Have you considered trying to check up on her yourself?  Up at the top of this site under Articles, look under Appendix C for an outline of how you can learn to do this.  Give it a try and please let us know your results.

hello, yes we would like you to learn how to check on her. my suggestion is to wait a week or two to give her time to adjust..then you may have better success. it won't be as hard as you are thinking if you will meditate on it and read under free resources written by Bruce here at the top of the page under articles, free resources.

please get back with us with any developments. and she knows you are thinking of her, or she will know soon, my opinion. love, alysia