that was sweet Boris, u seem more balanced these days, good work. a philosopy I picked up from a kid one time was "life is what happens while you're waiting for it to happen, or even the people around me are the people I have been waiting to meet all my life.
Blink said: I think this is what it is to be awake.
this above in regard to accepting another person. the word acceptance has more meaning than we generally apply to it but I was struck by Blink's soul maturity here (I'm sorry if I'm turning this thread into a mutual admiration society)
but I remembered what Blink has just been thru, and I got a glimpse how people come and go in our lives and theres a reason for that..sometimes we just outgrow the behavior patterns that we're used to enacting with someone.
it seems a little sad, but a friend of mine was very wise, he said he will establish a small group of friends and as he grows, they fall away, and another group may or may not come in, but the friends who stay, they are the true companions who just accept each other and grow with the changes.
Boris said it well, its difficulties that make us grow should we face them straight on.
back to topic, Juditha, as Kardec said, the higher beings will come in love and not brag about it, I suppose you would be able to ascertain or discern the spirit?
always keep your white light shield and pray for the highest good and you will attract that good to you and not need to be worrying about misinformation and misleading spirits. we all have doubts but its good to talk it out like you do. its hard for them to fake PUL, so trust yourself. I heard you say you love god many times, I think your love protects you.
DaveMbs, men are such worms, but I can't live without them for some reason.