Hi My friend who died in very tragic circumstances not very long ago ,came to me last night .My first sign of it being him was ,when i went upstairs, there was this very strong smell of beer as he liked to have a drink ,and then i saw him and he looked very confused and lost ,i asked him if he was lost and he said he felt afraid to go into the light which was there for him ,so i told him not to be afraid and that his mother and father and family would be in that light to give him love and help him come to terms with the fact that he had died . As i said this i asked God to send him guides and helpers to guide him through the light and i saw these guides ,two of them holding each arm and taking him through the light ,after this the smell of beer completely went and he was gone .

I felt good inside because i had retreived him and i knew he would be fine from now on ,as he never knew anything of the afterlife and thats what made him afraid of the light ,i know hes at peace now ,this is my third retreivel and im glad that i have helped .Love and god bless you all juditha

This is wonderful Juditha. There is a Retrieval Forum that you should post this in.

Love, Mairlyn

Juditha:

i have a queston for you, my b/f passed away March 23/06. According to  a medium, he has yet to cross over. He is almost reday:however, he is very attached to me and feels guilty about leaving me. He also wants to make sure I am o.k. Although I love having him near me, i feel it would be selfish to hold him back. I want him to be happy. He says he doent mind but I feel he'd be much happier if he crossed over, but he is quite stubborn! I have tried to release him a few times.....but no success.....told him I loved him, forgave him....asked him to forgive himself more importantly.....told him i'd meet him on the otherside soon enough and that he'd be in a better position to take care of me once he crossed over. I have been told he hasnt done so as of yet. Can you offer me any suggestions of how I might help him? (I have asked for the help of our spirit guides and I have prayed to god aswell). Thank you so much!