Hi Laffingrain, you are in a pensive mood today! I think you have had some trying men in your life...
If I was a man I wouldn’t have a bra and a potato chip would not fall down there...
well that's one reason to be thankful for being a man then I guess
women share confidences, men share conquests
hmm, that's a little bit stereotyping of you LR! I don't think it really describes most of my male friends/relatives, but then maybe I don't hang our with this kind of man. I do agree though that quite often men don;t share feelings/confidences etc enough, and talk about superficialities too much, but I also think that can apply to humans generally. On the other hand I guess there's a time and place and it would be emotionally exhausting if you went round talking about your deepest feelings all the time.
love is being willing to love
makes sense
men like men because they are allowed to fart in the same room with each other
hmm, I've come across the occasional guy like that, but it's a bit tiresome. I guess though in a broader sense men traditionally feel they should act more refined in female company than they might with male friends, in terms of what they say and do. I guess that also works from the female point of view though too to an extent.
the only way to get somewhere is to leave expectations behind and start walking
seems good advice - as in more action, less theory and procrastinating?
love is counting up the ways u love someone and remembering this when you get mad at them.
yeah, everyone should do that. And - aside from people you really love - even with rather unloveable people you can often find some sympathetic side to them if you try
love is listening to others tell their story and then saying thats the most wonderful thing I’ve heard all day even if it’s not.
agree with first part, and I guess it's generally best not to hurt people's feelings, so the odd white lie doesn't hurt
they said love is never having to say you’re sorry but if we don’t apologize we can’t do better next time.
I think you should always say sorry if you feel bad about something. It's good to clear the air
love looks for whats right, not for whats wrong, it makes its house on what is going right
yes. nothing and no none are ever "perfect", and there's no use dwelling on the bad bits too much.
love is letting another be whoever they are in the moment without butting in or judging them as wrong. Then when they are all through explaining who they are to you, you nod your head and say, I was right about you all this time. then if they start explaining who they think u r, you go shopping at Walmart and tell them you’ll see them later.
or, you do plan B: you begin to remember all the reasons you loved them from the start and check to see if those reasons are still there. Usually, they are.
I wonder if divorce lawyers ever get divorced? They’ve had so much practice, I wonder if they practice what they preach?
What do you mean - that they preach that getting divorced is fine? You'd think they would avoid it as they know what a painful thing it can be... but maybe not, I mean lots of doctors smoke and not all priests are models of virtue
One pays to get married, and pays to get a divorce, think of all that money I could take to Walmart...
yes, if only we knew beforehand, I suppose
Committments are done with paperwork, but they should be done on your knees with a prayer instead.
yes, in an ideal world. but maybe both would be nice
that which u give to god is well taken care of and so it is that no problem is too big for spirit to handle, either in love or war.
maybe, but not everyone copes with life - is it just that they are not putting enough trust in God?
(PS I'm not very interested in war. can't believe humans are so stupid as to still be having them, but I realise sometimes leaders have hard decisions to make. I mean going to war against someone like Hitler was a reasonable idea I guess)