Hi I went to the spiritualist church and the medium there came to this woman ,who was in the audience and the medium said to her,that he had this man who was in spirit and he was hiding behind the veil and he was saying that he felt so bad about what he had done to her that he could not come away from hiding behind the veil and the medium then said to this woman that this spirit wanted her forgiveness and that he was truly sorry for what he had done.

This woman shouted at the medium and said "Tell him to go away ,i do not want him here,i will never forgive him" and the medium looked sad and he said that he had gone,so sometimes even the death of someone you shared life with does not always receive forgiveness from the one he or she has left behind,he had felt remorse on the spirit plain ,but it did not matter to her on the physical plain.

Love and God bless  Love Juditha

Hi Juditha-
I disagree, Boris, because the man has had a change of heart. That will free him. What has actually happened is that the woman who refused to forgive is now stuck with hauling all her nastiness and bile around until she is willing to let it go and forgive him.

Whenever we encounter a person with some kind of attached ailment that defies medical interpretation, it's a pretty good bet that it's stuck on by karma. The essence of the karma is generally the refusal to forgive what happened to us. That means that to keep the pain we have to keep the injury, and because we keep the injjury we suffer and feel hostile, and the justification for the hostility is that we feel pain, so to keep the pain we are forced to keep the injuiry ... and round and round and round it goes. You know what they say - some would rather reign in hell then submit to heaven.

For some reason people seem to feel that when I forgive someone it's a favor that I am doing for them. This might be true in a trivial manner, but the biggest winner is the person who does the forgiving, because that means that everything can now be let go. Forgiveness is one of the most powerful cures we have. Too bad that she failed to recognize it.

d

Dave says it like it is, most accurately to the point.

No one actually needs to seek forgiveness from anyone else (interpersonal karma of relationships inevitably needs to be balanced, but this is not forgiveness by itself), nor does anyone actually need to forgive anyone else. (Because when one is finally able to see clearly spiritually, and lovingly, it is not the other person (eg. perpetrator or transgressor against you in the past) who needs your forgiveness (there is nothing to forgive), it is only yourself.)


Perpetrator/Transgressor : "I seek your forgiveness."

(The being who has reached a point of 'enlightenment' (ie. the never-ending process of adding light, clarity, love or evolution to oneself), awareness and evolution) :
"There is nothing to forgive, other than (both of us) forgiving (ie. learning and growing from, then letting go) of the energy (including pain, suffering, mistakes, etc) of the past karma, the past karmic relationship play that both of us had agreed and chosen to participate in. I *more* than forgive you (because there is nothing about you that I need to forgive; you do not need my, nor anyone's, forgiveness; you only need your own), I *love* you."

Love is the ultimate forgiveness. Or put in another way; in Love, there is no need even for any 'forgiveness'.

Lily Fairchilde's "Voices from the Afterlife" on a story of Forgiveness & Love from two souls whose stories are intertwined with, about and for each other. Their stories are told from their perspective now in the afterlife. Author Lily Fairchilde clairvoyantly and telepathically mediates.

Michael (pg 92 - 102)
Li (pg 103 - 111).
Voices from the Afterlife : http://infinity.usanethosting.com/Heart.Of.God/LilyFairchilde/index.htm

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Also, see Hilarion and Sananda (Jesus Christ) on Love & Forgiveness as the *purpose* of Karma :
http://infinity.usanethosting.com/Heart.Of.God/Hilarion/Hilarion_JesusChristSana...

I agree with Dave too.

I'm sad for the lady in Juditha's post.  Gosh, what a burden to carry in one's heart.  

Kyo is 100% correct that there is nothing that needs to be done because we know in advance that it all comes out OK simly because God does it all.

BUT - when I hurt someone, like my wife whom I deeply love, I feel really bad. They often feel pretty bad too, and if it's my wife, she lets me know it.

Of course it will work out. Time wounds all heels.   (Of course we call it karma here.)

But it's nicer to make peace and restore love by a deliberate action. I don't like being at odds with folks, but I love making up - in fact I make up by loving - and that's a good activity with a good payoff for all involved.

In my psychological practice, the essence of therapy very often is as simple as forgiveness, allowing love to flow where hatred and discomfort flowed before.  It gets rid of aches and pains, frustrations and confusion and helps us sleep better.

And, as Bets pointed out, that's still an available option.
PUL, lady
dave

Kyo

Is Lily Fairchilde an actual person or is that a pen name for some one(s)?

Hi Dave    Jesus ,when he said those words " For they know not what they do" meant so much for all of us to know that there is always room for forgiveness in our hearts towards our fellow man,he was such a beautiful spirit to have walked on the earth plain.

Love and God bless    Love Juditha

Kyo

Thanks.

To me, this is a really peculiar and puzzling thing. The book is well-written, and expresses itself with unusual clarity. And given its presentation, I don't understand why more people here have not read it, as it addresses many of the questions people who post here like to raise.

Yet I don't know of any other author of this calibre on whom I can't find more information. And the book is not old, and has references to contemporary life (computers, description of a gas stop in the midwest, stuff like that) that make it current. Do you have a physical copy of the book? Sometimes books have blurbs about the author. Does that one?

Though if this is just one person, I could understand why she would avoid publicity and hide her identity, for privacy.