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Aug 7th, 2007 at 2:04pm
 
Bruce seems to say there are similarities and indeed direct connections between dreaming and afterlife planes. As far as I can see dreams are just what happens when the mind starts to play and free associate and make things up, jumbling together fantasies, fears, hopes, recent experiences etc in bizzarre illogical ways, becasue it is not getting any sensory input from the outside. It seems clear to me that is what is happenning in most/many dreams I recall - I see no reason to suggest that dreaming I have gone to some other reality that is objectively real in the way waking reality is. I'm not sure I see this as a great endorsement for the spiritual worlds being factually existant themselves if they are like a dream, even though a dream sees real at the time you are having it I guess (as, somehow you critical/logical faculties seem to be  largely switched off).

I remember in the Denis Wheatley occult novels he used to claim dreams were astral journeys and, for example, friends or enemies could meet up in them and have adventures which they would each recall afterwards. It makes good fiction, but does it happen in reality?

Or re. dreams, have I exagerated this, and all that Bruce was saying is that for some reason it is easier for a spirit to contact a living person while they are dreaming because, perhaps, they are not focussed on sense experience in this world - therfore open to input coming from some other source (but not that that all dreams are hugely significant or connected to the afterlife or other journeys OOB).
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Reply #1 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 2:49pm
 
hi Orlando. I remember in my late 20's I was studying dreams diligently. I wrote them all down. nothing made sense. then I read somewhere in a dream book what u said more or less. that dreams were only desires, or fears, or replays of what had already gone under the bridge.  so I threw my dream book away as I figured it was just some sort of exhaust system, the act of dreaming.

many years would go by and I did not put any stock into the study of dreams and had few obes to report until I would begin to take up spiritual studies and to try to answer the questions of who and what we are through the studies. then the dreams and obes take on a different focus, based on what you are studying, as well what you are experiencing on physical level.
I would say our desire to know, in order to find a way out of suffering perhaps, or just a simple answer to a simple question, we can find answers within the dream state.

for instance, you brought up a good question, and its true we can interact with others within dream which can gravitate over to an obe state, or we can click into a phasing state within the dream where what we get, we now know what to do with a particular problem person in our lives.
as example, I was alandlady once with a problem tenant who cussed at me and went fishingon the rent money  Undecided

I prayed onit, what to say, whether I should get in his face, not having tools of communication, I went obe to speak with him. as it turned out the meeting came about, but he could not speak too well for himself so I had asked his higher self to come to me, so we could work out a win-win. instead of his higher self I observed a guide with him, who spoke for him. after the guide explained why this man was acting this way in physical life towards me, I at once knew what to say to him the next day to resolve our differences. it wasn't a normal feeling dream, but I would say the difference between a dismissible dream and an obe of import, would be a feeling of electric sensation of attention being revited upon the other parties and an intensity of being in the now moment.
on occassion, if u r receiving guidance, you might be told "listen, this will only come once, so don't talk, just listen."

on this occassion it seemed I was being asked to give more of myself than I wanted to, but when I did that, I was the one who benefitted from the situation resolved and he was removed from my life in a win-win way.

so I always write down now even the vague, less important seeming dream symbols, but it is often only many days go by and I re-read some of them and can make the connections what they meant; sometimes there is an aha moment to grasp, other times I wonder why I did not understand earlier.

it seems the perceiver and the interpretor parts of the mind are different things.

and yes, the spirits who live in another dimension can see us much better than we see them and can insert themselves to some degree into our sub conscious dream area so that we awaken and exclaim, I saw uncle George last nite and he was doing much better than I thought upon his transition. usually they would want us to know it is life as usual on the other side too. until society as a whole wakes up to reflect on the dreamscape, we will continue to dismiss that it really happened. it was called the veil of forgettfulness by olden time spiritualists. now we can say we just blink in and out of reality, and which reality is real, I could not say, for they both are real to me.
love, alysia  thanks for you post btw. Smiley
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Reply #2 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 4:01pm
 
Alysia - Dreams are like an exhaust system? Having gone through several years of Freudian training, including "On The Interpretation of Dreams", I particularly like your analogy. But I can almost hear the ground rumble as Freud rotates in his crypt. LMAO.

Orlando- The confusion that we experience in the dream state seems to come from two or three simple sources. First, the function of dreaming appears to be a memory device by which incoming data get universally related, to yesterday's rain shower, Aunt Maggie's pots and pans, and your left shoe.

Second, according to Freud, the motivation to have specific dreams is (Trumpets please ... Ta Daaa ) wish fulfillment. Freud's example is a case in which he dreamed of vigorous horseback riding. However at the time, he had a boil on his scrotum which totally prevented any such activity. (Hey - it's in the book.) Thus he was fulfilling a wish by symbolizing himself to be capable of bouncing about on horseback. To view this as an exhaust system for unsated desires absolutely tickles me!

Third, it seems to me that we are not generally very stable in the face of upsetting events, relying typically on external circumstances to save us. Thus, when we turn off the "exhaust system" and wander through our dreamworld in meditation or sleep, which is the same state of mind in which we are open to being aware of spirits and other subtle influences,  we tend have a wash of sensory inputs, upsets, and counter upsets, all mixed up in a confused manner. For meditators, this goes away with development of meditation and stabilization of focus. My experience is that as my meditation became more clear and focussed, so did many of my dreams.

The Bardo Thodol tradition tells us that this same kind of confusion is what we face at death, having no specific grounding, and being at the mercy of our own interpretations and exaggerations of what's happening. The solution is to either recognize the totality of everything at the moment of death (which is why Tibetan monks tell you that what they are doing is preparing to be dead) or to adopt a path by which universal accord with everything will occur, so that you work it out on the spot in spirit or in a later life.

Your criticism about functioning while switching off critical faculties is to the point - that would solve it all, of course, but the majority of our critical faculties fall off with the dead body. What remains seems to be made up of life energies and changes in the world, all ending in the corpse. The "viewpoint" generally seems to identify with expanding cone of influence of these energies and changes, and "rides on them" by superposition as they move outward into the world, mixing with other states etc. The core energy with which we would infinitely prefer to mix is obviously the essential nature of reality, hence the "core vibration" of the Creator, which is the fundamental of all the overtones and harmonics that make up the world. 

Based on my experience in regressions, it seems that for this "urge to merge" we retain a sense of nominal logic, capable of concrete operations, but not much more. So we more or less can follow any sequence of steps that do not involve self-contradictory elements, providing that we can find a place in the collection of energies and forces of the everyday world onto which we can project (or more literally, superpose) this sequence as a "secondary interpretation" of the patterns of activity that we see.

A "stuck soul" is like the Dutch boy with a finger in the di ke, fearful letting in the flood of "other stuff".  OR, in Alysia's terms, maybe his finger is stuck in his "exhaust system" (Ummm - honi soit qui mal y pense, hein?) and he is totally dedicated to preservation of his beliefs and fearful to move, because there is no visible logical escape path. As an extreme example, in everyday life we see such people pushing shopping carts full of cans and bottles down the street, fighting with unseen enemies, stuck with definitions of reality that don't fully work, with no way out. In spirit it only takes a sense of embarrassment, or dedication to duty, or fear, love, guilt etc - strong emotions that override the limited critical abilities remaining. But this is just like dreams in which the ghost is chasing us, and the harder we try to run the more we feel paralyzed, barely able to move an millimeter  - until we slide downhill toward a regenerative panic - and awaken. (Spirits can't wake up - they either get eaten or keep running, feeling terrible existential dread.)

It's a bit awkward to try to deal with all the possible "worlds" at once when we try to envision them as "places", as opposed to states of awareness.  Actually, there seems to only be the everyday experience of the physical world, and the place you see when you close your eyes. All the rest is some modification brought about by focus of the "viewpoint".  Some people, like Bruce, are sensitive to more subtle events, and easily see beyond the afterimages of the day. Others take mind-altering substances and tell horror stories of being chased by "ghoulies and ghosties and things going boomp" in the night, others meditate and work our way into greater awareness. And then there are the ones who buy a copy of Bruce's "Home Study" and learn to perk up their mediumistic skills.  It's all very similar.

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Reply #3 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 4:46pm
 
Hi orlando123   I dreamt my dad died and i went to the spirit world  to see him and he was sitting between two beautiful white angels and they were dressing him,putting a white robe on him and he looked beautiful,then dad saw me and he asked me why i was there and i told him i wanted to stay with him and he said "No,you have to go back,it is not your time yet"and he was smileing at me and the two angels started to walk him away and i was screaming,"Dont leave me dad,please dont leave me and then i woke up,and my dad died a week later.

I feel that i visited the spirit world in my dream and spirit were probably preparing me for the death of my dad.My dad never said that he had met me in heaven in this dream but if dad had had that dream ,he wouldnt have let on anyway.

I  think that some dreams do take us to the spirit world.

Love and God bless     Love  Juditha
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Reply #4 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 5:17pm
 
Thanks everyone for these different insights about dreams. Some food for thought (from the sublime to the ridiculous... thinking of boils and exhaust systems.. Huh)

Dave - what did you mean by this: Spirits can't wake up - they either get eaten or keep running huh? they get eaten?
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Reply #5 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 6:06pm
 
I'm relatively new to lucid dreaming, in that from my early 20s to prior to a Gateway programme last year I tended to sleep like I was unconscious and not remember anything.

Like Alysia and Dave say I seem to mix a rambling incoherent sort of dreaming which is unintelligible and probably the 'exhaust' variety, and a meaningful sort.

The meaningful stuff is sometimes symbolic, less often cinema style and rarely involve my being spoken to directly. Both tend to come in snatches and fairly short interludes. The difference in vibe is unmistakeable though much like Alysia says  - there's a crystal clear sense of reality about the meaningful stuff....
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Reply #6 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 6:40pm
 
Thanks Alysia and Vajra - the meaningful stuff is indeed clear.

In the everyday world, when we are chased we eventually either are caught, or we escape or we call a cop or something. If a person feels that they are guilty, and becomes paranoid because they have done some evil deed, then they are at liberty to (a) admit their guilt, (b) disown the act and any profits from it, (c) do some damage control if possible, and (d) resolve to do something else next time. That means that they are detached from the act and can go on with life - providing that they are truly and deeply sincere. (Compare to Catholic Confession.)  I use this same routine as a clinical technique.

In the spirit world, a person who is convinced that their License To Exist is about to be revoked, perhaps because they just cold-bloodedly shot someone before they died, has no really comfortable escape path.  To admit guilt implies negation of their own existence, they can do nothing to control damage, and their resolve for the future has no bearing on the past. So they're stuck in an existential self-contradiction. The dramatization of this awareness may reasonably be projected as some kind of attack against which there is no defense, and the ego-self-definition, which includes the benefits of killing the other dudes, gets lost, burned away, cut off, chewed off by critters, or otherwise removed. In that sense, they "get eaten". The "good guy" core of self remains, of course, assuming that there is one.

The solution for these people, since they're stuck in either perpetually escaping by clinging to the world and becoming earthbound ghosts, or running forever away from God, because they view God as the source of their own immanent destruction, is to abandon their previous nature and literally throw themselves on the mercies of God to forgive their past, and to "repair them" so they won't do it again. At that point, selection of the next life seems to occur. They might return as earthbound spirits who are also embodied - often a crazy and frightening life initially - or if they gave up to God, they return with some karmic loading that will alter their attitude so that they will no longer go around shooting people.

As an example of the last case, I recall having something to do with poison gas and WW I, ending in getting blown up. In this life I had thought about some options for vesicants that might have been useful in Iraq against dug in troops, and the idea called up all manner of psychic ghosts that tell me, to this very moment, to stay completely away from that kind of thing, even through professional channels. That was emphasized by a nearly fatal case of toxic pneumonitis - very similar to what gassed troops experienced. I got the message, and have no further interest. Karma is very helpful in keeping us out of trouble.

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Reply #7 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 7:00pm
 
The first time I made contact with my disc/I-there, was after a sequence of three very intricate dreams one right after the other.  Each dream had just the right number of elements so I could see that the story being told wasn't true, and resultingly wake up (two times into another dream). When it comes to the right number of elements, if I had too many clues, I would've realized I was dreaming too soon. If I didn't receive enough clues, I would not of realized that I was dreaming.

As the third dream was coming to an end it occurred to me how brilliant these dreams were. They would make a great novel or movie. Then it became real clear to me that they weren't just created by my sub conscious mind, they were created by my friends from the spirit World.

When I woke up from the third dream I was in an expanded state of consciousness. I heard the words, "Just as you found inconsistencies in your dream state, find inconsistencies in your waking state." I realized I was in touch with my disc/I-there. I heard/felt voices saying, "Yeah, you finally made contact with us."

Since the above event occurred I have analyzed over a thousand regular asleep dreams. It is clear that I receive messages from them.  I have also received numerous short waking dreams after asking a question.  I also reflected upon some of the dreams I had before I made conscious contact with spirit guidance, and found that without knowing it I was receiving messages from my spirit friends all my life.

I believe that one the reasons dreams are so full of symbolism, is so that somebody besides Freud will realize that dreams are often created by an intelligence beyond our ordinary day intelligence. There is no way random subconscious mental activity could come up with the symbolism I've been exposed to. As time has moved along, me and my guidance have developed a symbolic language.

There is also the factor of how I've received information of future events, that my regular subconscious mind wouldn't know about.

Another thing that happens as I think about a dream or try to remember a dream, my spirit guidance will sometimes send me additional messages that relate to the dream.  They'll also flash little points of intense white light by certain words, or on my right hand (my writing hand) as I write, in order to let me know that I'm understanding what a symbol was about as I write the symbol name into my dream journal.

I believe it is possible that there are also dreams which are just ruminations of one's subconscious mind. But once one starts paying attention to one's dreams and spirit guidance knows this, they are liable to respond accordingly.
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Reply #8 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 9:20pm
 
Greetings,

Can I throw in my old saw about the inadequacy of some of our words?  'Dreaming" has to stand for so many different states of consciousness that we experience while our conscious mind is asleep. We are just beginning to discover how many variations there are and what is possible in each.

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Reply #9 - Aug 7th, 2007 at 9:27pm
 
Row, row, row your boat ... Life is just a dream.

John Dunne in his book "An Experiment With Time" tries to deal with how we see into the future. My interpretation is that we sense the ripples of converging properties and forces.  Might be interesting to look into, as he has a lot fo cases. I'm not to hot on his math, tho.

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Reply #10 - Aug 8th, 2007 at 1:38am
 
some common symbols can be used for dream interpretation for anyone: these I have compared with other dreamers and saw they are basically the same for all: they can be interpreted to be a link to afterlife conditions, such as getting some brief insight there, as Bets points out, it's still a new area, and Freud, bless his heart, we need to expand on some of his conjectures as well.

house: (dream, not an obe, but can be both circumstances)
house is most often a thought structure, your consciousness that you navigate within, it is where you find comfort, habit and rest.

kitchen: kitchen dream areas are used for different reasons. a kitchen I use as a planning center, I cook up schemes there, etc. work out plans for the future.

Flying, moving, walking, treading as on treadmill, floating..all these images of doing that moving thing is self explanatory. I once saw myself doing a treadmill walk in order for a friend to catch up to me while obe. movement signifies the energy body is now active and your emotions are involved in this movement. your emotions can be in a form, or body, the energy body. or as some call it the astral body.

heres a funny one: feeling exposed with no top on. for men, this would be no problem. however, shortly after having this dream, my convertible top mechanism failed and I found myself driving about town feeling quite exposed. exactly as in the dream was the feeling.

Feelings: which brings us to feelings in a dream or obe: these are most noteworthy for causing growth in a person if paid attention to, the emotions will lead to observe your own belief systems which may contain conflicts to solve.

Meat: this is interesting symbol in dream as I'm a vegetarian. however, I finally figured it out. when I first started my book, it was symbolized as a baby boy. I fed the boy milk until he refused the bottle (writers block) I wandered into a group of forum members here within dream. a lady who was prominent here saw me taking some of the meat for my kid. she spoke and said there was not enough meat here, meaning the board as it was then. she was having a cook out on the forum. I told her I would go to the store. so the symbol my unconscious used was body building protein was needed for the book, spiritual meat in other words.

so you see the symbols were very instructive if meditated on enough and can point to real events which will occur, as the lady did leave the board because she was doing all the cooking at the time. things have changed. wish she was back but we still have some fine folks here, plenty of meat now!

I think it is the meaning we apply to them personally within patient reflection that is the reason for dreaming and other paranormal events such as obes and phasing, and altered states.

I'm glad my exhaust system pleases your fancy Dave, probably as much as your tube worm has had me in stitches too. yet I didn't mean it to sound negative for any that took it that way, but it's true that in the same way we ingest food daily, we must pass the waste product out daily also, there is a certain amount of negativity we need to cleanse from the mind daily too, and some dreams will enable that cleansing, but some are on a much different level such as precognition dreams or retrieval dreams.
as a matter of fact, everyone knows I enjoy laughing, according to some aliens I met once, laughing is also an exhaust system, so, ok, I think I can deal with that. keeps me healthy anyway. love, alysia
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Reply #11 - Aug 9th, 2007 at 4:49am
 
There is a connection between the afterlife and dreams.

I have had incredibly vivid and unforgettable lucid dreams, one of which was very much like a vision. My other experiences were first-hand astral projections.

Also, almost every psychic medium book I have read says dreams are our closest encounters with the spirit world. Certainly not all people claiming to be psychic are lying.
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Reply #12 - Aug 9th, 2007 at 3:20pm
 
EliteNYC wrote on Aug 9th, 2007 at 4:49am:
There is a connection between the afterlife and dreams.

I have had incredibly vivid and unforgettable lucid dreams, one of which was very much like a vision. My other experiences were first-hand astral projections.

Also, almost every psychic medium book I have read says dreams are our closest encounters with the spirit world. Certainly not all people claiming to be psychic are lying.


I don;t think all people claiming to be psychic are lying. But I am not sure if theri experiences are always exactly what they believe them to be either.

A lucid dream is where you are dreaming but realise you are dreaming - right? And it apparently allows you to take control of the dream environment.

What context did your astral projections occur in - were they deliberate? How did they differ from the lucid dream?
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Reply #13 - Aug 9th, 2007 at 4:18pm
 
Alysia has a new dress! - looks sharp, Lady.

Orlando- I think you're right. My attitude is far more likely to influence the meaning I interpret from a dream than is the specific stuff in the dream. If we use the analogy that dreaming up psychic truth is done by imagination that holds focus and elaborates while we sense the incoming data, then psychic inputs are received more orless in the same way as the old regenerative radio sets received things. It is an innate property of regeneration that it carries 3 db of noise - that means 50% noise. If I want to have a specific kind of vision, 50% of noise is more than enough to create a totally arbitrary interpretation.

You'd possibly enjoy Dunne's handling of his dream data - he cites train wrecks and such and gives some of the imagery that he and his correspondents received. It's a powerful suggestion because of the repetitive nature of the information.

Since noise is non-additive, there may be a way to get progressively more valid data if we use more dream samples from more dreamers. For example, I find that recurent dreams usually have a basis in some kind of experience.

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Reply #14 - Aug 10th, 2007 at 8:38pm
 
i don't think these new age authors are saying that ALL dreams are afterlife dreams.  obviously many or most are just the brain doing crazy things, processing information.

but people have predicted future events from dreams.  i've had lucid dreams and they were so different from  a normal dream, that after waking, i considered them just as much a "reality" as everyday life is.
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