Alan and others -
While I don't believe you are looking for insight from others as much as just wanting to say your piece, I would like to answer some of the points brought up by the post, even if you don't necessarily take the time to read it.
Alan McDougall wrote on Dec 8th, 2007 at 2:59am:Yes you are all partially right:
Without darkness we can not know the light
Without evil we can not know good
Without hell we can not know paradise
Without the lie we can not know truth
Without hate we can not know love
Without death we can not know life
And so on and so on..............................................

Am I correct
Regards
Alan
This is simply not true. It is not necessary to have hate to know love for instance. While having experienced hate may bring love into sharper contrast, there is no necessity for it. It
is necessary to have the
ability to hate if we have the ability to love, however. For one to be able to do good, one must also have the ability to do evil. If you don't have both options there is no real free will involved and a creature is simply pleasant or nasty based on predestination, or instinct, or whatever, but is not morally good or evil.
Quote: If God is omni benevolent and all-powerful, why is there evil and suffering?
You assume that the greatest good that God could do would be to eliminate suffering, or that eliminating suffering is God's ultimate goal. This is somewhat incorrect. God's ultimate goal is to give free will to creatures so that they can develop more higher level good, namely virtue, than lower level good, which would be pleasure and fulfillment. In other words, its more important to God that we become loving creatures than that we have every physical / mental need met (at least for the time being). Its not saying that these lower level goods are not important - they are - but what is way more important is our character and how it develops throughout our lives.
Quote: Plagues floods and famines and is not all the result of human action.
You're right. There are two types of evil, moral evil (that comes about through actions as you and Don have mentioned) and there is natural evil, which is what you are getting at here. Natural evil exists because God must have a system where laws of nature and cause and effect are in play if there is going to be a stage where an amazing moral play of humanity unfolds.
Lets imagine this didn't happen. Let's imagine a flash flood simply changed its course rather than hit a village, violating the law of gravity. If this happened commonly, the laws of cause and effect would break down commonly, and it would no longer be a world that is an logical stage for real ethical and moral choices to play out. For instance, if someone's grandfather is abandoned in that village, the grandfather would normally die from the flash flood - that is a real consequence where moral and natural evil intersect. If floods were commonly diverted from villages, and the grandfather was abandoned, and the grandfather this time died, then the grandson could justifiably say to God 'I thought the water would be diverted' and it would make for a confusing existence where most of the time cause and effect were not in play, and real moral choices would no longer be possible.
Quote: The laws of physics do not seem to require that the universe have anything outside of itself to continue to exist.
While this may true, (1) the laws of the universe are finely tuned for the possibility of life to develop (which is incredibly unlikely given the infinity of possibilities), (2) there is reason to think there must be a creator outside of space and time that began the whole thing (because of the principle of sufficient reason & cause and effect), and because of the big bang, and (3) its useful to ask the question why are there laws at all? Why do we live in an orderly universe rather than a disorderly one? The explanation that makes sense for all 3 of these ideas is that God is a creator who made an orderly universe as a stage for the unfolding, meaningful interactions of life and moral choices. Physics and science, far from arguing against theism, greatly support it.
Quote: However, this is not the same as having a personal relationship with them. In a similar way, people have relationships with animals, maybe a cat. Nevertheless, this does not seem to be the same as a personal relationship, because of the great difference in the way the person relates to the animal and the way the animal relates to the person. Perhaps this is the kind of relationship envisaged with God
Instead of using an animal / human metaphor, which breaks down and doesn't work, lets use one that Jesus used often - a metaphor or simile of a father / son relationship. A young son can still make choices, and yes the father has greater understanding then the son. It is not a perfect analogy, but it is much more accurate than the person / cat analogy that you use. With the father / son analogy, both can make moral choices, which is very different than a human / cat - the cat cannot make moral choices. And the free will to be able to make moral choices is pretty much the foundation of the reason for the physical universe. And I will conclude here by saying that clearly a father and son can have a relationship.
Lastly, God being outside our physical space and time is a logical necessity since he was the cause of the beginning of space and time. This may be in a higher number of dimensions than we operate in. For example, imagine a person in his library. He can choose to read any number of books, and has his own form of time. This reader reads a story about a character, and in the character's book, their world, time is progressing linearly for them. Maybe the reader gets interested in what happens later and skips ahead to see what happens to the character. This is impossible for the character in the story, but may be totally possible for a reader not constrained by the space and time of the book itself.
And God envisioning suffering I have dealt with above.