Quote:in appearances you can blame Christianity or the politics of it all for our problems, but I do believe still the soul is androgenous. if I believe this way
I think it is not Christianity or the politics, it is more about the people that actually decide how to go on in politics.
So it is not Christianity or Politics as an institution, that I do not like at this time, but how it is interpreted.
And how high or low wages are, is made through discussions between trade unions that stand for the working people and the business administration of a company, so I still wonder why the differences between what a man or a woman earns for a living are still there.
And even if modernisation is important for development of thoughts, social circumstances or the outlook on the world we are living in for now, the "older" views, be it on morals or believing, are more drained to the background. I was a bit scared when I heard, that the next evolutionary state would be quantum computers, at least in 20 years scientist claim to be able to build computers that are able to make own decisions via ai, nearly at the possibility of a human mind. A principle that I think would work better than only rely on getting ahead, could be expressed like yesterday+today=tomorrow. So without respect for yesterday there can't be let's say a better tomorrow. And that is something that also the younger ones ( I think I still belong to them
) should also consider, they are not living just for their everyday fun (means not, that fun ist unimportant, I recovered fun after 4 years of perfectly denieing it as a part of myself, that is also important for my spiritual growth, without fun I think some sad part remains in your soul in the afterlife, and if you not care for it today, you would have to make it then), but that it is also important to have a certain amount of responsibility of what every action today means for your tomorrow, or the future of the children you will have to raise, it's I think a part of our nature, and like you described it on laughing-rain.com, as a kind of personal gift to the world.
The possibility for a woman to be the breadwinner is there, but less of the people use this ability (I think that I am going to raise the children I will hopefully have, since my parents were always fighting about rainsing me and my brother, my dad has not taken a big part in this when we were small chidren, but if one as a man want to have a closer relationship with his kids, it is important to have at least a 50/50 sharing of caring for the kids) . I don't know if I have the right to say it seems sometimes, there is some kind of patriarchalic thought concerning the outlook of a family to the relatives or the people around town, that you know, and it is still easier to find a job as a man, when you were out of business maybe for health reasons, than as a woman.
But at the age of 45, it is difficult for both genders to find work, companies mostly want the younger ones for working, thinking they have fresh ideas. And even there a mix of old and young is important, the younger ones can benefit from experience, and the older ones could be given a new perspective of thinking by the younger ones. And also retired people are taken to teach the younger generation, what I think is an amazing step, so they do not sit alone at home and suffer from having nothing to do (for the retired), they were also raised in times, where respect and discipline were more important, so they can pass this two things on to the future generation. A perfect example of one in all and all in one, if we would stick to it
)
America seems to be more flexible in this "breadwinner-issue".
I never thought about maybe being a woman to, only that I am very emotional not only emotional worries, sometimes I just wish I could do more to my family, sometimes I drown in this emotional lake what at least stops me from getting ahead. (And even if I am often told by my family that I do not care, I do care more about them than they now. I desire at least to make a bachelors degree in engineering, I always wanted a job that I like to do, not only for the fact to have money. But I also considered to get one, where I could maybe support my parents if they would ever need this support (maybe when they retire) But before considering that I should pass my practical training, since I screwed my highschool exams (takes 13 years to get them in germany) I have the possibility through that training to gain the permission to study, the theoretical part is gained automatically after only 13 years of school, but I have to stick to one subject and have no longer the possibility to study what ever I want) . They have paid long enough for my living, now it is my turn
)
I mostly had the impression that the feeling of "I do care about you" appears stronger from women, also the care for emotional problems and let's call it downtimes, then from men, could be possible that men decide not to show much emotions for not appearing as "douchebags" (what is very stupid....).
But after all, all what we discovered and invented, the emotional level between people, and also things like faith, trust, maybe in something higher than we are, should be also made again a part of our world, before people started to misuse faith to start wars, it was a big part of being able to exist. And in times where you are daily reminded that your time is running out, it is important to have this place where your soul can rest and you do not get sourced out by everyday events. You should do everything that is possible, but not start to think you have to work 48 hours a day when you have only 24
.
I do not wonder about that most people are unsatisfied with what they doing, because it does not come from the heart but only from the intention "you have to". So quantity reigns over quality. The bigger and more, the better, it is at least what the overall impression of society wants to make us believe.
We are more human than we sometimes want to believe we are. And if it does not change, we will never come to the point to discover what life is really worth. I personally do not believe that after this earth periode it is over and out. We begin to discover this part, but should on the other hand not only care about it, but consider it.
That was enough for this time
Love,
pulsar