NeverSayDie said: I do think we need to be careful when applying fixed and unalterable rules to these things. Since the reality of the spirit world is one that is projected from our own minds and in interaction with others, we are dealing with many possibilities. It all depends on each souls unique situation. Because while we are part of a oneness that is god, we also have our individual spiritual paths.
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very astute comment. my opinion from intuition and from reading much on the subject is that the overview is incredible from the other side. we see much more possibilities and game plans, etc. when on this level of communion you might call it. communion with beings who have had more or different experiences than ourselves. they do make recommendations for this or that experience to gain, however coercement is an unknown over there and the choice remains in he who has the vision and the will. yet if reincarnation is a non/linear happenstance you can see why Recoverer is getting away from the traditional reincarnation concept and so am I trying to grasp how it works for the common man or woman, although I wholeheartedly agree that exceptions exist for every rule and if it did not, this would be a boring type prison planet which it is not boring, nor a prison for me, yet I understand some will say this and feel it as they meet their challenges.
if u subscribe to "we are all one" then its easier to deal with the thought that there are many of me. I just haven't met them all yet. then if u take it further, all the ones who are one with me are living a life of their own perhaps in 1810 or maybe I'm a caveman somewhere learning how to make fire.
while we're here we deal with a repeat performance of the rising sun which governs our clocks. its one day at a time sweet Jesus. we have no language for what is eternity and cannot be measured. we may get a new language someday..which will allow us to communicate what has never been said before.
by that time, maybe we'll all have hydrogen powered cars and even little spaceships which drive themselves..see, no matter what I must resort to linear time. I do believe though, that the future dimensions are already up and running. and we will do time travels through our minds.
anybody want to come back to a future like that?

I might, don't know, nobody's asked me yet! I'd want to be with loved ones or I wouldn't want to come back.
I do subscribe to our oneness but didn't always. retrievals caused me to merge into those I retrieved, sensing our oneness. I have a little story about meeting what Iwant to call a disc member, but for the moment he was my other half, a male half. one day my whole family was running amuck; nobody took responsibility for anything happening and self disapline was certainly not operating. my suggestions how to improve our chances of surviving all in the same house were not taken kindly and so I began to think maybe they were right. I began to think my family were all like children who would not listen to me. I set an intention to see if something was missing inside of me and if I could change myself, not them, perhaps that would be the answer? a wonderful obe situation developed from this thought. it demonstrated the oneness concept me.
I knew guidance was there, although invisible I received instructions. I found myself in someone's house. in the hallway. a full length mirror appeared. a gentle voice said stare into the mirror. I looked and did not see my reflection as I expected. instead a man walked nonchalantly towards me. I felt something intensely familiar about him and knew he loved me as he loved himself. I knew positively we were one. I also knew my despondancy and despair had brought me to him. he smiled as he strode up. Hi, I said, I'm feeling down, can u help? I asked. nobody listens to me, I don't think they love me. my other half led me to a table and we chatted about our unique style of child rearing, why it worked. we talked a long while it seemed and he convinced me I had not failed my family in my expression to them, that they had needed me, as the opposite viewpoint is always needed to learn by. came back to the body and knew everything I had said or done was how it was supposed to have been said and done. they did love me, they just had not learned to express that love yet.
I got the feeling, but not absolutely sure, this other half, this man is alive physically and it wasn't romantic, unless u can concieve of making love with yourself! ha ha!
and I did get the feeling that this was like a gift meeting, and it was because I needed his input right then. I didn't know I'd missed him until I saw him. it was that kind of surprise reunion meeting. like, omygod, it's you! I know you!
so we forget whom we've known. we forget we are one. for a reason because we want to live here, or we did at one time and when all is well, we want to live here.