
I wasn't intending to suggest you are a witch Nanner, but now that you mention it....
My take on this stuff is very hard to express. I've struggled before with wondering 'am I missing something' big. But this has eased. So this won't be a very satisfying answer. Maybe others have more to say on the subject.
We in a sense inhabit a moment of awareness, that's all. But as we meditate, study and reflect and gain experience the nature of that awareness evolves with insight and improved seeing. (or the opposite if we're on the ego path) Our 'view' (to use a Buddhist term) evolves.
This means that 'truth' such as it is is relative, and that as we progress along the path we'll come progressively to see higher truths. These can be quite prosaic (see the thread on social illusions I've just put up), or highly esoteric as we awaken to higher realities and start to deploy the insight and deep wisdom that this can if approached correctly bring.
What's ultimately required of us is that we learn, open, and evolve spiritually - that we shed the illusion of ego. What's required of us right this minute is that we work on whatever issues life is presenting us with to best develop our wisdom and compassion - our ability to live through love.
Every one of us gets a custom training course which karma makes sure responds exactly to our needs.
There's no magical high level formula that we need to know. The one requirement is that we take responsibility for ourselves and pro-actively set out down this road of working to become. You already know what to do, and if you get it wrong you'll get lots of feedback which will mean you'll know for the next time.
I'd caution that we're not necessarily required to do exceptional things, just live our lives right. Flowers are fine if they fit the situation, as is setting up a $20m charitable foundation, but just a form of acting if you're just role playing. Actually spiritual materialism in the latter case. (see the Chogyam Trungpa book reference in the thread on illusion)
God/higher mind has it in hand. Our task is to connect with and engage in the natural flow of life. The Tao. Not to meddle out of selfishness and lack of trust, and bugger things up.
We can progress faster if we meditate, study and reflect as above.
If we can do this lightly enough and with sufficient opening we eventually see that we don't actually need a road map. Just keep on asking the questions and life brings the answers you need....