Shirley, I am so sorry for your loss and for all who are affected right now by this. I will hold you all in my heart with love. I will try a few meditations over these next few days to take a look, and I know others will also.

My personal belief is that those who commit suicide go to a special area where they are treated in some special ways...a healing place. Otherwise, and possibly additionally, a very fast reincarnation. I'm sure each circumstance is unique.  But, of course, I don't claim to know for sure.

Again, you and yours will be constantly in my thoughts. 

love blink

Shirley,

What a loss for your family. I am so sorry you all have to go through this. There is nothing we can say to make it any better but Bets is right. You are surrounded with loving souls here. Many of us in our own way will be sending you love, prayers, meditation..whatever it is we have to share. May this in some way help you to stand tall during this trying time, and the strength to support your husband.

Luckly you have a lot of friends here who can assist you in finding your answers when the time is right, so you will gain peace of mind. We stand beside you, we will not let you fall because we love you.

My love and good thoughts go out to you and your husband.

PUL Stacy

Sorry for your loss of a loved one! I too have lost a loved one as well to suicide... She was a cousin of mine and only 18.. My gma asked the priest, if she was in hell and the priest said I don't know.. Luckily I chimed in and told them what I knew from my afterlife research on books and scientific afterlife studies on the internet!! I also, don't believe in hell.. I just believe hell is just a big crappy illusion some people have to go through... Like the tibetan book of the dead says, it's all a part of your mind playing the tricks on you..

Also, in my gut I had a feeling she went to a special recovery hospital in the afterlife.. As, what I have read is where most suicides go too.. Yes, I know some suicides go to a grey foggy eerie place as well... But those suicides are mainly people who do it for selfish reasons like to get back at someone for causing them pain.. Or people who go bankrupt from gambling and commit suicide..

So, basically if he was suffering depression for a long time... He will go  to a place where he will be loved and taken care of!!

My mom had a dream about my cousin who commited suicide and in the dream she was a lil girl and she went to her daddy in the dream.. He died of cancer awhile ago... I bet ya that dream was showing my mom that she was in good hands!!!

So, I will pray for your husband's grandson!! I am sure he is in a better place though!

This brings up the question of what the consequences are for suicide in the afterlife.  If karma is the universal law governing all consciousness, then there must be consequences for the suffering a person makes their loved ones go through when they choose to end their life, as well as possible consequences for ending their earthly journey earlier than it should be over. 

Perhaps he will have to help others get through tough times in the afterlife to the extent that he made his loved ones suffer.  Or perhaps he will have to eventually suffer an equal amount of emotional turmoil that he put his loved ones through.  I believe he will have to reincarnate into another body on earth to finish what his original purpose was.  Even if his purpose, as well as all of our purposes, is simply to experience an earthly life and everything that comes with it, he obviously did not learn much and took the easy way out, so I think he will be coming back.

Sorry for your loss.

Well..we are back from Louisiana and the service..it was strange, to say the least.

I kept hearing his name being shouted, in my head.

   Hi Shirley, sorry to hear about this, this is a hard thing to deal with on many levels for others and the person themselves.

All my love to you and your family Shirley.  I agree with what Juditha said, may he be at peace and in comfort.

PUL
Caryn