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juditha
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the priest said seeing spirit is phsycological
Jul 5th, 2007 at 12:39pm
 
Hi I had an hour with the priest today,who i see once a week at the centre were i go and i told him of my out of body experience and he told me i did not really leave my body that it is phsycological,its just my brain trying to help me escape from my troubled life and creating an illusion for me.

He also said that when me and Deanna see the spirit of our dad,its an illusion of whats to come and that when we do join dad one day he will not be a spirit but a solid person,who we will be able to talk to and eat with,just like we did when he was alive,as the next world is a solid one not spiritual and that God is more in the material world than a spirtual one and that the material and the spirit are as one and do not seperate.

I thought he will find the truth when he dies.

Love and God bless   love Juditha
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Reply #1 - Jul 5th, 2007 at 12:55pm
 
Daammnn priest,

They are full of intellectuals knowledges, but they  have low wisdom and experience.  In general case, I think religious leaders have close mind.  That's why they are often trap in beliefs systems territories.  Hopefully, they are not all like that. 

Trust your experiences and your inner force.  Keep an open and rational mind.
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Reply #2 - Jul 5th, 2007 at 3:27pm
 
Hi Juditha-
If priests could not maintain the mythology of God's rage, hatred of sinners, and hell, damnation and punishment, plus faith in a wholly material world in which there are no spiritual truths to be learned to advance our understanding, then their livelihood would be seriously affected. 

I get the impression that when people can't understand something, they cling to their prior beliefs and tell us to, "It is an Article of Faith," or sometimes, "It is a Sacrament, and a Holy Mystery." In this way they prevent themselves from having to reconsider their lifestyles or their belief systems upon which their lifestyles are supported. And on that basis, if it only takes a little persuasion from the Inquisition to alter people's expressed beliefs, certainly that must indicate that they're doing "good".

Interestingly, we occasionally see political figures who claim that their actions are similarly based on "what is really good for the people", and "teaching the people the proper lifestyle and political system", as they impose their will on other nations by force of arms. And in the present world there seems to be a combination of both religious and political obsession with similar obsessions about right and wrong.

It's almost as if the obsession with "fantasied versions of truth" is a severely neurotic distortion of reality that is pandemic among people with obsessive and manic tendencies. Those who are best qualified to lead, because they are open minded and insightful, are too smart to allow themselves to be forced into politics or formalized religion. As a result, those who wind up as our political candidates or our fundamentalist religious leaders are quite generally the least qualified, but the most motivated, perhaps out of manic rage that arises from fear that they might be wrong, or that they might miss out on an opportunity for pecuniary gain and power.

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Reply #3 - Jul 5th, 2007 at 8:04pm
 
Hi, I resonate with all your posts, I see this pattern as well.

What really is ironic, in a bad way, in my culture I live in, many people with spiritual issues think the appropriate person to talk about this is a priest, which unfortunately in most cases is the very worst choice. "It's psychological / physiological" seems a really typical answer, or, when asking the really interesting questions, you get "it's a mystery, go read the bible and have faith" or so.
It's a sad thing, and sometimes I have had the impression some priests are very unhappy because of their wishes and hopes they once had, which caused them to become a priest, and on the other hand their strict religious rule-system and everyday-church-business which is covering their own needs and therefore they can't get happy. Just my impression.

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Reply #4 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 3:47am
 
spooky2 wrote on Jul 5th, 2007 at 8:04pm:
Hi, I resonate with all your posts, I see this pattern as well.

What really is ironic, in a bad way, in my culture I live in, many people with spiritual issues think the appropriate person to talk about this is a priest, which unfortunately in most cases is the very worst choice. "It's psychological / physiological" seems a really typical answer, or, when asking the really interesting questions, you get "it's a mystery, go read the bible and have faith" or so.
It's a sad thing, and sometimes I have had the impression some priests are very unhappy because of their wishes and hopes they once had, which caused them to become a priest, and on the other hand their strict religious rule-system and everyday-church-business which is covering their own needs and therefore they can't get happy. Just my impression.

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You might be onto something there. At least I can see this applying to some priests.
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Reply #5 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 5:11am
 
The priest will see whats going on after dying. Wink But who walks to a priest and tells him about an oobe? Wink
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Reply #6 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 12:35pm
 
I guess institutional religion (for all sorts of self interested reasons) both teaches, attracts and creates minds that don't want to go  beyond the tangible.

I guess that convincing people that they only get one shot at life, and that based on how much blind obedience they give to the church and its dogma they will be damned or go to heaven for ever afterwards has obvious benefits in terms of giving temporal power for the institution. That's before you talk about the priesthood being the only means of forgiveness and communication with God, the need for confession to those priests (great source of juicy info!!) and so on.

The key I guess is to keep people away from the transcendential - it's from here that wisdom, compassion and the higher understanding necessary to allow one to move beyond these simplistic beliefs comes. The church has always fought against this.

It's very strong - our local (Irish) protestant rector preached a sermon last Christmas denouncing Buddhism as a 'dangerous cult'.....
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Reply #7 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 3:23pm
 
Hi Vajra-

A "dangerous cult" indeed - Buddhism is based on taking personal control of one's spiritual status. If you have become personally responsible, then why have priests around?

Buddhism does not deny any specific teaching, but rather tells us to seek out that which works for our own selves, otherwise, not to believe in it. The idea of an objective and material God is denied - no big guy with a beard sitting in the clouds tossing lightening bolts down at us - and the idea of an unchanging soul is denied - instead we are products of our own growth processes as we reincarnate.  The abstractions that are left over are often beyond traditional Christian philosophers (although Pere Teilhard de Chardin seemed to understand what is happening - and amost got excommunicated for it). Much of what Jesus said can be interpreted as the words of a buddha, as can the words of most of the prophets of most major religious groups, especially in the Eastern religions. Worse, Buddhists generally believe that the world has a large number of enlightened souls in it, most of whom are smart enough to hide under the social radar. That pretty well does away with a "single and unique path to salvation", or "mystery" and "take it on faith". Yet, if we view the Christ as the projection of God-Mind into the world to bring resolution, taking on the personification of a buddha, as opposed to the role of Jewish King, then we could create a Christian version of Buddhism that loses nothing of the richness of either approach.

I sympathize with the priest - that's job security he's talking about!
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Reply #8 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 5:39pm
 
Yep!! Couldn't agree more Dave. It's interesting to read especially the new testament through a Buddhist or spiritual lens - am no expert, but even I can see there's more than a few perspectives that sneaked past the (Roman) emperor Constantine when they were 'adjusting' the Bible. (the guy  who hammered the 'fundamentalist' tendency in Christianity into the instrument of dogmatism and state power that it is today)

The more mystical side has as you say somehow managed to perpetuate much of this view however, despite crusades organised by the pope against the Cathars and the like. The likes of Bernadette Roberts it seems even managed to achieve realisation within a pretty traditional Catholic framework. Her book is interesting - she talks of trying to make sense of developments quite familiar to the eastern traditions, of looking for advice from traditional monastics and getting nowhere.

Buddhism as best I can tell (please correct me if I'm wrong) doesn't even seem to really deny the possibility of a God. Just that it's unlikely as you say to be a personal dualistic God - that it's more likely a distributed intelligence at our level of which we each are a tiny part. It also seems to tend to take the view that we have more than enough to sort out at our own level of existence, that idle speculation about that about which we cannot know anything meaningful is just a diversion from the true path of realisation...
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Reply #9 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 5:54pm
 
Hi  dave and vajra  The spiritualist church i used to go to were very down on buddisum as there was someone who went there and he was well into buddism and one night when they had the healing there,he brought a buddist bowl in,which he was going around everyone and placing it over there head,then hitting this bowl with a gong,because he said the vibration of him hitting it made you closer to the spirit,so those who run the church resented him and showed it and he has stopped going to the spiritualist church.

Love and God bless   Love Juditha
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Reply #10 - Jul 6th, 2007 at 10:48pm
 
Juditha- I side with the church on that one. Whether it's a Buddhist bowl or a trashcan over my head doesn't seem to me to make much difference. Some people get all tangled up in their equipment, rituals and paraphernalia. And, of course, that has nothing to do with the core beliefs and actions of Buddhism.

Vajra- When I was learning, what I was taught was always the idea that when we go far enough into samadhi we discover pure "Mind", awareness in the form that thinks the world and everything in it, including each of us, although we don't always realize this until we get there. But that makes sense - and it explains at least one way that we all have essentially the same perceptions and experiences despite being tremendously different.

Then the next part of the lesson was typically, "So you'd better learn to meditate." Since this was in the 1960 era, we generally took it to mean, "Refill the bong and stay focussed this time." In spite of that, a lot of people survived and gained in wisdom. In more recent days I discovered the Dalai Lama's book on Dzogchen, a far less stringent tradition, more or less a cross between Buddhist beliefs and Bon Lamaism, which suggests alternatives that are more comfortable to the Western mind. (Less coughing too.) Smiley

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Reply #11 - Jul 7th, 2007 at 6:35am
 
Not too sure Juditha why that guy might have done that with a bowl - I've never seen anything like it in Tibetan Buddhism anyway, although maybe there's something in another tradition. Think that most Buddhists would regard pushing into another tradition's ceremony as pretty bad manners though. But then Buddhism like all traditions has people at all levels and of all sorts of legitimate and not so legitimate views within it it.

On meditation Dave. I guess it's a big subject and a long road. The basic shamatha meditation taught in most Buddhist groups is the basic discipline which only lays the ground for further types of meditation involving insight (vipassana) and visualisation.

I know very little about it but Dzogchen while publicly discussed quite widely now (especially by Sogyal Rinpoche and his Rigpa organisation) is a very rarefied teaching peculiar to the Nyingma tradition which is a part of Vajrayana or the Diamond vehicle - essentially the highest teachings of Tibetan Buddhism. It was traditionally secret, and while it's now talked of publicly the real teaching and transmission (abisheka) is still subject to vows of secrecy, obedience to teachers and the like - and only available after a long period (up to 13 years) of preparatory study and practice.

It's essentially experiential and pretty much unexplainable, but entails realisation of the true nature of the mind or the 'rigpa' - a state of pure awareness arising prior to mental concept or commentary, before all the concepts and beliefs that give rise to our perceiving and being limited to our conventional reality kick in.

Teaching relies heavily on meditation, visualisation and mind transmission from a realised teacher, realisation involves insight or seeing of a new view rather than anything to do with intellectual understanding.

It's for this reason regarded as 'self secret' - you won't even be aware the teacher is showing you the 'true nature of mind' if you're not prepared. It's apparently like coming to exist in a state which is continuously aware of the absolute dimension (the dharmakaya), of the collective nature of mind, of the sambhokaya (afterlife realms) and of the illusory nature of self.......
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Reply #12 - Jul 8th, 2007 at 5:04pm
 
Hi Vajra-
Yes, I both understand what you say and agree. I was a happy hippie practicing math avoidance and puffing my way through philosophy and marijuana, while living at Kagyu Chang Chob Chu Ling, a Kagyu dharma house in Portland (cheap rent). Then Gyatrul Rinpoche came through and offered initiation into Bardo Thodol, which I accepted as well, having spent several years fooling with the ideas. Over the next few years, my life radically changed, and in spite of myself I began to study advanced math. More amazing, I enjoyed it! And, finally, I developed enough formal logical theory to test it in the field and to present it for a doctorate. It's the same stuff that I still use in my clinical practice. Whether the mathematization of Bardo Thodol ultimately has any spiritual merit is not my problem (fortunately).

Dzogchen is either the most complex or the simplest approach - but it seems to me to be worth looking into for most people. Perhaps that's why the Dalai Lama decided to write about it.

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Reply #13 - Jul 8th, 2007 at 6:19pm
 
It sounds Dave like you've been on the path for quite a while. More than myself.

I spent the 70s and 80s trying to be a ruler of the universe until it knocked some manners into me and I had to look for help in the form of the spiritual path. Sogyal Rinpoche (Rigpa) the well known Nyingma teacher has been quietly pushing Dzogchen for quite some time too. If I remember it right  he reckons that us Westerners manage to combine spectacular neuroticism with sophisticated minds likely to be able to utilise the rather subtle perspectives of Dzogchen.

Tibetan Buddhism is very old and sometimes a little Tibetan, quaint and difficult to swallow, but much like yourself it's helped me so much as well. To the point where I've developed some real faith in the teachings. It's very hard to belittle or set aside a tradition or a body of teaching which time and again shows itself to be trustworthy and effective.....
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Reply #14 - Jul 13th, 2007 at 2:37am
 
here is my evidence that he is wrong - i have gone through more depression than you can probably imagine, and i have only left my body once while sleeping.  i have tried to many times, but couldn't do it.  also a relative died and i was in mourning and wanted to see her spirit very badly, and i never did.  if these were psychological defense mechanisms, i would have experienced them many many times.  sure, some people are schizophrenic and "see things," but you don't sound schizo to me....
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