haven't read Fry's book but have read a number of other British medium's books and the general consensus is a yes to all your questions. babies transit very easily to the next plane; they have virtaully no resistance or fears, and their subconscious memories of being there before are very strong. They "grow up" on the other side, rather more quickly than here, but then everything happens more quickly there than here.
There's a lot of adopting babies over there; many folk who "die young" here and feel like they missed out on a lot wind up adopting over there, they're thrilled with this feeling of a second chance to be parents. I devote quite a bit of space to the process in my first book, Eternal Life And How To Enjoy It.
hope this helps.
I am currently reading Colin Fry`s latest book, Secrets From The Afterlife. Colin is a well known TV psychic medium in the U.K.
One passing of a 28 day old baby into the Afterlife where he is being looked after by his grandmother, as related to the baby`s parents by Colin, set my mind thinking.
Does the baby`s soul/spirit continue to develop or does it remain as a baby? If so, how is it to develop spiritually? Invariably when we read/hear of people who have passed over at an old age or with some deformity or infirmity they always appear perfectly normal and usually at a much younger age when they were at their best. This explanation appears perfectly plausible as it was the physical body which had the impediment and not the soul/spirit.
We are also told that when we pass over there are friends or relatives to welcome us into the Afterlife. Could these include a baby or child someone had lost many years ago? If so, would the child`s soul/spirit then be able to develop further, along with it`s parents, even though time, per se, does not exist in the Afterlife?
Could that soul/spirit also reincarnate?
I find this very intriguing and wonder what others thoughts are on this.
roger