hawkeye wrote on Nov 23rd, 2007 at 5:39pm:in my perception I see the superiority complex as pure ego and nothing to be proud about. Being open and more willing to except others beliefs will get all of us closer to home and to personal enlightenment. Some may be happy being with a Christian God or a Buddha (etc) like leader. (You know pigs and cows can be led with a ring through their noses.) Whomever you personally choose to connect with, enjoy and feel enriched by your choice. There is nothing wrong with any of your beliefs except the one where one is better than the other. What I find wrong is the assumption that one has the better or true belief and that the other is not correct. There is no right or wrong. Walking around with blinders on will only lead you into walls.
Joe
? Joe, perhaps i'm not too quick on the uptake here and all, but if there was no, more correct/accurate or less correct/accurate, then why would you have said some of the below things to me?
You said these things to me, after i put forth my beliefs and perceptions that much food (produce) tends to lose its vitality soon after its been plucked from the ground, and that organic foods tend to be healthier to eat and to invest in.
Joe wrote,
Quote:"Ahso...What do you mean by vegs lose their vitamin and vitality values when even slightly old? You can't really believe that nonsense? So when fruit or vegs get ripe, they are not as good for you as when they are un-ripe? I don't think so. Thats what the stores want you to believe. Use less, throw it out early, and buy more. (to give them more profits.) They are in the business of selling you things that you don't need. They sure sold you, if its correct what I think you are saying.
Its almost like the whole "organic" labeling thing....what cra_.
A few things become suggestive in the above. One is that you seem to believe you "know better" than another, you seem to believe that at least in this case there is a more accurate and less accurate belief and perception, and above all that you are not above degrading another's beliefs at the expense of your own more accurate position and greater knowledge.
Don't get me wrong, at the time i actually liked your responses, because while I don't agree with those statements/perceptions and it was not a purely Godly type response, it was at least HONEST, and i think honesty is one of the most important things to cultivate on the spiritual path.
Part of the reason of why i came on this thread to begin with originally, was to address the more subtle, less direct, and not very self honest or conscious superiority attitude and approach. My belief and original point is that it's not constructive to pretend to be above ego and arrogance tendencies when we are not. We shouldn't repress those aspects of ourselves, while they are still actually there.
And we shouldn't tell others not to have such attitudes, feelings, thoughts, or tendencies when we still have them ourselves. I oft get the feeling that many people in the spiritual world have a deep and largely false self need to be perceived by others as spiritual, wise, and the like. Thus, many project a certain 'image', which tries to reinforce that. We preach certain things, but then do others. I know, because i use to be there quite strongly and unconsciously, and somewhat consistently. Nor am i totally beyond that yet.
Those with really deep, pervasive, very unconscious, and consistent tendencies and attachments to wanting to believe this about self, and wanting others to perceive same seem to rarely and directly tell others what 'the truth' is, but they can and often resort to very subtle, or indirect means of doing this. Because it becomes subtle or indirect, it does not make it any less constructive, or less false self motivated. There is much to be said for directness, because directness is at least more obvious and apparent. This is where the balance and integration of Fire can come in handy. Too much water, too much Neptune and Pluto in particular, can lead to a very unconscious actor who pretends a lot but doesn't fully become the role. Such a personality type can become the constant insinuator, the master of negative but super subtle and judgmental innuendo, and all the while believing themselves more wise, enlightened, etc, than others because they don't directly tell others the truth, the right way, etc.
I've gotten the sense that some folks here and there have perceived me to be a very arrogant person. While i certainly do have arrogance tendencies, i wouldn't say i'm a basically arrogant person. I'm just not falsely humble or super quiet/introverted anymore (i use to be, that whole Libra Moon CON Virgo Saturn, and Pisces S.N in 7th kind of pattern), and in some respects i'm actually kind of a humble person. Why i say this, is because i realize that i don't know it all, i realize there is false and misleading part of my total energy, and therefore i'm humble enough to look to and try to follow the example of a teacher of whom i'm fairly sure totally transcended this false aspect within self and lived pure reality.
So i look to his pattern and example. If there was no more accurate, or less accurate, then this person, this teacher, this Being of Light whom many credible psychic sources have vouched for, was a supremely "arrogant" and egotistical person because he told others essentially this, "this way, this example is the way to truth, and you will only know truth by following this pattern, this example" He occasionally told some folks and groups very directly, and in a "fire and earth like" (no nonsense and very direct and even at times confrontational) manner, that they were quite off on their beliefs and perceptions, but he was all things to all people. He even debated with them, and used their own beliefs, perceptions, and contradictions and hypocrisy to show them how and where they were off. In other moments, he became water or air personified, he was gentle, he was kind, he could be as subtle as a soft wind one's cheek--he oft spoke in parable. One thing he didn't do though, was preach one thing, and then practice another. He didn't contradict himself like the other supposed spiritual experts and teachers did.
Now, i don't believe in "right and wrong" in a moralistic sense, i believe in constructive/positive and non constructive/non positive. I believe in "fast vibratory patterns" and slower vibratory patterns. I believe in more accurate and less accurate. And i believe that it is and can be a somewhat relative issue for the individual....but yet there is a standard, and that standard came and lived the perfect life, the perfect example. As Rosie's guides said, he was the fastest vibratory consciousness to incarnate in the Earth, as Cayce's guides said--out of all the thousands of teachers come to earth only he fulfilled the whole Law.
If everything was completely relative, and there was no more accurate or constructive and less accurate and constructive, there would be no such thing as spiritual growth or retardment. There would only be a free for all, and everyone could have their cake, their pie, their icecream, their fudge, and eat it all with no consequence and no suffering whatsoever.
Yet, we find that the Universe, our souls, our consciousnesses, are set up on the like attracts and begets like Law of energy resonation...and we find that there are consequences, that we can and do suffer even if believe we can eat it all. Yes, it is a "free for all", but it's not without consequence. And this is because there is a standard, there is an absolute, there is an objective reality. That is PUL, and we all have a relationship to same, and while as individuals the relationships aren't exactly the same in the moment, in the long run or long term, its less relative than we would like to believe as children who are consistently indulging in non reality...
I think the point is too not concentrate or dwell on what you perceive that is off about another's beliefs, perceptions, etc. To try to look for the similarities, commonality, and above all to try not to be personally degrading to another's approach, beliefs, perceptions, etc. Try to keep and open mind and heart, but realize that there is a
balance, and that there is such a thing as an overly open mind, just as there is such a thing as a too fixed/rigid approach. Speak your truth, outline the holes, imbalance, contradictions, or what not in other beliefs, but don't get too personal and degrading. For example, it's not usually constructive to tell someone stuff like this, when you disagree with them and their beliefs, "that nonsense" or "they sure sold you". Who knows, perhaps that's not the "right" way to approach others?