Hi Vajra you are a fount verily of spiritual experiences, I wish to thank you again for sharing!
just briefly to share myself, I used to be with a group in my late teens, early 20's, and we were new, we called ourselves the church of the seven rays, which are colors.
the pink ray is the ray of love. the purple is a transmutation ray. each individual is said to incarnate within a ray color of predominance. the healer was working with love for your healing. the transmution or purple ray will take what is negative, hurtful and change it so that your back could "straighten" up.
while working in this area our teachers said back problems were because a person wanted to run away from something. they were said to have to get a strong backbone as their life lesson. this happened to me too! a chiropractor even said I would have back problems in age as there something not in alignment normally, whatever. I did have a few problems, slipped discs, but they were healed similar to the way yours was healed, spiritually speaking. One of my now group, like a close friend, followed my astral body back to my physical body and made some adjustments, sounded like a train moving over my vertebrae one time, and there was two adjustments at different times, or healings for which I have undying gratitude, and this friend was not the Reiki master I mentioned before, but the experience was one of PUL, sort of two buddies playing, he rumbled his healing train energy up and down my weak back, I'll be ok if I don't try to lift waterbeds or pianos! the psychological reason for my back problems were more of a gradual over a lifetime meditation session, had parent issues also, like you. I also been on crying jags during different periods of life, which are so cleansing. we should let ourselves cry, it is leading up to healing to do so, as we are not alone when we cry, there are guides.
crying is not weakness as might be supposed by society. my crying jags were from reading A Course in Miracles and for the first time I cried from not sadness but happiness! I just couldn't stop crying, so that way I began to feel reborn and opened my eyes one day and all my soul had come to me and everything was new.
this was what they meant to be reborn, in Christianity, however, I was not your usual Christian. I considered myself just a spiritual/philsopher, I am very independent, my suitcases are even packed at this moment!
(moving) (again)
In closing, we never know what the next day will be like. whether we shall even be here on the next day, and whether the internet will blow up. that sort of thing. so I wanted to mention retrievals, learning how to do them is the most healing act out of all the healing arts that I have ever studied, although we need them all.
the reason being, is when you help another part of life to lift them from what is not abundant life, as in stuckness where they are, this promotes the ideal of service to one another, as in promoting PUL, a viable life force/energy of which each person is made up of, when the personality/ego is shucked off, to mean the negative portions of that which do not serve equalibrium among humanity.
In this concept of Oneness, I merged my field with the other vibration and allow a portal action and both retrievee and retriever are freed, and lifted to greater life force. On these other levels we find we are all One and what can be burned off is dross of heaviness of thoughts and feelings which no longer serve.
thanks again for all you contribute here, if not for all of you, I would have nothing to say about anything!