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Reply #15 - Oct 11th, 2007 at 4:09pm
 
try Valarian tea for the calming of the nerves; only problem is it smells like cat urine!
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Reply #16 - Oct 11th, 2007 at 5:18pm
 
Hi Blink I had never heard of that before about tea,it was really interesting and i feel tea does bring us together as it seems to be a favorite drink in most places of the world and i love tea as well.

dave tea with crumpets is the best,beats cookies anytime  Smiley

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Reply #17 - Oct 11th, 2007 at 5:50pm
 
OK Juditha - a toasted crumpet, dripping with butter and oozing marmalade ... no argument there!

I recall the very Zen story about the monk who had been chased by a tiger.  He wound up jumping over a cliff where he grabbed a root, and soon was suspended in the air above a yawning chasm, with the tiger snapping at him from inches above. About then a mouse appeared and began to gnaw at the root he was holding. The monk noticed that a wild strawberry was growing from the side of the cliff, and reaching out, he popped it into his mouth. Delicious! It was the best he had ever tasted.

This seems to be where we get when we are whacked by the wake-up stick. 100% awareness. But of itself, that's just another way to be in the world. The brain wakes up, but can only tell us brain-thoughts about the brain-world. There seems to be good reason to look a little farther, in which case we discover a spiritual reality underlying the physical one. And looking a little farther than that we arrive at Event One, and behind that we see nothing - but that seems to be where the action really is.

Hmm - coffee shop is out of crumpets, so I had to rough it with banana nut bread. Life is hard some days. Wink

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Reply #18 - Oct 11th, 2007 at 6:20pm
 
Hi dave Not fair,the coffee shop out of crumpets but the banana nut bread sounds good,i will have to try it  Smiley

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Reply #19 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 8:14am
 
I love that story about the cliff and the strawberry. I can almost feel myself dangling there and then, the bliss of the strawberry.

I don't always dangle so gracefully as that monk. But we all dangle in one way or another, don't we? What did the tiger look like for you? I think my tiger is called time. It chases me until I stop running.

But, yes, Dave, Juditha, all of you, this is bliss, to return to see a tea party in progress Smiley

After all, there is no tea party exactly like this one, crumpetless, or not....

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Reply #20 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 10:16am
 
Nice thread!

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Can you find anything more trivial than tea? Can you find anything more ordinary than tea? No, you cannot--and Zen monks and masters have raised this most ordinary thing into the most extraordinary. They have bridged "this" and "that"... as if tea and God have become one.

Unless tea becomes divine you will not be divine, because the least has to be raised to the most, the ordinary has to be raised to the extraordinary, the earth has to be made heaven. They have to be bridged, no gap should be left.


As I read this part it reminded me of how even the most lowly is essence of the divine... exalted as being one with God and that when we are able to truly see and feel our own divine essence, we then are able to see and feel the divine within all that is.

Love and peace (and plentiful crumpets & tea) to all,
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Reply #21 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 1:15pm
 
good thought Kathy, being one with god is like a daily thing I agree.

ok, Rob Calkins is my friend! and yours too. he's a dear forum member who is about to do Gateway, where one gets in touch with one's guides, and/or higher self.

Oct 20th he's going to TMI. Send him positive thoughts if you will. he's a sweetheart and guess what he did? he dropped in to see me as he was traveling around through arizona and brought me TWO packages of real honest to goodness crumpets which I never laid these particular eyes on in this particular lifetime. then he made me buy some strawberry jam to go with. so there they sit in me fridge unopened. everytime I look in the fridge I am reminded of Rob's visit and how we talked each other's ears off about these topics here on the board mostly.
I can't bring myself to eat the crumpets!  Roll Eyes  for one thing gang, I swore off eating butter when I lost weight and everyone knows you need to pour butter on a crumpet right?
besides, I like to open my fridge and get this burst of happiness that he came to see me! (please don't let them turn into fungus dear god..)

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Reply #22 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 3:08pm
 
Hi Dave,

why didn't the monk feed the strawberry to the mouse, who then would be satisfied and leave, so that the tiger could then catch the mouse and eat it, and then be satisfied and leave the monk alone, who could then climb back up the cliff?

Just wonderring,
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PS Hi Alysia,
if you can get those crumpets to dry out gradually, they'll be preserved forever---- Smiley at least that's what happens to some stuff in my fridge!
Do they still bronze baby shoes? Maybe you could get them preserved that way!  Such memories are definitely worth keeping.   Smiley
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Reply #23 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 3:30pm
 
First of all, for most of his life Osho was known as Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh. He was a guru with a terrible reputation. Does anybody remember reading about a guru who had a farm in Oregon where he and his followers lived? The one who owned 150 Rolls Royces? This is him. Near the end of this life he changed his name. If I remember right, he told his followers he was doing so in order to announce that he is the reincarnation of the Buddha. A funny thing to do after so many years.  Some would say he did so in order to dissassociate himself from all of his legal problems. Including when the United States kicked him out of the country.

It isn't completely accurate to state that Boddhidarma started Zen. He traveled from India to China and started Chan Buddhism. Years later Zen started in Japan.  Even though there is a connection, there are some differences. Koans weren't used in China.  Zen would use them with the hope that a person would experience satori, which in Zen terms means to become enlightened.  Hitting people with a stick served the same purpose (the stick hitting also occurred in China).

The main thing Chan Buddhism was about was trying to obtain instaneous enlightenment. No practice is needed they would say even though things such as monasteries, disciplined life styles and teachers were a part of their tradition. I used to read Chan texts quite a bit, and funny thing is that none of them explained how to become enlightened. They would simply say to rid your self of conceptual thought over and over again without explaining how.

I've found that even though insights can be helpful, no one insight is going to make you a master. If you want to be free to live as the spirit being you are, you have to put in the effort to overcome the thought patterns and attachments that prevent you from doing so.  When you do so you are liable to find out that you are a part of a larger vaster self referred to with terms such as higher self, oversoul, I-there, disk and total self (for Ahso).  I have never read a Chan or Zen text which speaks of such things. Nor do they speak of things such as chakras and spirit guidance. Such teachings certainly don't acknowledge the existence of a Soul. I find it hard to understand how teachings that supposedly represent ultimate wisdom can miss such important things.  

It is from traditions such as Zen that people get the belief that you have to reincarnate over and over again without any say about the matter, until you finally become enlightened. There are numerous sources which show that when it comes to reincarnation, there is much more flexibility.  Related to this, one well known Zen teacher is Bankei.  He used to tell people that after he became enlightened he traveled all over Japan looking for another Zen teacher who was also enlightened. He couldn't find one. One well known Zen teacher told him his knowledge was only intellectual. If what Bankei shared is true, how does the numbers game work out? If only rare exceptions such as Bankei become enlightened, how long will we have to keep reincarnating until we are the rare exception? My feeling is that we just need to grow in love as much as we can while here, and we'll find that there are many ways to grow in the World of spirit.

Eastern teachings are filled with dogmatism just like other religions.  One can see this if one takes a close look at a teaching system such as Tibetan Buddhism and Zen.  For example, there are people in Tibetan Buddhism who as a part of their practice, do 10,000 full body prostrations a day. How can this help a person?

I don't mean to say there haven't been any masters. I believe Jesus was a master. However, I don't believe that somebody who really knew, would associate his or self with a dogmatic system that has been teaching people in a "textbook" manner for years.

Is a dogmatic system more likely to lead to a belief system, or to freedom?

P.S. I agree with Ahso that there is more to finding wisdom than using a technigue that causes your flow of thought to come to a stop.  If one really abided as who/what one is, one could think as much as one wanted. Rather than going around trying to stop your mind by thinking about a koan all day (such as, what is the sound of one had clapping), or waiting for a teacher to suddenly stop your mind by hitting you with a stick, it is better to look for a way to become free of the thought patterns that bind you.
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Reply #24 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 3:56pm
 
I am aware of how Osho was involved in various scandals later in his career as a guru (but I think some of that was more to do with some of his follwers' behaviour than his). Also if his rich followers wanted to give him rolls royces etc and he liked them, well it's a bit over the top, but I guess there are worse things you can do. Maybe he just wanted to test how detached he could be from them  Wink

Also, I have been thinking about this myself - about this person and other gurus (some far more widely respected than Osho - Krishnamurti and Ramakrishna, for example) who I have read some negative opinions about on the net criticisng alleged aspects of their behaviour and lifestyles, and wondering what to make of this. I guess we like to see spiritual teachers as "perfect'people to look up to and we are disappojnted and think they are fake if we hear about some less than admirable side to them, but maybe that's unfair. It also doesn;t mean that they can;t have had valuable insights and written good books etc - maybe it's sometimes a case of "do as I say and not what i do"!  (and I have coincidentally been reading the Osho book that the "tea" thing comes from, and have found much of it to have genuine spiritual messages to offer, even if they are maybe mainly in the "live in the moment": vein of that tea piece). 

However, aside from that, it can make you wonder, as I mentioned in a different thread, about whether or not "perfection"or complete "enlightenment"is possible and if we don;t just have to make the best of things and accept life is full of imprefection and compromises. Also I am sceptical of people who think the perfection comes after death in some form - why should it? If it's possible, it should be possible here and now, no? I feel torn between the perfectionist side of me that wants absolutes, and experience saying to me that life's generally not like that and you just have to make the best of things.
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PS I understand Osho's writings are still widely admired in India, so it is perhaos unfair to sweepingly say  his reputation is "terrible" because of some scandals surrouding his community after he moved the the United States
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Reply #26 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 4:46pm
 
Orlando:

If you really researched Rajneesh (he used Osho for such a short time), you would find that his followers aren't responsible for his bad reputation.

Regarding expecting gurus to be perfect, the thing is, many of them claim to be perfect and all knowing, and put themselves on a pedestal. If you got to know their followers, you'd find that they tend to view their guru as being infallible, and resultantly limit themselves to whatever limited wisdom their guru has to share. My feeling is that if people who don't claim to be all knowing and perfected masters can be loving, ethical, moral and honest, then why can't a famous supposed all knowing master such as Sai Baba refrain from being a child molester?

I found that you can't discriminate a source of information simply by focussing your attention on what sounds true. Just about anybody can say something that sounds true or teach techniques that have an effect.  It is obvious that Rajneesh was an avid book reader. Started out by getting a masters degree in philosophy. Afterwards, he became a professor of philosophy. Eventually that wasn't enough for him, and he decided to become a guru. It is obvious part of his rap was influenced by Krishnamurti. He spent a lot of time talking about Krishnamurti. He did so with the intention of getting people to interpret Krishnamurti's anti guru words differently.

Regarding spirits being able to grow while in the World of spirit, why not? Sources of information that seem to be valid (as far as I can tell), state that there are many beings who never incarnate physically. Sources also state that souls are closely connected to other souls in the spirit World (this goes along with my experience). Whether one uses a term like disk or a term like soul group,  such souls share their experiences with each other and aid each other's growth. This precludes the necessity of manditory numerous incarnations.

It is also important to consider that the World of spirit doesn't have the limitations we have in the physical World. Therefore, there are countless ways in which one can grow. For example, in his book "Voyage to Curiosity's father" Bruce wrote about Sylvia. She was an abusive person. After she died, because she was a Christian, she remembered to think of Jesus and received help instead of remaining stuck in a lower realm. Light beings came to her aid. They exposed her to PUL, and this enabled her to become honest about the kind of person she was.  This was followed by energetic work that enabled her to become free of the energetic/thought energy that limited her. Also consider the life review factor. Many near death experiencers have found that life reviews can have quite an effect.

When the above is considered, it seems reasonable that physical incarnations are chosen not because a soul is "required" to live one, but rather because a soul believes a physical incarnation will help in some way. Are there exceptions? Perhaps. I don't know. Whatever the case, I belive it is partly human vanity that causes people to believe that human incarnations are the "only" way to grow. I believe a real master would have a more expanded viewpoint.

P.S. Overall, I guess it is okay when people find words of wisdom in false sources of information. The problem occurs when they listen to words that aren't true. Our minds are tricky things. Once we're exposed to something, that something becomes a part of our memory banks.  When our minds start interpreting things they aren't limited to what we consciously chose to believe.  Sometimes restrictive thought patterns are formed unconsciously.  This is more likely to happen if a person is overly quick to accept what he or she reads. Even if a person chooses to not believe a particular part of a source of information, this person's overall accepting attitude toward the source might cause he or her to form a belief system unconsciously. Just go to any forum where people who believe in Eastern teachings hang out. They are just as bound to their beliefs as Western religious people.



orlando123 wrote on Oct 12th, 2007 at 3:56pm:
I am aware of how Osho was involved in various scandals later in his career as a guru (but I think some of that was more to do with some of his follwers' behaviour than his). Also if his rich followers wanted to give him rolls royces etc and he liked them, well it's a bit over the top, but I guess there are worse things you can do. Maybe he just wanted to test how detached he could be from them  Wink

Also, I have been thinking about this myself - about this person and other gurus (some far more widely respected than Osho - Krishnamurti and Ramakrishna, for example) who I have read some negative opinions about on the net criticisng alleged aspects of their behaviour and lifestyles, and wondering what to make of this. I guess we like to see spiritual teachers as "perfect'people to look up to and we are disappojnted and think they are fake if we hear about some less than admirable side to them, but maybe that's unfair. It also doesn;t mean that they can;t have had valuable insights and written good books etc - maybe it's sometimes a case of "do as I say and not what i do"!  (and I have coincidentally been reading the Osho book that the "tea" thing comes from, and have found much of it to have genuine spiritual messages to offer, even if they are maybe mainly in the "live in the moment": vein of that tea piece).  

However, aside from that, it can make you wonder, as I mentioned in a different thread, about whether or not "perfection"or complete "enlightenment"is possible and if we don;t just have to make the best of things and accept life is full of imprefection and compromises. Also I am sceptical of people who think the perfection comes after death in some form - why should it? If it's possible, it should be possible here and now, no? I feel torn between the perfectionist side of me that wants absolutes, and experience saying to me that life's generally not like that and you just have to make the best of things.

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I thought of this, for the Rolls Royces  Wink


While He was in Bethany at the home of Simon the leper, and reclining at the table, there came a woman with an alabaster vial of very costly perfume of pure nard; and she broke the vial and poured it over His head.

But some were indignantly remarking to one another, "Why has this perfume been wasted?

For this perfume might have been sold for over three hundred denarii, and the money given to the poor." And they were scolding her.

But Jesus said, "Let her alone; why do you bother her? She has done a good deed to Me

For you always have the poor with you, and whenever you wish you can do good to them; but you do not always have Me.

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Reply #28 - Oct 12th, 2007 at 4:53pm
 
Orlando:

I first read Rajneesh about 25 years ago, and it has been more than a few idle thoughts that has enabled me to see that he was a fake who has mislead and taken advantage of many well meaning people. I wonder how much money is collected by the people who now own the rights to his books.

Does the book you own state that Osho used to be called Rajneesh?

orlando123 wrote on Oct 12th, 2007 at 3:57pm:
PS I understand Osho's writings are still widely admired in India, so it is perhaos unfair to sweepingly say  his reputation is "terrible" because of some scandals surrouding his community after he moved the the United States

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orlando123 wrote on Oct 12th, 2007 at 4:51pm:
I thought of this, for the Rolls Royces  Wink


While He was in Bethany at the home of Simon the leper, and reclining at the table, there came a woman with an alabaster vial of very costly perfume of pure nard; and she broke the vial and poured it over His head.

But some were indignantly remarking to one another, "Why has this perfume been wasted?

For this perfume might have been sold for over three hundred denarii, and the money given to the poor." And they were scolding her.

But Jesus said, "Let her alone; why do you bother her? She has done a good deed to Me

For you always have the poor with you, and whenever you wish you can do good to them; but you do not always have Me.

New American Standard Bible (©1995)

Mark 13



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  So one bottle of perfumed oil is akin to many, many rolls Royce's and all that other extra stuff that Recoverer mentioned?    Actually, i do get your deeper message behind this post, but you also have to look at this incident in context of what was going on.

   Yeshua knew his public, consistent time with his friends was soon nearing an end. He told them this more than a few times.   They heard, but many did not really listen.   Many (like Judas) still had hopes of a political, King like Messiah coming forth, and leading Israel out of the mouth of the Romans, and its own internally corrupt systems (priests, lawyers, much like today). 

  Miriam M., was one who believed and listened to Yeshua's words, and felt moved that moment to show her love, affection, and respect in a physical act, and he knowing that she would probably become quite upset about the near future conditions surrounding him, decided to just accept her gift in the spirit of which it was given.

  Maybe under different circumstances and with less extreme conditions coming to a head, maybe he would have counseled her to sell this oil, and use the money for others and the poor?  Relativity....

  As far as Osho is concerned, one doesn't end up with 150 R.R.'s just because a bunch of people spontaneously decide to give gifts from the heart, to one not expecting or asking for anything.   It's quite apparent that Osho must have had some kind of liking for R.R.'s, and perhaps even asked for them from others, or put out 'hint, hints'.   Yeshua did not ask for the perfumed oil and it was as far as we know, a one time dealio.

  Or maybe that first part of the above paragraph does happen in your reality and universe? 

  This is why the left brain is important, because in its highest function or purpose, the left brain represents clear discrimination of what's helpful/constructive and what's not.   Otherwise, we would just get lost down the rabbit hole of the Right brains, 'dude believe and do whatever you want to believe' regardless of the positive and negative affects on self and/or others.  Notice how so many stoner types, also tend to be rather right brain lopsided too?


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