Roho,

My hearts go out to you, especially having to raise your infant son without his mommy.  I know it is a hard, but rewarding journey for you. I hope you have a lot of support from other family members to help you raise your son.

Even though I have my husband, his parents, my parents to help me raise our son, I still complain how hard it is to raise a baby. Therefore, I cannot imagine what you are going through.

I hope you can share your story as your son grows each day. I would love to hear your strengths/weaknesses during all of this.

Stay strong,
Linh

I haven't yet had a sign although now I have some hope thanks to the good people who replied here.And I purchased the book "Hello from Heaven" but haven't read it yet.

My Maria was an angel.She was so good for this world...and to me.We never had a bad day together.With the birth of our boy;Ray,we became even more fortunate.I truly felt like the luckiest man in the world with her.She was so happy and proud of her beautiful baby boy.We had planned and dreamed of so many great things to do together as a family.

Now,however,I feel very unlucky
...but I'm keeping it together so that I can raise this boy and create a bond with him.I've been home with him for a month now,mostly alone,and it has been going OK.We're getting along well.I've had great help from public health nurses,the Victorian Order of Nurses and some friends.After another two months,I'll have to get back to work and find a caregiver for Ray.I know that it's not going to be easy to do it without Maria ...financially,mentally,emotionally...but I think I can raise him in a stable and comfortable environment and be a good father.



Every day I keep looking at photos of Maria and telling her that I love her (or at the sky or the ceiling and talking to her)over and over again with the hopes that she hears me.

Roho,

My heart breaks for you.  My wife of several years died seven months ago in a car accident (hit by a guy whose breaks went out).  Still seems like yesterday.  She drove off to work and never came back.

I believe it is certainly possible to make contact with them.  It was pointed out to me that people who have made the transition are still with us but they exist at a different vibrational level.  We can't see them but they can see us and do try to communicate with us.  We all live in the same "space".

One of the easiest ways they can contact us is through dream visitations.  These are not the kind of dreams that are made up the bits and pieces of our daily experiences.  You're not dreaming ABOUT them. These are real visits that leave little doubt in your mind that you have been with your loved one.  I have had two of them.  Before you go to sleep, talk to your wife and ask her to come to you.  Expect her to come.  Do it every night.  After she does come, write down your experience immediately.  And ask her to keep trying to get through in other ways as well.

Astral projection and out of body journeys are other ways to meet with them in convincing ways, but this takes a lot of practice.  Avoid mediums.  Some really make contact but sometimes it's with entities who are not who they claim to be.  Personal contact is much better and more convincing. 

Just some of my observations from personal experience.

Peace brother, you are in my prayers.  I do feel your pain.

Shining