I like Bruce's post best, and everybody has good points. I'll just add my two cents because I'm on my 2nd cup of coffee
theres a word we never use anymore because we are in the new age. its called repentance. actually, it's the opposite of rebellion. theres even a place in the soul between repentance and rebellion and that might be the middle path, the balanced mental and emotional path or a nonduality state of mind I'm getting ready to reflect on.
once or twice I tried repenting something I did while having a god conversation. when I did say I'm sorry, I think I'll refrain from _____ fill in the blank. then if my emotions were in alignment with my mental, the grace does descend.
this how it is in heaven too. in hells as well this grace, this choice for it, stands close by awaiting your invocation, or the one in hell who lifts their eyes to it at last.
but even so nobody gets off scott free just by mouthing the words. you have to be bitterly honest with yourself when you're doing the repenting.
it's actually self transformational. the energy changes of your entire being, your body to focus on it's effect, the way it opens your heart to life. I carry yet the memory of sadness with an equal measure of pure joy, so I call it being in balance. I can stand on one foot for hours now!!! in balance...lol...
sorry got off topic.
I've seen a few miracles of transformation. i know those in hells can be helped. I know it's not eternal damnation we are discussing here which has any relevance, and it's not allowance of brutality either which one comes to.
one miracle I saw was when the power of the spirit, the spirit of grace and PUL came thru my eyes and imploded into the heart of one who had molested me as a child. I was used by the power and glad, because it set me free also. I saw his repentance on his face and I saw his sins become transmuted by the presence in the air which abided with me. he accepted the grace, he accepted a change in his own mind, all we have to do for one another is let this grace and PUL use us through thinking about it and being vigilant for it when it calls upon you.
the funny thing is the eyes..the light shines from people's eyes, and holds rotes. an energy from the eyes, we send messages to one another. no words were needed, the walls come crumbling down.
but we are all different how things happen of a spiritual nature so it's good to share our stories here as we need to communicate more stories of joy and success to inspire more of the same.
I truley believe that in our oneness there is much power for change, and retrieving speeds up the evolution of the spirit here.
So Nirvana, I suppose thats my roundabout answer to you, that we go in one by one and help our brothers and sisters out of hells, when they are ready to make a change.
I'm a little old fashioned but I believe we can all get our wings..sooner or later.
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