Copyrighted Logo

css menu by Css3Menu.com


 

Bruce's 5th book, a Home Study Course, is now available.
Books & Tapes by Bruce Moen
    Bruce's Blog now at http://www.afterlife-knowledge.com/blog....

  HomeHelpSearchLoginRegister  
 
Pages: 1 
Send Topic Print
Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc (Read 10150 times)
vajra
Ex Member


Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Nov 25th, 2007 at 7:32pm
 
Wondering if any of you guys has experience with the above.

Tibetan Buddhist groups go for retreats of frequently one month, and of up to three years on occasion.

One also reads accounts of meditation for periods of a week and the like in rooms that are completely dark and fully soundproofed - essentially sensory deprivation chambers.

I'm wondering how much effect these may have as  means to create opening or progress one towards deeper insight, and what the variables may be....
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
LaffingRain
Super Member
*****
Offline


Choose this Day

Posts: 5249
Arizona
Gender: female
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #1 - Nov 26th, 2007 at 1:43am
 
well no, not exactly, but have been some pretty dark rooms I've been in, in my own bedroom at time...a  dark night of the soul.

in a society like ours, there are not many opportunities if one works every day for that kind of intense focus, but if one is wanting a spurt of forward thrust, tell the cable guy to disconnect the cable for a couple of months  Wink one naturally finds one's self thrust into what the meaning of life is..and from there you can see what habits we are addicted to and might even lead to soul searching which is good thing all in all.

but on the side, some can afford TMI, or other like programs. TMI has sound proof rooms and so do many other programs.
like a little waterbed in there, in a booth I hear. very dark, and then you wear the ear phones which make tones across the brain, making both sides work together for various journeys.

these are a week or two type trips among the like minded. then when you get home, you feel the internal changes beginning. and one your mind has had the two sides brought into alignment with the tones, the memory of how it felt, is recorded and you can slip into these focus areas much easier at home through the memory of how it felt, it makes meditation much easier.

Group type spiritual things are good if everyone knows what they are there for, even AA meetings will induce spiritual/psychological growth patterns as they force you to be honest. I've never been to one, but from AA meetings I was involved in the children of the parents for awhile, had their own little group because they had to deal with parents who drank.

thanks for the post, are u thinking of doing a retreat?
alysia



Back to top
 

... Who takes away death's sting deprives life of bitterness
WWW http://www.facebook.com/LaughingRain2  
IP Logged
 
ultra
Full Member
***
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 119
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #2 - Nov 27th, 2007 at 3:57am
 
Hi vajra,

I am not able to comment on the specific items you mentioned, but I have been practicing meditation for some years and would make the following general comments:

Like with anything, practice (and receptivity) builds capacity.
If you want to run a marathon, it will definitely help to put in a few miles before the big one.

These sound like very serious sessions. In pitch black darkness or total sensory deprivation, there is nothing for the mind to use as a focus, which is a very effective way of 'occupying' it, or 'inspiring' it, so your consciousness can do what it needs to do and 'go for a ride'. I would consider extended periods of meditation in that kind of environment a somewhat 'advanced course', since using a visual aid, walking, chanting, or music make things generally much easier, although in some cases those things can also be a limitation to entering yet higher states. In other words it sounds very difficult, but if one has trained sufficiently, why not?

(and yes as mentioned, periodic group meditation does help to inspire and reinforce one's individual practice)

Then there is another very important factor of quality.
According to some teachers and also by my concurring experience, 10 minutes of one's own highest meditation is far superior to 3 hours of drifting in and out of sleep, fully nodding out, day dreaming, wishful thinking, or being dragged along by a racing mind. Even frequent powerful meditations of short duration (like 3 minutes, even 1 minute) dispersed intermittantly throughout the day can be more effective in elevating one's general consciousness than one mediocre session of a half hour or hour.

Getting back to the running metafore - Meditation, like a good single workout can have an immediate effect, but also a cummulative one in the case of a regular practice, so even shorter increments can build capacity. But sometimes it helps to do something like a marathon to 'force' yourself to train seriously and to exceed present capacity. Then all the theory can be put to the test.

I have often undertaken long meditation sessions in groups and on my own, and I know that if done well, something very significant can be achieved.

Then there is yet another issue of assimilation and retention...

In any case, I wholeheartedly recommend to anyone, any sincere practice of meditation (which I would guess you already do on a regular basis anyway), as a primary vehicle of self-transformation/discovery, etc.. It is also imho, the simplest, most accessible, and one of the most effective forms of selfless service there is on this Earth, for this Earth.

be well,

- u
Back to top
 

"What the soul sees and has experienced, that it knows; the rest is appearance, prejudice and opinion."
   - Sri Aurobindo
 
IP Logged
 
DavidLay
Junior Member
**
Offline



Posts: 71
Gender: male
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #3 - Nov 27th, 2007 at 5:17am
 
I have attempted to meditate in my waking hours. Usually if I'm up at an odd hour like 4 AM and I think of trying it I will go into the living room with all the lights off, breathe deeply and think about the breathing. Sometimes I will get a slight calm. Haven't been able to keep it up long enough for anything big to happen even though I have prayed for guidance and had resulting dreams within a few days to a week. Since it is impossible for the mind to not think of anything at all, I'm told that the best thing to think about during meditation is the breathing itself although with my autism, I get constant irrational thoughts every minute or so that I haven't figured out how to stop yet. Perhaps that may have something to do with the meditation difficulties.

And I can vouch for the retreat away from home making things slightly easier. I often forget about all my problems when I'm not at home. There is something about being away that causes thoughts of what is going on in life, namely stressful things, those thoughts seem to be noticeably less intense. My 2 cents on the matter.
Peace,
David
Back to top
 
fixationdavid xavitotoenailx  
IP Logged
 
vajra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #4 - Nov 27th, 2007 at 8:02am
 
Thank you for the thoughts guys. I guess my situation is that I've a reasonably well established meditation practice that got started in the early-mid 90s. These days I do around 40 min most evenings and sometimes a bit in the morning as well. I don't watch much TV Alysia (it's mostly awful, and can trigger quite painful feelings), but found that if I didn't look at the news the odd time that I got out of touch.

getting stabilised and bringing it out into everyday life is the fun bit as you say David, but it does seem to start to happen spontaneously with time. The stability starts eventually to emerge, but you can't will it into existence. Correct technique is as U says important - it's about  'not doing' and it's mostly about resting just a little of your attention on the breath. The idea is just to keep the mind occupied, but not to introduce enough complexity to get it going. It's not as you know about willpower, that just pumps more energy in.

There are meditative methods for dealing with an unruly mind - what in Shambhala is called close placement. Eyes down to a point on the ground about 1.5m ahead, awareness resting lightly on both the in and the out breath. This can create an effect which for the observer (meditator) is like watching a ping pong ball in a goldfish bowl - it somehow really locks down thoughts as they arise. Raising the gaze and making less use of the breath (following only the outbreath with a slightly lowered gaze and eventually just an open gaze)  is more difficult, but is the way towards bringing it out into life.

Should you be interested these are taught in the wholly non religious Shambhala levels 1 - 5 taught at most centres. http://www.shambhala.org/shambhala-training.php They teach a view of the world, but also the above meditative techniques.

Having got into serious problems with not having a clue how to look after myself, being stressed out, overwork, lousy diet and what turned out to be thyroid and dental mercury related chronic fatigue my path quickly led to meditation. I probably owe my life to the stability, easing of the a lack of belief in myself and ultimately the joy it's brought into my existence. I started from a book, but after several years found my way to Buddhism which while it can be a little ritual heavy and culture specific is an amazing source of practical teachings that work.

All your observations about group sessions are so true - moral support helps so much. I know that my Buddhist group has become a big part of my life. We get lots on the importance of quality rather than quantity too Ultra, and I think it's true.

I've done several week long retreats or similar. One with a Zen group, one TMI Gateway in Spain, and
one with Shambhala. The first day or so is a little tough I find, but by late the second or third some sort of groove has got established which deepens. The feeling seems for me to peter out over a couple of weeks after I get home. Gateway was very profound, it started me down a road of working with raising energy/vibration which has helped so much with heart opening, insight, and experience.

I guess I'm trying to find the means to get to a month long retreat next (a dathun in Shambhala terms), am interested in trying the dark and am curious as to whether these longer/different sessions are qualitatively different in any way.

Sounds like the dark may allow rather more esoteric experience U....
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
AhSoLaoTsuAhhOmmra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #5 - Nov 27th, 2007 at 1:00pm
 
Quote:
Wondering if any of you guys has experience with the above.

Tibetan Buddhist groups go for retreats of frequently one month, and of up to three years on occasion.

One also reads accounts of meditation for periods of a week and the like in rooms that are completely dark and fully soundproofed - essentially sensory deprivation chambers.

I'm wondering how much effect these may have as  means to create opening or progress one towards deeper insight, and what the variables may be....



  It (extended periods of darkness and sensory deprivation) seems to have the affect of stimulating the Pineal gland, which is the gland which resonates with and is connected to the 3rd eye/Anja consciousness center. 

  But, that consciousness state is a rather passive one, and is one of perception primarily.  Perception and passiveness does not lead to real spiritual growth in a direct sense, though it can facilitate real service and practice in ones day to day life.   Hence its important and necessary, but shouldn't become the primary focus.

  However, the above is just another outer 'prop' like any other, though somewhat different than the others.   Any tuning out of the physical and using one's imagination in an active and trusting sense, stimulates and opens the Pineal gland as well.    The above practice seems to 'force' it more so, and in a sense is similar to but safer than taking DMT or any chemical compound which strongly stimulates the Pineal gland.    But do either, or any outer method actually bring spiritual growth?  Can anything outside of us bring same?

  If you want the affect of long retreats, without the actual time and dedication of same (which is an important aspect of same, probably the most growth fostering aspect of same in actuallity), then just wear a largish piece of a deep indigo blue piece of Azurite and during meditation put in on your third eye area.   This also stimulates the Pineal gland and quite strongly.   But again, it's just a prop, it doesn't directly bring any real growth.   

  To me, what brings real growth is constant daily service with little thought of the separative self.

  A perfect illustration in this concept is Bob Monroe's account of meeting He/She in his last book Ultimate Journey.   One of the things that He/She tells Bob about their life, is that they spend practically every minute of their physical, linear time in service to others and working many, many different jobs.    Since He/She doesn't need to eat nor sleep anymore, then its safe to assume that He/She doesn't do this for the money as we say.   The reason that He/She gives is they like people.   

  This, this is true service and what brings the development of one like He/She.  He/She doesn't seem to need to meditate anymore in the sense that we do, their whole life has become one pure and active meditation (active meditation is being directly involved with others in the day to day life).    A person can sit alone in the dark for aeons in meditation and not remember full Source consciousness like He/She realized.    If fact, such over passive practices can block the full realization of the Soul's deepest desire if one becomes over attached to and spending most of their focus on.   

Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
recoverer
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 5027
Gender: male
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #6 - Nov 27th, 2007 at 1:37pm
 
I've found that one doesn't need to meditate for hours and hours in order to accomplish something. It is better to find a way to become free of the ideas that limit us, so we naturally abide in a spiritual state, even while we are active.

I've found that sitting around in a bliss state doesn't help me lose limiting ideas. If anything, doing so prevents me from taking a look at the ideas that limit me.

There have been occasions where I would be in a bliss state for a while during meditation, and suddenly my spirit guidance would show me imagery of people sharing love in different ways. I understood why. Despite how bliss feels so good, love is even sweeter. I've had experiences and received messages which told me that in the end we all share an expansive state of love and oneness. Such a state is much more enlivening than a bliss state.

When I used to read Milarepa, I used to wonder why he spent so much time sitting in a cave meditating. If he was really meditating, why would he have to meditate in such a way for years? If he wasn't really meditating, then what was the point of sitting around in a cave for years meditating? Perhaps we come to this World so we can learn by partaking in it, rather than isolating ourselves from it.
Back to top
« Last Edit: Nov 27th, 2007 at 8:29pm by recoverer »  
 
IP Logged
 
PhantasyMan
Senior Member
****
Offline



Posts: 266
Québec
Gender: male
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #7 - Nov 30th, 2007 at 9:13am
 
Hi Vajra

  There is modern taoist master, named Mantak Chia that offers darkness retreat.  In the documentation on his website, it's is written that after 2 weeks in total darkness, the pienal gland would awake and produce a huge amount of DMT molecule. 

  The gland produce this molecule at low level when we're asleep and dreaming.  It is known as the spiritual molecule. 

http://www.universal-tao.com/Darkness_Technology.pdf
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
vajra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #8 - Nov 30th, 2007 at 9:29am
 
Thanks PM, will take a look...

OK Have downloaded and printed all 61 pages. Amazing the overlaps between traditions. This guy is a Taoist. Looks really interesting in that it's into the biochemistry and physiology of altered states as well - it's got loads to say that may be of interest to anybody in that space.

Dave?
Back to top
« Last Edit: Nov 30th, 2007 at 1:55pm by N/A »  
 
IP Logged
 
LaffingRain
Super Member
*****
Offline


Choose this Day

Posts: 5249
Arizona
Gender: female
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #9 - Nov 30th, 2007 at 3:12pm
 
hi PM..I couldn't open that link (mac user quicktime problems) so I googled universal tao and would like to share this link to a truckload of articles related to Tao concepts, looking forward to reading these articles of diverse content. Alan Watts is even there with an article. as well physical approaches to spiritual body constitution. I'm a big fan of PH proper balance in the body.
thanks!

http://www.universal-tao.com/article/index.html
Back to top
 

... Who takes away death's sting deprives life of bitterness
WWW http://www.facebook.com/LaughingRain2  
IP Logged
 
vajra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #10 - Nov 30th, 2007 at 10:47pm
 
I've just finished a first quick reading PM. Interesting stuff, and well worth the read. Thank you. There's echoes of Tibetan Buddhist practices in there too, although at a level I don't have meaningful knowledge of. They as you know basically offer dark retreats of around a month in a specially built facility in Thailand.

The website is www.universal-tao.com

Trouble is I struggle to make any kind of reasonable assessment of it as I know nothing about Tao (but ideas discussed seem in some ways very similar to Buddhist) and even less about biochemistry. It kind of raises at first hand the issues in the threads on guidance. Sounds like something to keep an eye on for a while.

Do you know of anybody who has experience??
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Michelle E
New Member
*
Offline



Posts: 15
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #11 - Dec 2nd, 2007 at 2:21am
 
Recoverer, I have wondered the same thing; does solitude bring you closer or further detached? I have observed in myself this dilemma. I work, have a husband, two daughters, and go to school on-line. I crave and need quiet alone time but too much of it and I find myself resentful at the interruption even if I have been alone for some time. I have often wished that I could be a monk with nothing to do but sit and think but I believe now that it would not bring me any closer to what I desire which is to be able to be quiet in the midst of chaos. I want to feel inner peace but not at the cost of detachment from the ALL. I believe that we are All One and want to be a part of it. I want to have patience and have PUL for everyone. How would solitude bring me that? Does higher awareness bring us closer to our fellow man or only make us set our sights on what awaits us?

Sorry to change the subject.

With Love,
Michelle
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
blink
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #12 - Dec 2nd, 2007 at 9:25am
 
How would any of us understand all of what someone received from sitting in a cave for a long time unless we did the same?

It is a special experience, I am sure, as this type of isolation has been specifically taught as constructive for many people in history.  I believe that long retreats must be restorative, instructive...and also transformative.

Anyone who lives in society understands that it is full of distractions to someone needing a quiet environment in order to learn and create. I believe that this kind of separation has nothing to do with the amount of love someone has for others.

Some of us must be willing to take these trips....and then to come back and tell the others.

love, blink Smiley
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
vajra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #13 - Dec 2nd, 2007 at 11:46am
 
Hi guys. I think i'd echo Blink's comment. Perhaps the issue is basically that the Grace/intuition/knowing/access to the true nature of mind that brings higher consciousness/loving behaviours/wisdom/genuine intuitive knowings comes in on a very low strength signal.

One which gets drowned out against the babble of compulsive egotistical thought that fills most of our heads pretty much all of the time.

It's said that meditation/monastic life/retreats/isolation in caves or whatever/darkness potentially play at several levels to help us to receive this signal.

In normal life we're continuously faced with the need to respond to our environment, and these responses are inevitably driven by selfishness. That's not a judgement, just a statement of the inevitability of the fact that we cannot normally by act of discursive intellect/thinking mind somehow magically decide to make decisions which transcend/place us outside of the whole logical framework on which the very perception of self that allows such thought is built.

You can't for example quiet your thinking mind by direct application of willpower. Any more than you can directly apply willpower to the act of 'not thinking'.

This is the mechanism that (normally, see below) no matter how unhappy we become keeps us trapped in this self reinforcing reality. Samsara in Buddhist terms.

This inevitably means that the most available way for most of us to tune into the low volume higher knowings above is by placing ourselves in conditions where ego thought are slowed, and eventually stilled.

The alternative (as enlightenment experience) seems to happen spontaneously in only a very few (e.g. Eckhardt Tolle) - life seen through the egotistical lens becomes painful enough to trigger some sort of rejection of this way of seeing - a reboot of consciousness. Once we make this break it seems we no longer perceive through the filter of ego view and so can not be taken in by it again.  Trouble is most of these seem to have first served their time on the 'slow' road'.

The theory is that the various methods listed above help create circumstances that make the gradual stilling easier. Monastic life eliminates most of the need to worry about life issues and removes most external stimuli. (unless you happen to be a Burmese Buddhist monk  Smiley) Meditation is effectively the practice of not doing, and more importantly of not thinking. Mind settles slowly over time, even when meditating. So more extended periods of meditation as in retreats and isolation allow for further settling. Extended retreats in darkness are I guess the ultimate in bringing together of all the factors.

The above booklet proposes a biochemical framework that underpins this shutting down.

What's the reality of this? I'm not sure. My experience is that a week's meditation retreat definitely produces a  stilling that develops all week - there seems no reason why it should not continue. This stillness carries for some weeks after the retreat, and in fact seems to produce some sort of real ongoing change in the individual. Tibetan Buddhism regards multi year retreats as an essential part of spiritual development - albeit only when one reaches a defined stage of development.

I don't know for sure, but it's probably a dynamic process. When for example we indulge the sub personalities in our ego (the pain body/victim, the bully, greed for wealth/power whatever), especially when we do this intensively we pour energy into and build ego in a manner which presumably can reverse the benefit of whatever meditation and other spiritual work we do.

We drive ourselves deeper into Samasara and cut ourselves off from the Grace/love/higher mind that's necessary for happiness...

Yet another reason why lightness, openness and spaciousness of view are such an important part of the spiritual life......
Back to top
« Last Edit: Dec 2nd, 2007 at 12:48pm by N/A »  
 
IP Logged
 
vajra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #14 - Dec 2nd, 2007 at 9:28pm
 
Some more sources of information on darkness retreats:

The first references approaches to darkness across many traditions. The link at the top of that page goes to a very interesting page which outlines some historical insights into Tibetan Buddhism - including the view that it originally came from Persia, and evolved into modern Mahayana and Zen forms.


http://www.angelfire.com/vt/OkarResearch/darkretreat.html

http://www.wisdom-books.com/ProductDetail.asp?PID=12713

http://www.hermitary.com/articles/david-neel.html
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
recoverer
Super Member
*****
Offline


Afterlife Knowledge Member

Posts: 5027
Gender: male
Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #15 - Dec 3rd, 2007 at 2:29pm
 
Hello Michelle:

I look at it this way. As spirit beings we are a combination of awareness and creative mind energy. When we begin to exist we don't know how to make use of our creative mind energy.  A means had to be provided where each of us could learn to make use of our creative mind energy in our own way. One way of learning to make use of it in a manner that truly makes us happy and is beneficial to others, is to live the physical World we find ourselves in.

Sitting in meditation at times might have some value, but most of us have probably incarnated into this World for the learning opportunities it provides. For example, if one has familial responsibilities, this provides one with the opportunity to learn to love unconditionally and make peace and happiness an inner thing, while involved with trying conditions.

There are three main things that make such a learning experience challenging. First of all, each of us has a natural inner yearning to have security, happiness, peace, love, oneness, and the knowledge that makes it possible to have these qualities, in our lives. Secondly, each of us has an animalistic self defense instinct that gets irritated in various ways when we don't get the qualities we're looking for. Three, we have the challenge of relating with other people who also have to deal with one and two.  Unless one completely overcomes one and two, which includes the challenge of overcoming one's sex drive since it is connected to number two, it'll become difficult for one to consistently feel love, happiness and peace, no matter what conditions one finds one's self in.

THIS IS OKAY! Smiley It is okay, because for most people it isn't expected nor required that they become perfect masters while in the physical World. What is important is that one uses the play of opposites that exist in this World, to develop the thought patterns that enable one to use one's creative thought energy to create love.

When one leaves this World, one will move onto a better place where things aren't so challenging and the beings they live with are love generators.  One will also leave the thought patterns behind that provide one's body with its survival instincts. It is true that some people get attached to such survival instincts, perhaps in the form of sexual addiction, and they'll have some work to do before they move to a higher level. But if one basically tries to live according to love and be balanced about things as best as possible, one will be fine.

What I've written might seem unusual. Lately I've been wondering where love comes. Yes, I believe it comes from God, but I also believe that we are all parts of God. If we don't live according to love, then our portions of God don't use our creative/mind energy to create love. Once we learn to do so on a fairly consistent basis, as I wrote above, we'll get to move onto a realm where other beings vibrate so they create love consistently, and share it with other beings who also create love consistently.

Or in other words, as long as you have opportunities to grow in love, you should be okay. Regarding having periods of time to just simply think about things, all one can do is use the rare moments one does have, as best as possible.



Michelle E wrote on Dec 2nd, 2007 at 2:21am:
Recoverer, I have wondered the same thing; does solitude bring you closer or further detached? I have observed in myself this dilemma. I work, have a husband, two daughters, and go to school on-line. I crave and need quiet alone time but too much of it and I find myself resentful at the interruption even if I have been alone for some time. I have often wished that I could be a monk with nothing to do but sit and think but I believe now that it would not bring me any closer to what I desire which is to be able to be quiet in the midst of chaos. I want to feel inner peace but not at the cost of detachment from the ALL. I believe that we are All One and want to be a part of it. I want to have patience and have PUL for everyone. How would solitude bring me that? Does higher awareness bring us closer to our fellow man or only make us set our sights on what awaits us?

Sorry to change the subject.

With Love,
Michelle

Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
AhSoLaoTsuAhhOmmra
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #16 - Dec 4th, 2007 at 2:25pm
 
  I know this doesn't have to do with long retreats, but since its about meditation i would like to share.   Someone recently asked me about meditation and for a good book on it.   This was my answer, and thought it might be helpful for some to share publicly.

"Hi, i don't know of any one particular book that i would recommend for meditation, but you don't really need a book to learn and do same.   It's pretty easy and natural, especially once you learn to consistently practice it.  It's like anything in life, the more you practice the better you get.

   Some tips.   Get in a relaxed, comfortable position but with your spine straight in a quiet, distraction free environment.   So, you can lay down, sit on a chair, or sit more cross legged on the floor as in a lotus type yoga position.   I find that doing yoga neck exercises first before lying down, sitting, etc. tends to help loosen up and straighten my spine/back and neck before going into the actual meditation.  We tend to store a lot of tension in our necks and upper shoulder areas.   This helps to relax and loosen this up. 

  Ok, once you are more physically relaxed and comfortable, now it's time to get your mind and left brain more relaxed and passive.   Some people do this by focusing on the breath at first, breathing deeply but naturally too, there is not need to overly force it.   I like to say an affirmation before i really open myself up.   Sometimes it's just a quick one, like i deeply desire and ask that the Light, energy, and love of Source surround, envelope, and fill me up while i am opening myself up in meditation.     I may ask for help and assistance of only constructive, creative, and spiritual energies in helping me during meditation and in life in general.   

  Sometimes i ask to be shown anything of which i need to work on or be more aware of, so that i can grow more.  This doesn't always come right away, sometimes i'll have a dream later for example, which is an answer, or will be led to the right book or person.   Other times i get more direct and fast answers through strong but subtle feelings, images, or words.  Or a combination of any of the above. 

  Importantly, i always give and feel gratitude and appreciation to these sources before and after for their help, and i bring up feelings of love and appreciation for Creation and for Source, i especially thank Source/the Creator for the wonderful gift of being a conscious, self aware being with gift of Freewill, and i ask to be helped so that i can use my freewill in a more conscious and constructive way.   This latter stuff is more like prayer than meditation. 

   This isn't stressed too much in Eastern teachings, or in most books on meditation out there, but there is no point in becoming receptive, still, and passive, unless one seeks to fill oneself up with positivity, light, and constructive intents, awarenesses and feelings.    Becoming passive and receptive in and of itself, will not help people too much.   We become quiet inside, so that we can hear the still small voice of the Source within, and to help actively program the subconscious mind in a more positive, constructive way with an emphasis on positivity, creative, loving thoughts, feelings, and intents.   

  There is an important cyclic pattern in meditation and prayer.  In mediation we empty, still, and clear ourselves, and in prayer we fill ourselves up with what we want to be, want to become, and know that we are truly beneath the temporal illusionary creations. 

  Ok, to simplify it again, just get physically and mentally relaxed.  This helps you to become more receptive, sensitive, and impressionable--it brings the subconscious self to the fore.  Come up with some kind of positive affirmation, similar to the one i mentioned above.   Open up self under that intention, direction, motivation, and desire.  Become still, and then most importantly of all, fill yourself up with what you want to become and be more of, what you know is your and others core reality.  Sincerely give thanks at some point.


  There are other aids along the way.  I often use an energy charge up and balancing method before i get really still, which i've found to be very powerful.  It seems to have a direct affect on the endocrine glands in the body, which relates to the energy centers oft called "chakras"    Some call it toning, others call it chanting.  It too is simple, basically deep in your throat, make some vowel sounds.    Experiment with it, go with the flow and be intuitive about it.   

  You might want to try some more specific toning patterns, as in OhhhMmmmmm, AhhhhOoohhMmmm, ArrrrEeeeeeOoohMmmm, or AhhhOhhUoommm.    Try different scales and pitches, see what works best for you.   I like to sometimes go from a low, gutteral Ahhh, to an ever increasingly higher pitched vibration especially towards the Mmmm part which gets really high.   This really vamps up my energy.   Whooo Ahhh is another good one (thanks Bruce and TMI).

  Again, experiment with different vowel sounds, pitches, and different combinations.   Ask your guidance to lead you to what's most beneficial for you, and just feel it out.   Both the guidance energies that came through the explorers at The Monroe Institute, and the guidance energies that came through the psychic Edgar Cayce, highly recommended the practice of some form of toning/chanting, but not in a fixed or dogmatic way, such as some eastern practicer's and teachings are known for (like chanting a specific Guru's name over and over again).   Hope this helps.
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
blink
Ex Member


Re: Long Retreats, Meditation in Darkness etc
Reply #17 - Dec 4th, 2007 at 3:14pm
 
Guided meditations are nice, and can train your thoughts to a certain extent, helping you to meet specific psychological, physical or spiritual goals. I think they are also good for simply getting into a desired state of mind quickly.

Finding something worthwhile, pre-recorded - and there are so very many choices - is a good place to start. There is no need to fear being hypnotized. You'll feel uncomfortable, or even bored or annoyed, if the presentation is wrong for you, and no need to use that one, in that case.

love, blink Smiley
Back to top
 
 
IP Logged
 
Pages: 1 
Send Topic Print


This is a Peer Moderated Forum. You can report Posting Guideline violations.