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The intent of these Conversation Board forums is to provide a safe, pleasant environment for members to share their experiences, understandings, wonderings and questions regarding our afterlife, its exploration, and exploration of other nonphysical realities. The Posting Guidelines are provided to serve as the means of keeping these forums aligned with their intent. But, without proper moderation it is too easy for these forums to become less able to serve their intended purpose as a pleasant place to visit and to your share experiences and questions.

The high volume of postings to all of its forums presents difficulties in this regard, namely, locating and identifying posts that violate the Posting Guidelines and make this a less pleasant place to visit. Using the Peer Moderator concept I hope that the content of these forums will more clearly reflect the desire of members to have a pleasant, safe, on-topic place to visit.

What is a Peer Moderator?

A Peer Moderator is someone who would like these forums to be the safe, pleasant place to visit and share that they were originally intended to be.

A Peer Moderator is someone who has read and understands the latest version of the posting guidelines for these forums and would like to see the guidelines enforced.

A Peer Moderator is someone who would prefer to have posts that violate the posting guidelines removed as quickly as possible. We all know how easy it is for an over-the-line post to develop into a long and pointless argumentative thread.

A Peer Moderator is someone who reads the posts on these forums and recognizes those that violate the posting guidelines.

What does a Peer Moderator do?

When you are reading the posts on these forums, when you come across a post that you feel violates the Posting Guidelines, report it to the Peer Moderator Administrator. Just click on the Peer Moderator Input link at the bottom of any forum page. You will be brought to a page with a simple form you can fill in boxes with the Thread Title, Post Title, and the Post's Author's Name. There is also a place for you to type in any comments you wish to add. When you click the "Send E-mail" button at the bottom of the form the information will be sent to the Peer Moderator Administrator. The Administrator will make a determination regarding the violation and any enforcement measures to be taken.

What happens after you send the email?

Sending the email does two things. First, it calls the administrator's attention to posts that may violate the posting guidelines. Second, your email counts as a vote for the administrator to take action on posts that do violate the posting guidelines. A flurry of votes about a particular post that may violate the guidelines is a strong statement about what visitors see as violation.

What happens to posts that you report?

The Administrator will determine what happens to such posts based on several factors. A post that clearly violates the guidelines may be moved to the "Off Topic Posts Forum" or removed from the site altogether, depending on the severity of the violation and the amount of input received by the administrator.

Will the post originator be notified of removal?

A short note may be sent to the post's originator to let them know the post has moved due to Peer Moderator's review. If banning is determined to be the correct action, when the violator attempts to login they will be informed of the duration of their ban and the reason.

I encourage you to help make these forums a pleasant place to visit by calling attention to problem posts. Become a Peer Moderator by adding your voice to others interested in making this a better place.

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Reply #1 - Nov 19th, 2007 at 8:13pm
 
Since this is an afterlife knowledge forum, hopefully it is a place where people are free to write about something they have discovered. Especially when they have discovered that a source of information asserts to come from a being such as Christ, when it doesn't.

Alysia,  I don't believe it is appropriate for you to start a thread like this simply because a person speaks honestly about how they feel about something you aren't willing to question. If such a protocol was followed, nobody would be free to question things with honesty. Why is it okay for you to repeatedly refer people to ACIM, but other people can't speak against it when they have found differently than you?

Sometimes people do more harm by not being critical and accepting pretty much anything, than those who choose to use discernment.
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Reply #2 - Nov 19th, 2007 at 8:48pm
 
recoverer-

I agree.  This thread is out of line.  If Alysia feels that someone has violated the posting guidelines, she should so indicate.  If there hasn't been any violations, there was no need for the thread.

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Reply #3 - Nov 19th, 2007 at 9:32pm
 
We've already been over this ground Recoverer. Go ahead break a leg if you want to speak against any channelled material but one day you may discover it is yourself who does the damage to others.
I stand where I always stand. The Course is the Christ consciousness speaking through Helen's pen. IMHO. and in my heart. I share my heart. It is my path. and say what you want against it, but I would like you to preface your words with "in my opinion."

this way we can respect each other's beliefs. As a matter of fact I would be dead right now and not be here happily telling my truth if it were not A course in Miracles.

I believe in miracles because I am one. thank you for the read.

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Reply #4 - Nov 20th, 2007 at 5:14am
 
Alysia, as you are an Administrator I would add that some may not think your links to your three sites are appropriate. After all, it could be considered as advertising, whereas this board of Bruce`s is meant for discussion. The links appear in every posting of yours.
Personally, I think mentioning a book, author, whatever, is o.k. but advertising with links???
No offence meant, by the way.

roger Smiley
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Reply #5 - Nov 20th, 2007 at 8:42am
 
C'mon guys.  Wink Some of us are at risk of descending into squabbling opposing factions, each intent on forcing their view on each other. Or if they can't manage that on somehow undermining the other.

I don't have a problem with what Alysia posted, it seems to me like she was just drawing our attention to the above and to how the board is supposed to work. And to its guidelines.

There has been a hardening of tone in recent weeks. I've posted on this already but to elaborate.

I'm a very new member but I value the board and would be very disappointed to see it damaged. It  seems to me that it was never intended to be tradition specific - the intention was surely for it to foster respectful, open and constructive discussion of 'non-ordinary' experience from all.

It seems to me too that if we can't as a bunch of supposedly 'spiritual' people find it in ourselves to behave in accordance with this ethos and spirit that we have some serious soul searching to do. That if we can't get our act together we most certainly have no right to post/preach to others from any perspective whatsoever.

It's not for me to make any such call, but surely it's not acceptable for us to post in rude and dismissive but unsubstantiated terms on the views of others. It is 100% OK to do our best to explain why we may not agree with certain views.

It's not OK to use the board as a platform to proselytise from with a closed mind while refusing for whatever reason to justify your position or engage in constructive debate - if that's what we want then we should buzz off and set up our own board. It is 100% OK to explain perspectives personally held or taught by other traditions  - even if these do not agree with the views of others. But if you post be prepared to debate.

It's not OK to operate as a part of a faction supporting a particular view and seeking to put down the opposition. It is 100% ok for a concensus to naturally and based on reason and intuition develop to  favour of one view or another - provided there is no 'putting down' of the minority view, or seeking to make the majority view some sort of accepted dogma.

A Buddhist thought: 'the highest truth is rarely found in the common view'  - or words to that effect.

Blind beliefs have little place on this forum. Meaning that if you find your values being questioned  (provided reasonably as above) unpleasant or upsetting and can't see your way to engaging in such debate then it's probably best to withdraw.

It's finally probably best to remember that the board seems to be about sharing and discussing experience rather than theology or intellectual debate. That if it comes to it one option might ultimately be to shut down all threads that are not based on this.

Finally to say some things about my own postings. I can sometimes be a little direct on topics, and if I've upset anybody please accept my apologies. Feel free to PM me if I'm heading in that direction and you wish to warn me off. Feel free too to say so and why if you feel I've been posting too much that's theoretical or tradition teaching based and not experiential enough.

For what it's worth I'll if needed simply stop posting stuff that causes agitation even if it seems reasonable to me as there's no benefit for anybody in driving people into defensive positions - it only closes us  down - makes us cling more firmly to beliefs. But I'd also ask that people try to remain open - there's lots that can sound wrong if it's viewed from a particular perspective, but which in the bigger makes perfect sense. I tried to flesh the logic behind this idea out in my reply no. 11. in the thread 'Article about ACIM'.

I should perhaps say that I've no connection with those running the site, and apart from Bruce have no idea even of who they are.

Smiley Anyway. That's my say. Over to the gallery......

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Reply #6 - Nov 20th, 2007 at 7:18pm
 
roger prettyman wrote on Nov 20th, 2007 at 5:14am:
Alysia, as you are an Administrator I would add that some may not think your links to your three sites are appropriate. After all, it could be considered as advertising, whereas this board of Bruce`s is meant for discussion. The links appear in every posting of yours.
Personally, I think mentioning a book, author, whatever, is o.k. but advertising with links???
No offence meant, by the way.

roger Smiley


Roger. u are mistaken. I am not an administrator. I am a poster who came here in 2001 and never got around to leaving.
I promote the values and teachings of TMI primarily of which Monroe is a supporter of ACIM. I posted up the guidelines as a reminder, but Bruce wrote them, not I. It is his forum, he is the administrator. sorry for the confusion.
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Reply #7 - Nov 20th, 2007 at 7:26pm
 
thanks Ian for your ability to leaven the whole. its quite an appreciated trait. Smiley
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Reply #8 - Nov 21st, 2007 at 4:48am
 
Alysia, thank you for your clarification. It`s because your posting ended "Thanks from the Administrator" which made me think you were one. I stand corrected.

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Reply #9 - Nov 21st, 2007 at 6:38am
 
I have been on a few 'Spiritual/Enlightened' forums in the last year. I am pretty new here on this one.

One thing I have noticed (and maybe it is because I am new at this and maybe I am a bit more objective and maybe I am just too cool for school....err...forget the last part.Smiley)

It makes me think that there is a spiritual clash (lack of a better term) going on through out the world at this place and time.  I 'think' things are coming to a head.  

Here is a video that helps me explain what I am talking about(it is short too): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxWZc1cRLnA&mode=related&search=

Adyashanti "A Biological Necessity" is the name of it. Really hits home with me anyways.  I 'like' this man and see no agenda coming from him other then love for all mankind.  I do not say that lightly about anyone.

This forum so far to me anyways is one of (if not thee) best one I have been on...
I too would like to see it grow.  I tell myself everyday now to 'check' my ego.  It is a hard task.  Ego's are hungry all the time. They always want to be fed.  I try to 'see' myself as others see me and most of the time I do not like what I see. I am hot tempered and quick to go into action. To sit down and write out my thoughts actually helps me think more clearly.  

However, I seriously think that the 'pot' called the planet Earth is stirring like it hasn't in a long time.  Things are set in motion now and people are reacting to it. Some good, some not so good.  

I hope I am making sense....it is still early. Smiley
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Reply #10 - Nov 21st, 2007 at 9:57pm
 
well thanks Dood, i went over there and started grooving out to the E.Tolle guy as well, put a big smile on my face!

the U tube site is taking off. you're right something is happening over the Earth, we certainly have not cornered the market on human awarness here..we try though.

the new human will take awhile to get here, but it's starting to show evidence of a thinking people, of a caring people. thanks for the link and I liked the first guy too, but Tolle is saying the same thing...so they're both good.

wait, I have Tolle's book! eeeee!! The Power of Now, no wonder I liked him!!!

oh I feel good now.
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Reply #11 - Nov 22nd, 2007 at 5:09am
 
Smiley Eckhardt T is one of my favourites, another modern guy that realised spontaneous enlightenment. He puts stuff in very understandable common sense terms.

Just about to start into his new book 'A New Earth' which seems to be about the new consciousness...
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Reply #12 - Nov 22nd, 2007 at 6:37pm
 
A New Earth, I think I like the sound of the title. I found I didn't get all the way through The Power of Now, because the book seems dry of emotion, but I saved it as Tolle read ACIM, is the reason I wanted to read Tolle.

and the principles of staying in the now moment is probably what kept me from pulling out my hair to worry about the future.  so now I look at Tolle's picture and maner of speaking is NOT dry!  he has wonderful facial expressions when he's feeling what he's saying. very enjoyable, yes I agree, he is enlightened, I wouldn't be gilding the lily concerning who he is. I'll probably get that book now.
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Reply #13 - Nov 24th, 2007 at 9:37am
 
Wink Eckhardt is a German, and was a serious academic Alysia, so i suppose it's inevitable that his style can be a little 'methodical'...
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Reply #14 - Nov 28th, 2007 at 5:50am
 
Dood said: his forum so far to me anyways is one of (if not thee) best one I have been on...
I too would like to see it grow.  I tell myself everyday now to 'check' my ego.  It is a hard task.  Ego's are hungry all the time. They always want to be fed.  I try to 'see' myself as others see me and most of the time I do not like what I see. I am hot tempered and quick to go into action. To sit down and write out my thoughts actually helps me think more clearly. 

However, I seriously think that the 'pot' called the planet Earth is stirring like it hasn't in a long time.  Things are set in motion now and people are reacting to it. Some good, some not so good.
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I like hearing comments like this about this forum since I'm here so much, I've invested much energy, and Dood, we do get comments like yours from time to time, so maybe we are doing something right even without official moderators. its sad, but sometimes moderators can go bad!!!  lol, we don't have that problem of how to impeach a bad moderator. so, oh well, look on the positive side.

I appreciate your sharing how you check your ego because its a marvelous point to keep communication flowing, we all need to examine our motives and intentions for posting, where we are coming from.

I like the way you end up your post on a positive note, I try to do that too, don't want to leave a bad taste in someone's mouth! lol! the way you say egos want to be fed. true. theres a song "everybody has a hungry heart."  who sang that?

its a little like that around here. I hope we have vittles for all.  Smiley
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