I asked the same thing after losing my mom and then my dad, and then my wife.

I do not know how "time" converts over there. But in time it is likely you will feel his presence less often as he becomes less connected "here" and more involved "there." My best friend and companion Janice passed away in March of this year, and while she came to me and popped in frequently at first, it became less frequent. My "visits" with Janice "there" have confirmed her attention is focused more "there" as it should be. But there is not one day, not one, that I do not think about her and talk to her, still. She has begun to move on; it is me that is not yet ready, I guess.

I remember asking a friend after my mom died when I would feel normal again. I am not sure when I noticed that I did. But  it takes as long as it takes...

Love and Light,
Thomas

Hi Mojo-
Like any loss, our world tends to try to rebuild itself to repair the hole left when a loved one dies. This is true for them as well. Therefor, it isn't as if you are less connected, but rather that you are doing different things that lead you into areas in which you are less likely to exercize the connection.

Notice that this was also true in life when you two had different projects, and would go and do them independently - No difference now except that it's harder to get together to shake hands.

The big hassle about death is not so much that people come and go, but rather that we do not have the same access to them as we previously had, which is frustrating, since we only have limited means of interaction and expressing love.

dave