Roho,

I am sorry for your loss and, although I have no way to understand your sorrow completely, I will hold you close in my thoughts during this difficult time...both you and your new child.

I feel sure that you will see your wife again, and that you will receive some kind of communication with her. I cannot say how and when it will happen, but my own experiences over time have led me to believe that this is so for me, and that it will be for you as well.

much love, blink 

dear Roho, your chances are good. be expectant to hear from her. this expectancy is like when you are listening..it has set up the mind to prepare to hear from her. it is like a hope that is nurtured. let yourself feel hope then.

when the time is right, she will be able to get through to you if you do not close down too tightly within despair feelings.

also heres a link to how to make contact: if you study this carefully, read every word, this worked for me. I would like to see your heart mended.

http://www.afterlife-knowledge.com/contact.html

Dear Roho,

My heart goes out to you and your family at this time of loss.  I am certain your wife and you will see each other when it is time for you to return home.

I also believe that she is never far from or your sweet baby boy. In him, I feel certain you will see her. Possibly when you least expect it, she will communicate her love for you both. Be open to receiving this gift from her.

Much love to you and your family.
Kathy

Hello roho,

My condolences for your loss.

I hope you can find help with the new responsibilities that are facing you. Maybe your county has social service agencies that can recommend what might work for you.

Like Recoverer, I and many of us have had contact with friends and family who have passed away. Such contact may not come immediately due to all that goes on in the afterlife.

Such contact pretty much has to be non-physical since she is in non-physical realms now. Please don't deny contact just because it shows up as 'dreams', 'mental telepathy,' 'wishful thinking,' etc.  It is way more than that!

Bets

Roho- My condolences for your loss. Reasons for things sometimes are obscure, but eventually will be made clear. There is excellent evidence from regression work that we are never truly separated, but merely the body has fallen off an otherwise living and active soul. At death we generally are reunited if we desire to be, and during life we are generally given indications of our loved ones nearby, even though invisible. Cricket's remarks are very much to the point.

dave

Hi Roho,
I`d like to extend strength and good thoughts to you re: the cross over of your wife.
Justin mentions Hemi-Sync. A few years after my father crossed over a very dear friend of mine whom is very versed in the Buddism way, gave me a Hemi-Sync gaget. At first I was very affraid of this electronic thingy ma jig, but thn again I am terrfiied of the dentist too..lol.. In other words I must considerably indentify myself with my brain..lol..anything getting too close to it I tend to keep away from...lol..

Anyway... I had it sitting in the closet for quite a long time scared of it... yet decided to pull it out about 6 months ago. I looked it up in the internet to see what it was for. Come to find out that its medically prooven that  Hemi-Sync helps and can eleviate pain and can also bring all the chitter chatter in ones mind to focus on calmness. I was having some serious sleepness nights and didnt want to resort to sleeping aids. I read that they also use this on ADD children and for other things too.

I`ve used it for a few months now, however I use it without the glasses, just the sounds and I tell you, I sleep like a baby does now. Some of the physical pains I had are for the most part gone. So I am a real believer in the help Hemi-Sync can give the human body.

I simply put the headphones on and allow the Hemi-Sync to reorganise the sparkes which the brain though trauma etc. has caused priorly.

Hugs,
Nanner

Hi Roho,

I'm so sorry to hear of you loss...my prayers go out to you, your wife and your son.  I know how difficult this time can be and what it feels like to lose your love.

I'd say she's already communicating with you and leading you to places and meeting people to help you understand how communication works.  There's a lot of great people here and a lot of great words that have been shared with you already.

I would say, just be open to hearing from her and you will.  Whether it's in a song that reminds you of her as you get in the car, that feeling that although you can't see her, you can feel her with you in that moment, when you see her in your dreams (and believe me, you will know that it is her and not just another dream)...also when your son seems to just be staring into the sky with a smile on his face and following something around, I believe that to be our loved one's and the angels whom they see and smile at.  : )

There's a great book by Bill and Judy Guggenhiem called Hello From Heaven, you might want to take a look at.  It's a book filled with peoples experiences of ADC's (after death communications).

Hugs,
Lea