vajra, Romain, DocM, LaffingRain and Betson.
Thanks to those who will come up later.
Thank you, good people for your support and almost a BLAST of positive and loving energy we have received.
Believe me or not , but that was the first morning after the accident and after I have posted here on the board, when all of us (family and the loved ones) woke up rested with a good feeling that something has changed for better...
Well, he is still in critical condition, but the first most difficult 72 hours are almost passed and there may be a hope for his return.
Anyway, I'm heading to to him as we are currently somewhat 6000 miles apart from each other (physically). Most likely I won't be on line for the next week or two...

I'll keep you posted,
LOVE you all,
SL

We're still with you and your brother, SL, surrounding him and his loved ones with love and healing.

Betson

It's over...

He's gone

Hold in there SL. Our thoughts are with you and your brother...