Hi Alan and Bets- This is one of my favorite topics because it has a great deal to do with gravitation.
Permit me to make a suggestion here - prompted perhaps by one of the nameless science oriented spooks that periodically wander through my inner spaces.
Quantum mechanics tell us that their world is indeterminate, meaning that as we get closer and closer to the nitty gritty of an event we discover that it has a lot of loose ends the wander off into other places. That means that the location of the event is not fixed, but is smeared out over participatory states and other events, so that when we have finally done all the tracing and investigating, we find that every unique event, as tiny a picking your teeth after eating corn, is connected with everything in the universe. The way that this looks to us is that the event is statistically distributed over the entire cosmos.
It also means that if you hire a Quantum Mechanic to work on your car, he can only tell you when it's probably finished, because nothing is known absolutely and for sure.

If we look at a typical "bell curve" that depicts the statistical distribution of some event, we notice that the tails of the curve run right off the page to the right and left. In other words, the statistical distribution of the event is probable, although to only a tiny degree, at any point within the entire universe.
Now if you look in the mirror you will discover another event, your own presence. That too is distributed over all the points of the entire cosmo. Next time that you really feel scattered you might remember this - you are.
Now we have the event and also the observer distributed everywhere at once. Do we need to deal with the speed of light? I say, "No!" - And here's why. The statistical distribution of an event means that at some remote point there is a real and finite probability of the entire event being present at the point. The statistical aspect is made up by the fact that the event is only present for the fraction of existence suggested by the probability curve - so if the probability is 10
-9, then the event will effectively be present at that point one time in 10
9 times, or one instant out of a billion instants.
This is a sneaky, but statistically valid, way to bypass some of the restraints implied by Special Relativity. The way we avoid Lorentz contractions and light cones is to recognize that the statistical distribution of everything carries the present nature of the thing that's being distributed. What we might expect to get, using this type of vision, is a fractional image, either dim but continuous, or bright, but momentary, or some similar way to express the probability.
Now, let's look at the other way that things are indeterminate. An event can neither be pinned down in space, nor can it be pinned down in time. That means that we also exist at all instants over the entire duration of the cosmos. So, at least in principle, we might go back and watch Werner von Heisenberg shudder at the abuses we've made of his PhD disserrtation on indeterminacy.

Sorry Werner -
dave