Brendan,

You are looking at things at the most superficial level.  A dead porn addict might not necessarily be a "bad" person, although he indulged in self destructive and negative impulses.  Perhaps he was good to his family, friends, strangers.  This inner person and true nature will guide his afterlife existence.  If perversion were his inner nature, then yes, he might find himself in a realm appropriate for his thoughts.

Addicts of all kinds will need to break the cycle of addiction, temporary self-gratification and obsession.  I venture to say, however that as more than 80% of adult males gratify themselves on a regular basis, that fantasy and sexuality are not all that the afterlife is about. 

You wish to maintain your pride and self worth, and are damning the heavens before you have crossed over.  You assume that a groveling existence with burnt sacrifices and serving others is what heaven is all about.  These are assumptions on your part not borne out by the experience of many mystics.


It is difficult to show you why love is the way, and why we should not be pure selfish materialists and thumb our noses at the divine.  It is something you must feel.  No amount of debate, even by one so skilled as Don will convince you that heaven is different than your simplistic representation.  You talk of destroying Yahweh with super technology.  This means you truly do not understand God's nature.  God is manifest in everything, Chum.  EVERYTHING.  He/she is the universe, and everything comes from him.  You rail against a being who you anthropomorphize into a wisened regal old man with a long flowing beard.  God's essence is much greater than that.  Once you "get" this concept, you can't be mad at God.  It would be laughable.

You were challenged by Don to read several books, and by another member of this forum to read the NDE of a suicide.  Did you read anything?  The suicide link was very interesting, and enlightening.  Because of the rapid transmission of thought, the woman who had the NDE understood the negative effect that her actions had, not just on her, but her family and friends.  It was all laid out for her.  Its true, in her interpretation she saw a figure whom she took to be JC and beings of light.  You may or may not agree with her interpretation.  But she understood what the "it" of the universe is all about. 

A porn addict will not be in a hell due to his one habit, but only if his inner self was completely selfish and devoid of love.  Likewise if one works with the impoverished, and does charitible works, one may not go to heaven if these works were for show only.  It is one's inner self, without the mask of civility that leads one in the afterlife.

M

Hi Chumley There is no sex in the spirit world as us being spirit have nothing physical to have sex with,there is what they call a union of two souls in the spirit world,not quite sure what the union is like but its two souls shareing love.

There is no hell in the spirit world,it is a manmade word,there is only a lowest plain,where murderers  and really evil people go and even then they can be saved if they want to be.


Love and God bless      Love Juditha

Ever heard of a porn addict who got himself (talking mainly about males I guess...) such an amount of porn, like an overdose, so that he's cured of that?

Spooky

Hi Chumley I beleive lust started in the garden of eden,what i mean by this is that Eve defied God and ate from the tree of knowledge or life not to sure on that but before Eve did this ,there was only love between her and Adam,as she and Adam realised only then that they were naked and they covered up with fig leaves,i really think because of that, the lust then came into it.

But when we go to the spirit world we only feel love and we dont lust anymore because it dont exist there and we dont need it,so we dont miss it,thats why there is just the union of two souls.

This is my thoughts about lust,but i may be wrong.

Love and God bless                  love Juditha

Hi Chumley i read somewhere that this soldier who had died on the battlefield,went to the spirit world and when he got there,there were other soldiers who had also died with him.He said through the medium that him and the others had to go to this centre there like soothing chambers because they had felt violence and had died through violence,which was very dramatic for them and when they were in these soothing chambers ,there families came to see them.

He said his grandmother had died at 70 yrs old but was now 21 yrs old in the spirit world because you can be the age there that you felt the happiest when on the earth plain.they drink there but its not like what we drink on earth its some kind of necter.

This soldier even though he was spirit still felt the needs of his physical body ,he even wanted to pass water and this guide told him he did not need to as he was not physical anymore and this guide also told him that in time he would forget his physical needs.

Then he was put with this chinese guide who took him to see the surroundngs he was now in and he showed him this pool of water and this chinese guide told him to bathe in it and as he bathed in this water ,he was completly cleansed of all thoughts of hatred but did not forget who he really was.

There are citys and shops and everythng is almost the same as the earth plain,but there is only pure unconditional love in the spirit world.

Love and God bless      Love Juditha