Whenever I send PUL to someone I get tremendous mental peace.

     But unfortunately I am totally confused now because someone had told me
     that I can earn some negative KARMA if I send LOVE energy to someone.

     How this is possible ? I am sending PURE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ENERGY
     which is absolutely good and positive. Then how can I earn negative KARMA
     for sending PUL.

     I am very new in this journey. I know many experienced afterlife explorers
     post here .

    Can anyone of you would be kind enough to respond to this query .

    I am really confused . I really want to send PUL to people . I really feel many people
    in my country desperately need it.

    LOVE and LOVE to all.

    -- Khaled from Bangladesh

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Can't suggest better than that you read the above links R. I guess the point at some level is that Tonglen or the practice of 'giving and taking' (PUL) as it's otherwise known is reckoned to help both yourself and the object of your compassion.

Can't vouch for the mechanics or its effect on others, or for it's transcendential dimensions but for sure it softens one's own attitude to others, and feels good. If nothing else it helps us to open - to drop self centredness, and conditions us to take a habitually compassionate attitude towards others...

Hi Khaled-
I agree with Vajra. However, lets put this in perspective.

Love is the unity that brings us together. Usually it is contaminated by ego, lust, convenience etc. So PUL means that we are willing to go the extra step, beyond ego, and as Jesus put it "Love thy neighbor as thyself". Since we're all one anyhow, this makes sense.

As an example, I love my wife, which occasionally means that I do the dishes after dinner. Usually she kick me out of the kitchen to do them herself. Either way, this is love in action - making love by doing the dishes 

Of course it's a nuisance to the ego self, but a joy to the inner transcendent self who loves.  It is not at all necessary to go out and get crucified to prove your love, but if you feel that this will help the world, as Jesus did, and as all the other prophets, sages, rishis and saints have felt, then take up your cross and follow them. I prefer to stay in the world and work as a therapist, personally.

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Thanks all for sending your valuable comments.

Dear Laffingrain ,

If I can avoid the ego thing (as you mentioned) in sending LOVE Energy to some specific person , will it be fine to do so ? Sometimes I really want to send PUL to some specific person.

LOVE and LOVE to all.

khaled wrote on Jun 22^nd, 2007 at 1:52am:


dear Khaled and u r just as valuable here. what I do is ask about the highest good, sometimes their highest good is not my highest good and this could be hidden from me. so I have to study myself first. I ask myself what if I expect some payback on this gesture? usually u can see if u do want something back. If u do, then its not unconditional love you would be sending. so its helpful to pretend you have guides in your house and speak to them about it. for all I know you probably have guides who are not showing theirselves to you just yet. guides like to stand aways back from us. we need to figure things out on our own is the reason. so, pretend anyway. just ask this person I would like to send love to, what does their highest good look like? if you ask this question the universe will supply you an answer soon enough but might take a few days.
when I call it the universe I am also calling it helpers or CW's, consciousness workers, a term TMI gave us. we are not alone as we walk this world.

if u want a short answer, sending love entails thinking of a trait that person you wish to send love to, a trait, something about them which pleases you. think about them this way, that you are so pleased with something they are doing, or have done, or the way that they go about their business, and this thought is also practicing PUL. On some level, the thoughts we generate with another in mind are always effecting and picked up as a good feeling by the other party, even if they don't know where that feeling came from.

this my opinion. all of us get a good feeling of love now and then and don't have a clue where it came from, but we certainly wouldn't be rejecting the idea somebody, somewhere appreciates us and maybe we don't even need to know where it came from for it to to be a healing feeling. love is healing.
love, alysia

khaled wrote on Jun 23^rd, 2007 at 2:07am:


see Khaled u r already doing it. u just sent me love.

haha! Alysium, nice one Bets! no nothing about me is that original, theres an old sooth saying what goes around comes around,or u give out what u want to receive. our intentions sometimes get confused with our desires on the surface and varying interpretations.

what I noticed on this board, don't matter how intellectual we get to quote our books, to try to give our knowings away, what others are really fed is what the intentions of the person are behind the words. how they pick up intentions suprises me sometimes. people are so perceptive in this day and age to know where a person is coming from.
I think we are all becoming heart intelligent as evidenced by this posters title. that reminds me of a culture that just before they enter the kung foo fight they bow slightly to each other to honor each other, then they proceed struggle and fight.
I wonder of that gesture, that they are equalizing each other?

this was crazy, this happened in a retrieval one time! lol. I was to retrieve a real criminal; a crowd watched. we bowed slightly to one another in respect and the drama unfolded as I then forgot I was retriever until it was successfully accomplished.
the respectful bowing was as close to PUL as we might generate at the time.

anybody here get feelings of love from out of the blue for no reason? it's like high octane coming from the sky tank. all u can do is say thank u, I needed that. but sometimes u can begin to put an identity to it.
love, alysia