OK Alysia - maybe I should take a hint and ration my words - but I tend the other way ... sorry. But the point is not so much a matter of passion as what appears to be a different type of conceptualization and thought.
Beings of all levels that I've encountered in the space of the "spirit world" (including regular folks doing a regression) have a certain level of logical existence and logical thinking, but it seems to be extremely primitive - what psychologists call "primary process" - a collection of feelings and reactions that are more or less equated together in a nominal manner. Thus a brick has "brickness" but does not also mean potentiality for major construction etc. Thus, "coffee" equals the experiences that coffee beings. To "have coffee" brings those the experiences.
If the attachment to those experiences is negative, such as killing the Starbucks clerk over a caffe latte with too little foamed milk, then to "have coffee" also means "having a murder". It seems to be outside of time, as if the murder, last week, has been brought forward and is active in our attachment to it, despite awareness that it is not now ongoing. The feeling seems to be, "I am that which does murder. I am the murdered. My life is that which kills that which is infinitely loving. I am worthy of my death." or some such thing.
This kind of thinking is based on states of existence and associated feelings, evoking attitudes toward reaction. This is OK so long as it attaches to something, in which case it actually can lead through a series of associations toward a conclusion. A therapeutic remark might then be, "You fear God because you made a mistake. Allow God to help by going into the Light and abandoning the nature of your past errors. Remember the story of the Prodigal Son." This usually seems to be appropriate, just as a priests exhortation after Confession, "Go thou and sin no more."
Another example with entities, cccasionally someone responds, "My friends are here with me. I don't want to leave them." That's another expression of a concrete situation and feeling. So we tell them, "OK - go as a group." often a totally new idea.
What is unavailable seems to be the ability to select a topic not immediately at hand, through abstraction, and to view abstractions comparatively. Abstract comparisons are the core of "secondary process", or "rational thinking". This I have not encountered - not even with everyday people in regressions (eg: deep hypnosis). Thus, the kind of thought that occurs in the spirit world is not "rational" but totally concrete, primary. This is a nominal equation of events and states without projection. A state of being equals a state of feelings equals a tendency to react in a specific manner.
Lucid dreaming allows us to guide our states, feelings and responses. Tibetan "Yoga of the Dream State" thus aims at control of the spirit world states.
I feel that our ability to dream with lucidity is all we get. But we are unable to perform abstract conceptualizations in that state, so we have little luck "rationalizing away" our status. Then "murder is murder" and cannot be reduced to "a necessary act under the circumstances because I had a bad night and the clerk was a schmuck anyhow" etc. A choice of will, "I SHALL keep with me awareness of love and security" or belief, "I have a Cosmic Muzzle with which to thwart the Hounds of Hell" might work, providing that we hold onto it. The Bardo Thodol discipline favors belief plus understanding for those not capable of the Dream State Yoga.
Dreams seem to respond to their own projections. To dream of school carries projection of a desire for learning. As we alter our response to that, we create a different scene. Now we're in class. We respond to that, fear of taking an exam may be fear of moral failure, leading to other scene changes, perhaps a street setting, on and on without resolution. In regression, recollection of guilt often brings a sense of "something unpleasant" chasing us, which leads to a sense of being trapped while mortal threat looms, running in panic etc. In other words, feedback without limitation by thought creates our own "hounds of hell".
Soul retrievals seem to offer useful practice of thinking in the spirit world. The same lucidity seems to be what is needed in order to minimize the "hounds" and maximize the ability to employ our spiritual world passage usefully.
I wouldn't say that I'm passionate as much as that this all scares hell out of me, since I can see it looming just around the next corner. And the problem with that is that it doesn't scare heaven into me.

PUL
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