have a question  for all of  you, my b/f passed away March 23/06. According to  a medium, he has yet to cross over. He is almost ready;however, he is very attached to me and feels guilty about leaving me. He also wants to make sure I am o.k. Although I love having him near me, i feel it would be selfish to hold him back. I want him to be happy. He says he doesnt mind but I feel he'd be much happier if he crossed over, but he is quite stubborn! I have tried to release him a few times.....but no success.....told him I loved him, forgave him....asked him to forgive himself more importantly.....told him i'd meet him on the otherside soon enough and that he'd be in a better position to take care of me once he crossed over. I have been told he hasnt done so as of yet. Can you offer me any suggestions of how I might help him? (I have asked for the help of our spirit guides and I have prayed to god aswell). Thank you so much!  

Thanks Dave..........i do kind of like having him around (although most of the time i dont realiize he's there). Who knows.......if he's still sticking around long enough maybe after I cross over i can come back and help him!