Oh My Heavens--- 

First and foremost---- Judy and Deanna--- please send out thoughts of love to those who have misinterpreted your spiritual aspirations.  To all those who have disappointed Juditha and Deanna   in their expectations of what a true spiritualist is:  I sent out the chakra color "green" to surround you and bring peace into your hearts.  When ever you see green, think : green is love. I send you love.  This will become a mantra and the mantra will change ugly into beauty. This is the first step.

Second--- These persons of indifference are in your life to "teach you a lesson".  What positive lessons are you and Deanna learning?  One of " We are better human beings and will send out positive loving vibes so that the Spiritualist group will learn from us what true, unconditional love is ???  What true Spiritualism is?"  Search for the "good" in the lesson that God is sending to you via the Spiritualist group.  Think of how the circumstance may have changed if you "gladly cleaned up after someone" and gracefully exit the room.  That may have dropped a few jaws from the kindness.

Third--- Don't judge/else be judged.  We can't stand before God and say: I did this because  so and so made me angry but I felt justified.   You can say "I became angry and responded poorly and I ask for forgiveness".    I have had to swallow many of my words in my 58 years!  They weren't so easy going down the spiritual esophagus.  My lessons have been just as difficult for me as they are for Juditha and Deanna, because all lessons learned are personal and tailor-made.

Fourth: Begin your own "circle" of mediums, seers, psychics, and "spiritualist".  Begin with a  mutual evening that is agreed upon for you and your sister. Next,  choose a topic for the evening and stick to it. Do your research and have a book handy that you can refer to. Casually invite members of your family and acquaintances/ do not press anyone to attend. Let it go------.  On the designated evening, say the same opening prayer or mantra to be used at each gathering.  If only you and Deanna are the only two, enjoy the evening, and the topic.  Continue your "circle" each week, see the positiveness and love in the meeting, and eventually others will drift in.  You will find that the same persons will attend from week to week and occasionally  your regulars will bring a guest.

Fifth:  after establishing the group on about the third or forth week, suggest that you have a "kitty" or "pot" to put in a couple of dollars which will go toward the tea, cookies and eventually when you have enough, get everyone who attends regularly the same paperback book to read regarding some phenomena or subject that will be of consensus. 

Sixth: Always end the evening with a positive Thanks to All. 

Those are some good thoughts Identcat. A nice way to start a group of their own, when and if they are ready to do that.

In the meantime, I don't think it is tremendously helpful for people to continue to speculate on what Juditha and Deanna have done "wrong" at this time. When people are discouraged it is the last thing they want to hear.

What is needed, in my opinion, is a break from that community and its perceived frustrations. I do not think it should be this exhausting for them to simply participate in group activities at their church.

Certainly, having gratitude for what they have received at the church would be appropriate, but agreement on other issues is not necessary in my opinion.

When people are trying to develop confidence their feelings can sway back and forth over a large emotional field. That is what I see happening: emotions swaying back and forth from happiness with current successes to grief based on a lifetime of a certain kind of loneliness.

Most artists of any sort suffer from this instability, and sometimes the very instability is the bottomless well of inspiration that they can draw from for their insights.

Artists are not generally spending much of their time thinking about how neat the tea service is, etc. etc., or even if there is enough money for tea in the first place.

Bruce calls his retrievals an "art" and so is mediumship.

I think the first thing is for Juditha and Deanna to recognize that mistakes are in the eye of the beholder. Change often causes upheaval...I think it's a natural thing. I personally take the stand that a little "craziness" from an artist is sometimes the price you pay for their gifts.

Often, that craziness is just the truth.

love, blink

Hi Identicat
I thought I had healing techniques down pretty well, but your brief summary is as good as I've seen anywhere. Thanks!

Regardless of Juditha and Deanna - you've given Me a much needed reminder, for which I am grateful. And of course for the two of them, I fully endorse what you said.

I especially like the part about , "I got angry and responded poorly." Listen up folks - that's the real thing.

dave

Hi Blink identicat dave bets and aylsia kate and vajra and boris I and Deanna are going to do this ,get our own circle started and healing circle.im going to have it round my house until we can afford to hire a hall 2nights per week,thanks so much identicat for suggesting that we start on our own as we had not thought about doing this and thanks all of you for your loving words and advice, we will let you all know how we progress,thanks so much for who you are and for being on this afterlife with much much love from i and Deanna.

God bless you all   Juditha and Deanna    

Hi aylsia Thanks for your loving and encoraging words,they say that angels walk the earth and all of you are loving angels to me and Deanna.

Love and God bless    Love juditha

as usual, my gratitude to Juditha and Deanna, the twins who help each other.

Quoting Alysia: "I managed to get kicked out of a few places too".
This has aroused my curiosity, about what kind of place does not accept
ppl like u, and what you did that bugged them.
Who is accepted in what kind of a place is an issue to me,
that I like to learn about. I have successfullyy fitted into
a Moslem group even though I am not Moslem, and I can tell you,
that is an art, considering the difference in religious and political views.
I have had discussions with my lovely Moslem online girlfriend
about issues of integrity involved there. But I dont misrepresent myself there.

But if you don't want to talk about it, I dont want to drag up awkward memeories.