Greetings,
Have you ever had those 'lights in darkness' start blinking/flaring, and then find yourself talking to someone in the afterlife? Would you say that the blinking lights >signify< that you're communicating with someone on the other side?
This afternoon I was puzzling about an afterlife question and my eyes fell shut, but the lights were blinking so brightly they startled me. I restated my question mentally, and someone answered.

So I went along with it. (But I don't know any questions to ask him that would prove anything.)
I tried changing his name to see if the flashing lights would change. During our talk I said 'Did you say you were J---S---?) He said no and the flashing faded. So I mentally called out his real name and the lights came back. I tried that several times, and lights faded then returned when we resumed talking again.
After our conversation I googled him (

Google, the great affirmer of afterlife experience hee hee) and found his alma mater had listed his obituary for 2003.
He said he'd talk with me again if I call him mentally.
Would anyone else try this, just meditating until the lights-in-darkness show up, then mentally calling out someone's name who's passed over recently, and see if you get a response?
If the 'veil is lifting', we may keep discovering ways of communicating we didn't know before.

bets