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Re: A cup of tea
Reply #45 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 8:11pm
 
Wink  Smiley To lob in a few curve balls:

Do you guys think that most of us ordinary punters actually have the means by which to judge whether or not a person is realised???

Can we judge whether or not behaviours are enlightened by applying conventional rule based social judgements??

Does an unenlightened person have the toolkit on board to judge whether or not another is realised??

To show my hand a little. If you were to take it that a realised action is one that does the greatest good are we truly with our normal one dimensional tunnel vision  and consequent very limited take on mostly just this reality (never mind all of the others) in a position to judge what this good is, or whether an action is appropriate to achieve it??? (think of the butterfly effect and the problems we have predicting even tomorrow before answering that one)

It's anyway sometimes said that a realised person needs considerable life experience following the initial experience of realisation to become able to live from this new found view. That the old personality (the selfish instinct has been lost, but not all of the learned behaviour) needs time if it is to be replaced by the fruit of the new view.

I should say by the way that I've no very clear view of what (in truly practical as opposed to theoretical terms) realisation amounts to. Or even if it truly exists in this world, is capable of expression through a human body and mind.

My bottom line view though is that since i don't know for sure what a realised person is like that it'd be unwise in the extreme to either (a) indiscriminately believe what any teacher has to say or (b) diss the entirety of what any teacher has to say just because there is one part of his/her teaching that I feel is or may be wrong.

The journey is surely about remaining open so that we can based on our best judgement take provisionally on board what makes rational and intuitive sense whatever the source - gradually firming the view only as experience and deepening understanding repeatedly show it to be true.

But never (in the knowledge that our understanding must continuously evolve) getting hung up on needing absolute truths, or always being right. Because in this relative reality there exists no such thing as absolute truth. (we can of course speak vaguely of the possibility of truths existing in other  absolute realities, but that's different)

My sense is that there's many that are taken to be enlightened that are not, that get by on the credulity of followers and for whom they make excuses. But that likewise that there are some that are enlightened but unnoticed - who or if truly spoke 'truth'  speak would be regarded by most as nutters.

Put another way. It seems fairly clear that should an enlightened person decide for some reason to speak out that the majority would regard him/her as either a lunatic or a threat. It wasn't by accident that Jesus was crucified....

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Re: A cup of tea
Reply #46 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 8:30pm
 
Vajra:

You make it sound like a person has to be an all knowing master before he or she can discriminate whether or not a person is the enlightened master he or she claims to be.

What if turns out a person who claims to be enlightened isn't? If this is the case, there is no need for an enlightment litmus test of some kind.  All one has to identify what is false.

Once a person becomes clear about the shortcommings of certain types of teachings, it doesn't take long to see where a guru is coming from. At this point I don't have to read a lot, before I can tell where a guru is coming from.

Plus, after one has seen what guru after guru is about, one finally comes to the understanding that a person who really knows something wouldn't take part in an approach that resembles the approach taken by false gurus. Such a person would find a way to distance his or her self from such an approach.

Regarding their going through growing pains, many of them go through growing pains until they die. Many claim to be perfected all knowing masters despite their growing pains.  Plus some of their growing pains are inexcusable. Plus it goes beyond their behavior. They say things that are false, and never get around to saying things that are key. So many of them are like parrots. Repeating what false gurus before them said.





 
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Reply #47 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 8:48pm
 
  Those are good questions and points Vajra.   I'm reminded of what Yeshua said and taught relating directly to this question, and also said that others would come proclaiming themselves or others as Christ, and to keep our eyes open to these false teachers.

  He said, and its just so simple, "You will know them by their fruits".   Again it relates back to the energy reaction and law of Like attracts and begets like.   Those who are truly enlightened will bring forth primarily good fruits in others and in life, not considering their own freewill. 

   And various psychic and channeled info out there can also fill in parts of the puzzle to these questions.   Quite a few of the more credible and verified ones, like the ones connected to TMI or the Cayce readings, agree that someone living from the true self will show certain outer signs automatically, beyond just their loving vibes, clear concise thoughts, etc.     One of these is that these people truly and completely in touch with their God selves, do not age, do not die, do not become sick.   They are not limited to linear space/time laws.   

  True, one's own spiritual development relates to how well and deeply perceive about others, but you are presupposing that none of here are near completion.   Personally, i feel that Recoverer has a very real and perhaps even probable shot of realizing Christ Consciousness in this life.    He's one of the few people that i've had this perception about.   I pick up a lot on people's energy emanations in the form of colors at times.   

  The colors do not lie about the state of a person's spiritual development.   If i sense a lot of golden shades, deep clear blues, true violets, and white light energies in relation to a person, i *know* that this person is rather rare indeed, and probably close to completion. 

  I also get pretty fast vibrating energies in relation to Bruce Moen, even though i don't agree 100 percent with everything he says.  I get the sense that he and his Total self is getting rather close to full completion and lift off.   Does this mean that i hang on his every word, and always agree with him?   Nah, i think he still has belief system blockages relating to animals, and the wrong use of same.    Neither he nor Recoverer are vibrating at the pure White Light levels yet, like Yeshua was towards the latter part of his public teaching. 

   My guidance has made it clear to me in many various ways, that Yeshua achieved full and complete "enlightenment" while partaking of physical energies, and thus is the ultimate pattern and example to look at, no matter what one's belief systems are and what they are called. 

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Reply #48 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 9:09pm
 
recoverer wrote on Oct 12th, 2007 at 7:51pm:
Ahso:

Regarding what you wrote about Cayce picking up on the thoughts of people around him during readings, since he was in a hypnotic state, and since Michael Newton's clients were in a hypnotic state, I wonder if they sometimes picked up on his thoughts about how things are.

I've had meditations where I picked up on the mental noise that belongs to other people. I experienced this quite a bit when I came back from Spain last summer (2006). The flight from New York to San Francisco took 9 1/2 hours due to runway problems. I tried to pass the time by meditating. Problem is I kept seeing and hearing things that didn't have anything to do with me. I figure some might've come from the other passengers (the plane was crammed), and some might've come from people the plane I was on flew over.  One those stars I've talked about just flashed by the word "other." Perhaps this means the noise came from other people.  Occasionally this will happen while driving. I'll pick up thoughts that seem to come from other people. I call it noise because I can't make sense out of what I'm seeing and hearing.


  I'm sure that's possible, but in Cayce's case, it seemed to mostly happen in obvious ways when people near him were thinking and feeling in a particularly strong way, i.e. being "emotional" about it as we say nowadays. Usually he tried to surround his readings with a prayerful, humorous, and appreciative type of environment.   But, as in the case of his father (who was kind of a negative person in general), sometimes it couldn't be helped, or sometimes he just ate particularly unhealthily, smoked too much, etc. or occasionally had the wrong motivations for getting a reading...

  But yeah, i do know what you mean about meditating around others and picking up on 'noise'.    In Michael Newton's case, my sense is that its more skewing relating to his conscious interpretation of what his patients did say, not in obvious ways, but in more subtle ways inserting his own beliefs or belief blockages.   For example, the existence of Atlantis, many of his clients talked about advanced ancient cultures and lands that we as a society don't know about today, but Michael wrote it off as them talking about experiences on other planets.  Or saying that it was an allegorical myths or experiences in other dimensions which get translated as physical but really aren't. 

  What seems clear is that he doesn't believe in "Atlantis" and so info that comes up as possibly supportive of Atlantis, he tries to interpret differently.  Most of us do this to some extent or another.
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Reply #49 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 8:06am
 
Fascinating, all of you.

I realize that I have had occasion to spend time with many gurus in my life...and I am grateful for each one. The ones I felt that I chose, and also those accidental meetings along the road. It is a life of riches to enounter gurus of all sorts. As a matter of fact, gurus are everywhere I look...how lucky am I!

love, blink Smiley
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Reply #50 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 8:08am
 
Ah So and Recoverer. Thanks for that. My thought is actually that we're in a pretty similar space on this, so don't view this as disagreement or argument. Nor was the point to in some way cast doubt on motives.

My intention was to move us towards discussion of the practical issue of how to approach possible teachers or spiritual friends.

What I was trying to bring into focus is the fact that many of us seem to (as in most human affairs) head for for the polarities when deciding how to approach a teacher. Those on the doubting wing (if they even get beyond prejudice to make an approach) often tend to apply simplistic rule based criteria in judging them, with a 'one miss and you are out' mindset learned from politics and other forms of competitive public debate. Others suspend their disbelief and natural intelligence. Many seek an ability to 'play the part' in a teacher - if they don't fit some stereotype they can't be real. There's also a tendency to view enlightenment as a sudden transformation that confers some sort of infallibility on the  person concerned.

The result is that lots of teachers with a lot of wisdom to communicate are dismissed out of hand. Equally lots of fairly obviously dodgy characters enjoy total acceptance until something busts the bubble leading to the often heard refrain 'I was misled'.

Which implies that our own innate wisdom and intuition (or stage of enlightenment) is also a big part of successfully working with a teacher - especially given that early on our judgement is fairly poor.

My sense is that enlightenment (whether applied to the student or the teacher) is as you suggest not all that simple. We're all capable of moments of enlightenment - 'ah-ha' moments  when the discursive mind gets out of the way and we open to all. At the other end of what's probably a very complicated multidimensional continuum there's those (probably a very few) like Jesus and the Buddha who reputedly achieved and lived complete enlightenment. (whatever that is!)

With all of those variables in play it's probably no wonder that the student teacher relationship creates lots of froth!!

It's maybe worth considering what the reality of the situation may be:

Your teacher is probably not fully enlightened.
Even if he/she is their actions may not yet fully reflect this.
Much of what is attributed to teachers is often generated by followers or commentators, and would not be subscribed to by the teacher.
You are almost certainly not enlightened either.
Your ability to discriminate in this regard between teachers is consequently probably limited too.
Your teacher won't always be perfect.
Your teacher won't always fit your expectations.
Your teacher is primarily responsible for doing no harm.
But it's your responsibility to apply discrimination - to avoid ego trips, to properly balance caution with openness, to be prepared to assume some considered risk to achieve progress while not being naive.
Trust and commitment (in both directions) can with validity build only with mutual experience.

Much like most life situations there's usually good in there (often lots) mixed up with the not so good or occasionally the downright bad. Our task (our spiritual path) requires us to with flexibility, openness, dedication, discriminating intelligence and compassion find our way through this maze.

All the while knowing that while we may in our weaker moments hope for it that there's no such thing as a free lunch....

Just my 2C of course, which may or may not be all that useful. Thoughts on how to approach teachers?
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Reply #51 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 8:31am
 
Maybe I'm getting too worldly....

my new image stabilized binoculars arrived two days ago. They are...

almost as good as Enlightenment.

I feel like I have new eyes, and there is so much more that I can see. I can see into the expressions of the animals in the gardens and alley surrounding the balcony on which I sit. I can see their private contentment at this brief moment of plenty before the winter sets in.

Perhaps I should be more like them. While I'm in this world.

love, blink Smiley
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Reply #52 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 11:32am
 
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Fascinating, all of you.

I realize that I have had occasion to spend time with many gurus in my life...and I am grateful for each one. The ones I felt that I chose, and also those accidental meetings along the road. It is a life of riches to enounter gurus of all sorts. As a matter of fact, gurus are everywhere I look...how lucky am I!

love, blink Smiley


  This thread as become as varied as tea itself.   Hi Beautiful Blinking one, very important Heart balance and point you bring up.   I agree, and realize that most of us (me very much included), could stand to focus more on the truth that we all are teachers or students at different moments. 

   All in all, i feel that for me, i should try to follow more my own inner guru, than looking outside.

  But, beyond these broad generalizations, i thought we were talking more specifically about those individuals who set themselves up as teachers of truth to others either directly or indirectly, such as Osho?

  When these are knowingly false, and being destructive to others, sometimes they need to be blasted away (their falseness), just as did Yeshua with the false teachers of his time, the Pharisees, Sadducees, and Scribes.      

  Water first, then Fire, Blink, Fire.....


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Reply #53 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 11:45am
 
  Nice and well balanced post Vajra.   Again it goes back to what i've emphasized here before.  Living that which is Life and truths, will get us to the knowingness part, not talking, thinking, theorizing, or communicating about these things.

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At the other end of what's probably a very complicated multidimensional continuum there's those (probably a very few) like Jesus and the Buddha who reputedly achieved and lived complete enlightenment. (whatever that is!)


  Pure Life, Pure Love, Pure White Light?

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Thoughts on how to approach teachers?


  As one should approach self?  In a balanced, loving, and yet discriminating manner, always listening for the pure tones amongst the discordant, inharmonious noise, then acting from those pure tone resonations?

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Just my 2C of course, which may or may not be all that useful.


  False modesty?   Shine Brother, Shine, know your worth and speak from your Center with no Fear.  Look ever to the Teacher of teachers example, was he a shrinking violet... yet he was truly humble.

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Reply #54 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 1:16pm
 
thoughts on how to approach teachers...

just to approach your higher self as a teacher for yourself.

if you do find a guru or teacher "out there" somewhere, and if they are a genuine teacher of spiritual measure, meaning at mastership level or approaching that, it will be their born and sworn duty to dash all your expectations that they have some secret knowledge which you do not possess.
I noticed you're a meditator who often enters that blissed awareness. that is where your teacher is hiding.

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Reply #55 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 2:20pm
 
Alysia brings the voice of sanity.

As I read through this, it seems like the general opinion is that enlightenment is not real,  I'm not enlightened, you're not enlightened, our teachers are not enlightened, nobody is enlightened, everybody is a fraud and it's all a fake made up out of string, tissue paper and spirit gum anyway, and you can't get there from here. We can dump on all the authorities as self serving liars, and find something bad to say about everyone. For example, Jesus could be blamed for the Spanish Inquisition. Many of Rajneesh's followers could be criticized because they engaged in extra-marital sex. And there were people that Cayce failed to cure.

Respectfully, I suggest that that's not a very useful direction to go. For example, how do we talk about "enlightenment" unless we can define it? And once given a definition, then it either becomes evident that somehow we are all sluggishly oozing in that direction, or we are not. If not, what value is all the dissention? And if so, same question?

To my mind, Jesus had a lot of useful things to tell me, as did Rajneesh as did Cayce, as did Lao Tse etc. Maybe they weren't so useful to you, but there are others who speak to you and your specific needs, like Ramana Maharshi, perhaps or the cryptic rhetoric of Nisargadatta Maharaj, or some of my old hippie friends who found themselves in the words of Ram Das and Timothy Leary, or even Terrence McKenna ... As we look toward what we can get from these people, regardless of whatever else they represent, we find that there is often much gold hidden amongst the dross. Not all gold glitters any more than all that glitters must be golden.

Without arguing against anything said here, it still seems like there is another point to be made, and that is why I personally Alysia's remark so telling - My hearing seems to work best when my mouth is closed.

But even more than that, there are two things that we must do alone, passing the doorways to eternity. We must be born - Mom helps, as does the midwifery, but it's up to us to take the first breath. And then, we die alone. We might be surrounded by friends, but we still do it alone. In fact, friends may interfere - Ambrose Bierce (if memory serves) on his death bed told his friends, "Shut up! I'm busy dying."

So I'm inclined to go with Alysia's remark. The voice to seek is not the great wind that breaks rocks, nor the shaking of the earth, nor the howling of the elemental forces in all their bluster, but simply that still small voice within. Interestingly, that voice seems to have something good to say about virtually everyone. Perhaps everyone is right - Then we would also have Vajra and Blink showing the way, and from time to time, each of us would be guru to some other being in need. - In fact, isn't that the role that we admit to when we begin to do therapy with stuck souls?

All that having been said, I find that I have no Rolls Royces. However, I did marry a Mercedes who has transported me farther and better than any mechanical vehice - and besides, she's about all I can afford anyhow. Smiley

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Reply #56 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 4:55pm
 
what did I do before enlightenment? chop wood, carry water. what did I do after enlightenment? chop wood carry water  Smiley

Dave's comments: But even more than that, there are two things that we must do alone, passing the doorways to eternity. We must be born - Mom helps, as does the midwifery, but it's up to us to take the first breath. And then, we die alone. We might be surrounded by friends, but we still do it alone. In fact, friends may interfere - Ambrose Bierce (if memory serves) on his death bed told his friends, "Shut up! I'm busy dying."
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haha! love it Dave. as a matter of fact u just gave me some grist for my mill; I have a whole rote coming in I need to write down after this post..so thanks. love to write stuff down.  I don't think honest seekers after truth realize we are dying every day; some belief system dies, or some thought dies that one used to be happy and content with, or attached to, I should say. a mini death, a feeling of death upon the soul which strives after truth only to lose it, the best idea they ever had.
so yea, its best if you see someone dying, not to flap the lips on them but listen to their sound of dying, so if they need you, you can just hold their hand and thats all they really wanted anyway. we all want to be loved and we all want to love.

then u mention your wife Dave, and I'm getting this picture over here that she is your cup of tea...then I think about high maintenance partners, and I see our wonderful Dave here, in his own words, sluggishly oozing, in tube worm fashion, again, his own words, towards enlightenment ...Dave, I have to stop here and congratulate you on your use of the english language..I see entire pictures in my mind when you talk..so talk on!

ok, I'm moseying on over to my rote to unfold, its like a map, words are maps and the mind is the magnifying glass you use to focus in on them.

then I have to chop wood and carry water... Smiley
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Reply #57 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 4:56pm
 
I'm personnally - I don;t think you were only referrring to me) not saying enlightenment doesn't exist, but I'm not completely sure if it does or not, and what it would resemble - for example you still couldn;t avoid (presumably) some bad things happenning to you, but would you no longer sufffer as a result and just have this serenity that would come from having a really big perspective on things? But then again how would it be if you just reacted with the same serenity to everything - would you have no more, varying, emotions as we experience them? Would that be good, or would it get boring, or would "boring"have no meaning to an enlightened person? What about love? If we loved truly everyone absoutely equally, what would happen to the special relationships ordinary people have? - I mean if you totally loved a stranger off the street just as much as you love your wife (just that you know her better) - how would that be? How about things we find fun or pleasurable, would they lose their special qualities too, if we felt serene about everything? (I believe there are Buddhist exercises concerning trying to think of pleasurable things as worthless or as not better than things typically seen as disgusting - but maybe that's all they are - exercises?) Would you still enjoy a good meal, or beautiful music? Maybe you'd still enjoy pleasant things the same if they came along but not "need" or "crave" any of them, or miss them if they were not there (would an elightened person still cry when a loved-one died?).  Just pondering. maybe I'll know one day ! Also, if you were fully enlightened, would you also be omnicscient, or not? What would that be like? Having nothing more to learn or be curious about, and knowing everything about everybody?

I don;t think this lack of knowledge, or uncertaintly, stops me thinking I want to be a better person though, more at peace, more loving, more positive and useful to other people and the world, less scared and unhappy, with a wiser perspective on things etc (or thinking that I have made progess already to some extent).

As for recognising a person with great spiritual growth (whether they are "enlightened "or "realised"or not) as I've said before, I had a powerful experience on being close to the Dalai Llama - a strong sense of well-being and warmth - that suggests to me he's well on the way. I don't know if he's "perfect"but I've not heard much very negative about him, apart from, eg some followerers of some spirit called Dorje Shugden who claim he has tried to suppress their traditions. He has, I think, denied he has especially tried to repress it, but that in his tradition this spirit is seen as negative, so I guess if he's discouraged this, he's just doing what he sees as right.

I do find it disappointing if I read seemingly well-founded negative comments about people I admire (not refeerring to the above) but then, I guess it also , as I said, encourages you not to worship other humans or see them as infallible, and try more to improve yourself. Also, like I said, I feel that just becasue someone doesn;t always behave perfectly (whatever that is) , it dopesn;t mean they can;t have some useful things to say.
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Reply #58 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 5:23pm
 
Oliver said: Also, if you were fully enlightened, would you also be omnicscient, or not? What would that be like? Having nothing more to learn or be curious about, and knowing everything about everybody?
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I think enlightenment or ascension, is a process, not like poof! now you are enlightened. if u look at some of our avatars down thru the centuries, they don't stay for long lifetimes, at least not in the public eye. I believe that is because they have learned to "appear and disappear" at their own discretion, sort of like being visible or invisible, they are able to do what we would consider magic, but to a master it's just natural.

and knowing everything about everybody is another way to look at that:
there are some people who read minds. it's not that they study how to do this; the one I am thinking about was born this way for a purpose. not sure what the purpose is, and it was annoying for him and he had to think of a way to shut it down and turn it back on if he needed it. think of the constant bombardment of useless thoughts that would come into him until he learned how to close it down.

I believe the nature of the universe is found within the nature of infinity. therefore I see no reason to feel trepidation over the loss of curiosity.  Smiley
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Reply #59 - Oct 13th, 2007 at 5:43pm
 
thank you. Some interesting examples, and I'm glad you think there might still be new things to find out about and be curious about.  That certainly makes my (not enlightened yet) life more interesting  Smiley
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