Vicky wrote on Oct 3rd, 2006 at 11:15pm:Spooky, did TMI ever teach real OBE's ever? At first maybe?
I agree that we have them all the time, both waking and sleeping, but the problem is we don't remember them.
You know how some people say that they don't dream? That is not true. The truth is that they just don't remember their dreams. I believe that OBE's are the same way. It is not correct to say you don't have them; it is more correct to say that you don't remember them. I like to suggest to people that they work on programming their minds to remember their OBEs rather than focusing on having one. It might be a different approach that does the trick.
I'm in agreement with Vicky to set the intention to remember rather than focusing on having a full blown obe. I think there's a reason a miniority of folks obe at will and have conscious control over the obes. for most of us I think the lucid dream is the best and easiest way to progress into full blown obe if that is the goal. its not my goal anymore as I have projected but I usually have to have a spiritual intention or it just doesn't happen. meaning perhaps a retrieval or a deep question, or something I need an answer to right away for peace of mind. the thing I like about Monroe's phasing and Bruce's go with the imagination is: without the C1 daily imagination, you won't have an obe either, u need the imagination to get u there and that works with the intentions to explore this realm. doing it in the imagination builds up to a projection, especially if you got your emotions going on there and you "need" to know. or say you have a problem thats bugging. this part of the mind allows projection to offer you release from that tension of the negative situation you might be encountering.
for instance, I'm probably getting off topic a bit, but I'll try to get back on; for instance I don't promote any particular method, obe, phasing or imagination or lucid dreaming. to me they are all related phases of our human experience here. but if I had to pick just one method I would certainly say that when Bruce tells us in his books to enter this place of exploration through the imagination, it works, and progress is made if u stick with it. writing it down too. so if he says pretend its real, I can relate to having pretended it was real on purpose, knowing what I was doing, so I didn't lose control in any respect and some surprising experiences would happen this way related to mind projection and meeting others out there, into whose lives I could catch a glimpse if my intention were to deliver helpfulness to them. you can get past the gatekeepers that way, and we all have guides, or gatekeepers protect us from entities who are not offering helpfulness to your well being. as I said you will be let into another person's world by the gatekeepers if you state you are coming to your friend in service to them and really mean it.
thats why retrieval of another is an excellent way to learn to explore our greater reality because of coming from the heart intelligence.
to get back on topic, I would study everything I could get my hands on if I were just starting out, but again, the imagination is a powerful creative doorway into the mystery of ourselves and the way we can project ourselves. even Einstein said "imagination is more important than knowledge" wow...what a statement! Bruce is saying the same thing if u think about it...