BD said: Can you please clarify this statement a little bit further for me
"too soon we leave this place perhaps not to meet again."
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I had a feeling I needed to clarify
I say that or think that a lot because I could drop dead anytime is my feeling. I therefore want to try to enjoy each moment I have like its my last. I'm sure we will meet folks on the other side with whom had some meaningfulness to us, like a bond or learning situation or deep friendships. yet I also get this feeling here is where I celebrate you folks, but when I get on the other side I may not have what I enjoy here. does that make any sense? I'm thinking say you were married for 30 years. you are used to spending 8 hours every nite living with that person intimately. this really happens. so you both die and one wants to go on their merry way and the other doesn't. so free will reigns on both sides, but instead of the 8 hours of time with your loved one, you end up on the other side with making an appointment with them.
this is not my personal story. just a friend of mine told me about it. ultimately what happens I believe is the right thing, I just wanna make sure I never put all my eggs in one basket and get into a dependancy situation and be calling it love. but I really respect people who make it work and are happy.
Craig, its good to see you again.
George lost his wife not too long ago. this other lady has recently come into his life; it looks like a learning situation and he appears to be handling it well now.
KarmicKiss, as usual your expression makes me happy, that you had something fine and still do. I feel that way about my husband passed on too, that, maybe I didn't have 30 years, but hey! I had some time with him, that makes me lucky.
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