I was just thinking as I was reading through a few posts here and I'm curious as to your responses.

I remember when my bf passed and I was in a tremendous amount of grief.  I was grieving for a long time actually, but it didn't interfere with my communications from him.  I had many dreams where he came to me and he came to me a lot in my waking life also.  I felt him, heard him and received many signs from him which some will call synchronocity. 

I will admit that although I believed it was him communicating with me, I sometimes wondered if it was all my grief that was bringing all that on.  I now know it wasn't, but it took me relaying messages to others for him and them being able to confirm it for me.  I was able to communicate things there was no way I could have known and it freaked some out and in one particular case it took 2 years for his brother to admit to me that i was right and stopped me from thinking I was losing my mind. 

I've heard over the years people telling people that once they release their grieving, they will be better able to receive the communications.  I don't necessarily believe that.   I mean I know it's not healthy for us to continue grieving over our loved ones and it's not what they want for us, but I tend to think that in those grieving moments we are able to express and feel the real love for that person which opens it up for us.  I know that has only been my experience.  I know also that we don't have to be in a grieving state to experience our loved ones communicating with us.  Guess I'm king of confused how it all happens, but i'm good with knowing that it does... : )

I was going to end this, but what just came to me, is that I used to be able to get into a meditative trance state at the drop of a hat.  Maybe it was more being in that state, than actually grieving, but i was doing both at the same time.  I also know from seeing a Reiki Master that I'm a good candidate for hypnosis and the such as I get into that state very quickly...apparently he was able to tell because of how my eyes flutter or something, i don't really remember.

Ok i'm just rambling now...lol These are just my thoughts that i wanted to share and see what others think on the idea.

Have a good day everyone,
Lea