I have just lost my younger brother.He was perfactly alright and suddenly died.I am very disurbed and depressed since then.Is it possible to talk to him on the other side.
regards
vijay

Hi vijay,
   I'm so sorry to hear about your loss....I have a younger brother myself...and cannot imagine the feeling.I am pretty new to this board, but I came here also after recently and very suddenly losing my long time partner and soul-mate...and when it's unexpected like that...it can feel like nothing makes sense..and everyone has their own grief process.

I do hope to see more of you..if you feel comfortable..b/c I've found tremendous support and encouragement here...and I have much faith that b/c you want to,you will certainly be able to make your own special contact with him....just give yourself time,and patience...and the love between you and your brother is not something that anything can separate or change in any way.

Again,I'm very sorry for the sudden death of your brother,and I wish you comfort during this time...Tanja

as you told ,i did read the article 3 .but i am unable to concentrate due to the reason i had to bring my mother from india and looking at her i am too disturbed to concentrate.How can i do,can some senior member help me in this matter.Is it possible for some one else to talk to my brother or i have to do it myself only.I just want to know whether he is happy or still disturbed.my mother sees him almost everyday in her dreams and he seems to be standing near her bed watching and saying nothing,but i am not able to see him in my dreams.

ViJay, Bets has very good advice and thanks, that you did make your efforts. PM me for more help if nothing else works. we will do it together. love, alysia