Excuse me if this is too long, or again if it's somehow 'political'.
Thanks for the opportunity to suggest the basis for an alternative positive vision though!!
I guess Alan that as we all know violence escalates. When the exchanges get going they are generally only ended by total defeat/victory or perhaps by stalemate.
The only way it normally can happen without the parties fighting themselves to a standstill (whether at individual, societal or national levels) is when one is brave enough, insightful enough and skillful enough to risk foregoing returning a blow to extend the hand of peace.
But this almost never happens. It requires a titanic act of foresight and will given that our entire culture and our lifelong conditioning legitimises violence, and is structured around rule of the fittest and winner takes all. Germany for example fought to almost total destruction in WW2, and still the leadership remained in power. The conditioning was so strong that people obeyed orders right to the end.
We don't normally train children in a right view, and to have the courage to set out to live it, we instead train them in conformity, and in the dog eat dog view. To as a result be fearful enough to need to dominate and outfight the other guy, but able to rationalise this as being not just OK but actually praiseworthy.
The popular culture (films, computer games, books, sports, myths) rams home the glamourisation of violence and winning (the zero sum game - getting ahead at the other guy's cost) to kids from almost before they can walk.
Business functions by rule of the fittest.
The law is trial by verbal combat between opposing sides in front of judges, the winner again takes all.
The caring professions often work on the basis of knowing better than the patient or family what's best for them, and will force 'treatment' if needed.
The police 'keep the peace' using force. (????)
We have military 'peacekeepers'.
The religious sing 'onward christian soldiers', and continue to ask God to 'bless our just war'.
Society is conditioned to accord respect and status to military service.
The military itself in training seeks to break down by aggressive means normal human empathy in recruits and to replace it with a brainwashed readiness to kill.
The state/nation is permitted to use the most extreme forms of compulsion and violence in order to collect taxes, force compliance and maintain its rule.
Those teaching an alternative view risk being seen as a threat to society.
Our politicians in the selfish pursuit of power almost never give leadership through adoption of a higher view - they inevitably pander to the big vested interests (military/industrial and related) that put them in power, and to the lowest common denominator in society. They've even invented a whole language to slip war past those of us with scruples, and collaborate with the media to get a platform - talking of defence, pre-emptive defensive attack (???) and relentlessly hyping fear.
Pandering to the lowest common denominator inevitably means responding to or manipulating the fears of the many still stuck in or at least not wholly released from a selfish dog eat dog view of life, and their demands that they be 'defended' or their interests looked after no matter how unrealistic their fears or at what the cost to others.
When there's a winner there's always a loser. This is the zero sum game. Co-operation in contrast makes possible outcomes where everybody does better.
This is unlikely to change while we wait for our leaders to act, and while we remain bound by the delusional belief system our cultures conditions most us into accepting. We're only ever going to see movement in the right direction when more and more people individually move beyond this conditioning to 'see' what's right, and become willing to in a practical way live out their convictions in normal life.
This is a change that's going to have to come from the bottom up, and will only be delivered when enough of us see past our conditioning to no longer be duped into the suspension of our own knowing.
This means our 'extending the hand of peace' as above, our taking the initiative in trying to live wisely through the alternative value system that is love.
None of this is original. Some spiritual teachers (people like Gjurdjieff and Richard Rose) have taught explicitly of the fact that spiritual development entails transcending these belief systems. It's implicit in the teaching of all the great traditions.
This in many ways is perhaps the fleshing out of some of what the hoped for step up in the consciousness of mankind might entail - a listing of some of the outmoded attitudes we might hope to leave behind.
It'd be so much more powerful Thomas if we could move it on to a set of positive developments to aim for all right, what we might replace it with.
I'm cautious about Utopian theories of how things should be given humanity's dodgy history in this regard. I wonder what the process is, if there's anything we can do other than be patient and try to stay on view and influence...