Can you send them messages even, if you aren't meditating?? Say I just talk to God, or my spirit guides and tell them to deliver a message to my deceased gpa that I want him to know that I love him and miss him.. Will they do that for me or no? Do you have to meditate to communicate??

Hi Bear,

I think you can send messages at any time, especially heart messages of love. I didn't know that before I came to this site, although I really did.  What I mean is, prayers for the dead are included in many other spiritual practices.  Remembering the dead with respect, love and reverence has always been a part of many cultures.

For me, some of the greatest surprises are seeming contacts that appear spontaneously in my life in the form of dreams, waking messages or signs, and journeys in meditation.

I don't think there is one way....but if one way doesn't work for you, maybe just ask for another way. If quiet contemplation and prayer for a sign doesn't work, ask for a dream.  Keep with the intent.

If that doesn't work, try meditating.  A deep meditation will always give you some kind of message which you need to hear at that time, and is very comforting.

But I wouldn't expect a specific result at a specific time.  Be gentle with yourself and let the messages come through when the path is clear.

I think you are on the right path if you just keep your mind open to possibility.

love, blink

I got a notion to do some remodeling last summer, and cut a hole in the kitchen floor to open up a stairwell that had been covered up since the fifties.  No one knew I had done it, I wasn't planning it, so it hadn't been mentioned to anyone, at any time.  After I got it done, I was standing half-way up, so I was about waist deep in the kitchen floor, saying to John (who's dead, by the way) "I wonder if you can see what I've been up to."

A few weeks later I talked to a medium, who, in the middle of talking about a dog that she saw with John, said "Somebody fell through the floor??"  I said, no, no one fell through the floor that I knew of.  She said she was being shown someone half-way down through a floor...

If that's a coincidence it's a mighty impressive one.

I hope she will come see you Kate..I'm sure she will try and maybe you will be open. love, alysia  probably she needs a few weeks to get adjusted more or less.

Kate, I am sorry to hear about your gma! I hope you will connect with her someday!

Thanks laffingrain for that message! I believe you are right and that is what I always felt about them knowing our thoughts.. I just wasn't for sure..

Peace