George,

I get retrievals in my apartment almost every night. I do them OBE in my sleep. A lot of people do this; I just happen to be aware of it. I can sense them, often 'see' them, and I get info from my guides and theirs. I ask guides a long series of questions about each one. I keep a log.

Many don't know their 'dead.' I am usually the first to tell them. Almost always, they accept it. Some are very sad about it, most are ok about it. I had one that took off as soon as I told him, but his guide says he'll be back. I *physically* saw him leave because his energy increased to the point where I could physically see him. Knowledge of his passing really spooked him. The ones who suffered a long illness usually know their 'dead.'

Most have no idea why they are in my apartment. They get there either because of an energetic resonance with me or their guides brought them, or both. Some do know they've passd, though, and I have no idea how those few know, considering there's been only one that I've actually know in C1, and I knew that guy back in the 1980's, and I had no idea about these things back then. I do occasionally get verification from the info I get and a google search or Iraq casualty list.

Their sense of time is definately different, and their level of lucidity varies, although all of them understand what I tell them, and surprisingly, they ALL always believe me, although some of them aren't too bright/lucid. One lady, a devout Catholic bound for a BST (according to her guide), thought I was a priest because I explained things within the limits of the Catholic faith. My apartment does not give that impression, and I was half-naked when I was talking to her. I have to handle them on THEIR level, from their perspective. Their guides have always been consistant about not explaining things to them that lay outside what they are capable of understanding, although I can plant seeds. I did, however, throw something in that I hope will help this Catholic lady out of her BST: Love and fear cannot coexist in the same place at the same time. Fear and Love are in contradiction. Love is real; fear is not. Please, no matter what, remember that.

Some of the retrievals I get have been 'dead' for a while, sometimes years. I have no idea what they were doing during that time. It could very well be just as you described, going to work and so on. Some people who've passed, though, know quite well that they're 'dead', they just don't want to move on, for a variety of reasons. I don't get those people, although I've run into them, including a dark entity inhabiting my last apartment (more on that another time, after I've done Releasement for him).

I've gone on a bit but I hope this helps.

Love,
Rob

Rob_Roy that is a lot of helpful work that you do.

.. but surely they know that they don't need to go to the bathroom? sorry for my base question but they might still 'think' they eating and drinking etc .. but with the loo you know when you gotta go you gotta go and only a full bladder of liquid does that.

Can you drink alcohol on the other side, or should I make the most of it while I'm here?

Sorry for my ignorance but how do you communicate and 'see' these people who don't know they are dead?

Regarding spirits wondering about why they don't have to pee, just consider how dreams can be at times. All kinds of inconsistencies are experienced without question that a person would definitely question while awake. Perhaps the same kind of forgetfullness happens for spirits who don't realize that they are dead.

hey I meant bladder, not uterus. scuse me.   where the heck is the edit button when u need it?

RyanParis wrote on Jul 15^th, 2006 at 3:25am:


I always thought ghosts look the way they do becuase things are at a faster rate of speed where they are or slower being its a ghost that decided to stick around. Its heaven thats at a faster rate I think.