Greetings NGirl,
It's good to have a new person here on the discussion boards. Welcome! 

These limitations we carry in this life are quite temporary. When we cross over we leave all of the physical here.
Then we have opportunities in the Afterlife to discuss with our family members and leaders there what we learned by being in a physical world while using limited physical abilities.

Up at the top of this page there's a section called Free Articles and What is the Afterlife.  I hope you'll have time soon to read these, since they are the basis of much of what's being discussed here.
And please join in on any discussions you are interested in.

Again, welcome,
Betson