Hi guys,
A girlfriend of mine burned herself till death. Over 90% of her body was burned. Interesting enough her face and hair was not touched at all. She, her husband were sitting at a bon fire in the evening like all the years prior and he decided to go inside the house, she said she`d come in shortly. Between 30-45 min later he realised that she hadnt come in yet and went back outside to get her, whileas he found her laying on her back roasted with smorring clothes. (I am not saying that to make it sound funny but he explains that she really looked that way okay) She was still alive and he naturally called for medical assistance. Her husband was immediately jailed. She has a little boy whom is now just turned 7.

They flew her in to a clinic where her last words were "The voices told me to do it".. and folks thats the only thing that kept her husband out of prision, for naturally the state solicitor presumed at first that this was murder. Until she had said exactly that.

What gets me is that "no one heard any screaming" and lord knows each of us pull back and say ouch when we barely burn ourself taking a freshly baked cake out of the oven, can you just imagine what she must have felt like - but she never screamed a second, so the neighbors and her husband testify. And they lived in a condo complex, meaning the apartments are door to door.  (Lots of poeple whom would have heard it if she screamed!) I find her soul must have OBE`d at a certain point of this.  

Anyway, I wish that everyone would take a moment in peace and send "Sandra" unconditional love, not judging her circumstance at all - just a moment of love for Sandra

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She was a quite, pulled back beautiful 29 year old lady dedicated to her husband and her little boy. I find she had a bright smile and was a good mother by all means and she was a good friend folks - never a instegater when a friend needed a ear, she never seemed to judge a persons circumstance, just had that shoulder.

Thanks for any comments and for sending love,
When one person hurts then it really means we all hurt, which also means when one person loves - we all love.

Nanner

Hi Dear Nanner,

My heartfelt condolences to you and her others.

Lucy posted a bizarre suicide on another forum here , and both remind me of a friend's daughter's method.  Do you know if Saundra was on any anti-depressants or any new medicine? That was a factor in my friend's case.

I'll send prayers to her and her family.

Bets

WTF? What 'voices' told her?
This is weird.
Sorry to hear it.

She would have to be OBE not to scream at that amount of pain.

Of course they would blame the husband right off.  9 out of 10 times it is the husband if you read the news anyways.

Dear Nanna this awful scenario really saddens and resonates with me deeply, because a dear friend of mine Willie Saunderson was burned over 90 percent of his body with first-degree burns by an exploding gas tank. By some miracle of God he survived after the most traumatic drawn out recovery of burns ever experience in my country. He now travels the world giving his testimony and the resulting profound near death experience of his. He has been in America many times... Strange his face is also unmarked except for his ears, which were burned off.

I will pray for the healing of the soul of you traumatized friend, may she rest in peace forever.

Love

alan

Juditha, for some reason its important for me to ask you to remember this young lady in your prayers.
Thanks,
Nanner

I'm so sorry to hear this Nanner.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend.