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Gender and the Afterlife.
May 2nd, 2006 at 4:08am
 
When we exist as spirit we have no physical form. Therefore, does this mean that we are neither masculine nor feminine?

If this is the case, when we pass over and are met by our already deceased wife, for instance, are they purely an optical illusion (if such things can occur There) to us? I have read that those greeting us often appear much younger and healthier that when in the physical.

Also, if a young woman has passed over but never experienced motherhood while on earth, is it possible for her to experience it There, again having read that whatever we desire is manifested for us in the Afterlife? If this is possible then it begs the question as to where does the spirit of the newborn come from and would the child grow with it`s spirit mother as it would on earth?

So many questions....?

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Reply #1 - May 2nd, 2006 at 6:35am
 
Hi Roger i think when we pass over we stay what we are, be it man or woman,boy or girl. Ive seen my fathers spirit in my home and he looks as he was a man. I also dont think that a woman whos never had a child can have one when she is spirit because they dont have sex in the spirit world. Just my thoughts on this. God bless juditha
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Reply #2 - May 2nd, 2006 at 9:53am
 
I dont think that we have a gender as spirits..However a spirit can decide in which form it will appear in order to be more accepted.. I dont think that genders have anything to do with the spirit world. Just my thoughts for a penny Smiley

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Reply #3 - May 2nd, 2006 at 12:05pm
 
Grin.. I believe we can look like what we want to on the otherside.. most would choose the form they last had on earth because this is what is most comfortable.. I believe though if you hated say your hair, you could change that without changing anything else..   Also, I believe if you are a woman who never had children on earth, that if you desire to, you can have them on the other side.  We don't have physical bodies on the otherside of course, so you do not need to have sex to get a baby.  On the otherside it isn't about genetics, it's about love.. and if there's a baby who passes from earth and has no family/relatives (that were on earth before that baby) on the spirit side then someone will be there to receive that baby, and take care of it, make it feel comfortable.  I've heard many stories of spirits who spoke of children on the other side.. learning and growing.. being taken care of.   It's a mind-boggeling question.. but when we pass as children, apparently we still grow up over there.. But my thought/question was..why don't we go back to being the grown soul we were before we became that child on earth..?  It's hard to imagine these things when we are limited with a brain to think with.     It's all about opening up your awareness and that's very hard to do all at once.. it takes years.. Grin
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Reply #4 - May 2nd, 2006 at 12:55pm
 
The people I've seen in the afterlife have physical forms like here. Some, who are higher vibration appear as pure Light. Babies and children that pass over grow there at a rate 3 times faster than here. Most people take on the appearance that they had at around age 30. As far as experiencing motherhood, the babies and children that pass over are cared for by those who have open, loving hearts for children to grow. So I guess I'd say that motherhood is available, but not in the same way as here. I've never heard of anyone giving birth 'there.'

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Edit:  A thought was put in my head by guidance. Those women who are pregnant and die would most likely give birth 'there' and raise the child.
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Reply #5 - May 2nd, 2006 at 2:58pm
 
Marilyn,

I understand your last reply, as I do those of others who have also kindly posted.

You say ".... So I guess I'd say that motherhood is available, but not in the same way as here. I've never heard of anyone giving birth 'there.' "

This is essentially the nub of what I`m trying to get at. If that is the case then surely it means that whatever we desire in the Afterlife is NOT necessarily manifested for us? Surely there must be some spirits who desire to experience childbirth, which, it appears, is denied to them? Alternatively, the thought can never occur to them.
Otherwise, does this mean that desires in the Afterlife operate in a completely different way, by having certain limitations, as to here in the physical? If so, why, when there are no physical constraints There?

How can the motherhood you speak of be so different to a natural motherhood?

A complex issue, I think.

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Reply #6 - May 2nd, 2006 at 5:49pm
 
Roger, I don't know. I'm still learning too. You know, this is something I've never really thought about before. Perhaps this is a question for Kyo. It is a complex question. Thanks for bringing it up.

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Reply #7 - May 2nd, 2006 at 8:29pm
 
Hi,
my thoughts about this are, it depends on where you are in the afterlife. In meditation, I saw places of no form, of light, of parks, and places where women give birth to children. Imagine the following: If a woman is in a beautiful place, where you can build houses and gardens with thoughts. And she wants to experience a birth, that wouldn't maybe fit together. A physical birth has to do with blood, sweat, tears, fear, struggle, and then hopefully it's over and both healthy. In a world where thoughts become reality, and when it is restricted to only funny, joyful and easy things, a physical style birth would be misplaced. Also, there would be some difficulties with where the spirits-as-childs would come from, cause in those summerland-areas it is known there is no need to be born as child to exist there. So, you would move into a world which is more stable. That means, firstly one would make a plan, and when it's said "ok, I'll do it" then this one would go into this planned situation, but when it hurts, you can't go back like you would in a more fluid plane. The thought-things are more inert, solid, longer lasting as compared to more etheric places. So, it depends where you are, where you want to go and what you want to experience.
That's what I think at least.

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Reply #8 - May 2nd, 2006 at 11:10pm
 
Regarding the issue of motherhood and childbirth, and how it is inherently, naturally and inevitably fundamentally different in the intraphysical and extraphysical, Spooky has pretty much summed it up :

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Hi, my thoughts about this are, it depends on where you are in the afterlife. In meditation, I saw places of no form, of light, of parks, and places where women give birth to children. Imagine the following: If a woman is in a beautiful place, where you can build houses and gardens with thoughts. And she wants to experience a birth, that wouldn't maybe fit together. A physical birth has to do with blood, sweat, tears, fear, struggle, and then hopefully it's over and both healthy. In a world where thoughts become reality, and when it is restricted to only funny, joyful and easy things, a physical style birth would be misplaced. Also, there would be some difficulties with where the spirits-as-childs would come from, cause in those summerland-areas it is known there is no need to be born as child to exist there. So, you would move into a world which is more stable. That means, firstly one would make a plan, and when it's said "ok, I'll do it" then this one would go into this planned situation, but when it hurts, you can't go back like you would in a more fluid plane. The thought-things are more inert, solid, longer lasting as compared to more etheric places. So, it depends where you are, where you want to go and what you want to experience. Spooky


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Also, if a young woman has passed over but never experienced motherhood while on earth, is it possible for her to experience it there, again having read that whatever we desire is manifested for us in the Afterlife?


The latter part of the statement above is not exactly true. Desires are of course easily projected onto the environment in the extraphysical, and it is easy for a consciousness to indulge in its desires, either for a less mature consciousness who doesn't know what else to do, or for the consciousness expressing or working through various desires.
The more mature consciousnesses of course, would have their 'desires' to do with genuine loving contact and positive evolutionary and assistential relationship with many others, and hence such 'desires' are actually (one with their purpose and) *work*.

For the consciousness who desires childbirth or motherhood, it depends on exactly which aspect of childbirth or motherhood the consciousnes is fixated on, or needs the experience of.

If it is an aspect or experience that the extraphysical can sufficiently provide (to balance that desire productively), then it can be arranged for such. But for the most part, what is desired, as Spooky explained, is the *physical* experience of motherhood and childbirth, and as such, the only way to satisfy such a desire (and karma), would be to physically incarnate and experience physical motherhood and childbirth.

This brings us to the key, the nature, purpose and special attributes of physicality, and why physical incarnation is so important, even necessary to many consciousnessess in the course of their consciential or spiritual evolution.


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If that is the case then surely it means that whatever we desire in the Afterlife is NOT necessarily manifested for us? Otherwise, does this mean that desires in the Afterlife operate in a completely different way, by having certain limitations, as to here in the physical? If so, why, when there are no physical constraints There?


As explained earlier, desires in the afterlife are easily projected, but if your desire has to do with physicality, then it is only the physical that can fulfill your desire. Why else do people keep on reincarnating into the physical?

As to limitations, there are of course limitations from either side, the extraphysical and the intraphysical. The limitations in the intraphysical is obvious to everyone. Namely, the denseness of it all, including the greater rigidity of time, allowing for the consciousness to properly observe the working of Karma, of action and consequence. And most importantly, of course, is to allow the consciousness to co-exist and interact in a meaningful, collective-objective, physicalized story-context, which can only be *properly* afforded by dense physical incarnation. To work out and evolve relationships, old habit patterns, and various karmic issues.

And this precisely describes the limitations of the extraphysical as well (that the extraphysical or spirit world cannot afford such collective-objective context for interaction with others, not in quite the same way). One could say, the very limitations of the physical plane, is it's very strength.

Therefore, we have answered the question on why people continue to repeatedly incarnate, and reincarnate into the physical. And also your question on whether all desires can be fulfilled in the extraphysical. Desires have both extraphysical and intraphysical aspects, or put in another way, they are complex issues that have, as integral to their nature, the requirements for physicality either directly (eg. physical motherhood), or indirectly (eg. requiring interaction and relationship with another, in roles that can only be properly afforded by physical experience and context).

For instance, the story of real-life heros courageously battling against all odds and carrying out great deeds of self-sacrifice for the sake of others or humanity. Whether in wartime, or in various personal contexts, we are all aware of such inspiring real-life heroes in every country and time period.

Now, if you tried do re-enact or project similar 'scripts' entirely in the extraphysical, do you suppose anyone watching will react to you or your 'heroism' or 'sacrifice' in quite the same way? Or would you end up with nothing more than the cricking of crickets (and a single large sweat drop above the head of the audience, japanese anime style) when the script is done?

So you see, true heroism, sacrifice, triumph over difficulty, true testing and learning etc, can only be properly experienced in the physical, which is why many and nearly all consciousness (though with different evolutionary levels, the intention and rationale for this may be markedly different) in the spirit world *want* to incarnate, and re-incarnate, into the physical over and over again. (Even though many people whilst incarnate say "I don't wanna incarnate no more!"; in the spirit world in their clearest minds, they cry the opposite).

For the opportunities, to interact in relationships meaningfully, to participate in meaningful projects that have powerful, permanent impact on the evolution of humanity, and to experience love in all its aspects, including physicality.

That's the beauty and purpose of value of physical incarnation.

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Reply #9 - May 2nd, 2006 at 11:52pm
 
Thank you for this dear Kyo.

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Reply #10 - May 3rd, 2006 at 3:56am
 

Thank you spooky and Kyo.

Spooky started the reply ball rolling and Kyo has subsequently kicked it into touch in my opinion.
What you have written makes total sense to me and I now have a greater understanding of this issue which has been running through my mind.

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Reply #11 - May 3rd, 2006 at 2:51pm
 
Most welcome, Mairlyn and Roger.


It's interesting and (amusingly) ironic, that the indication for a soul who is approaching the end of (the need for) physical incarnation, is that the soul is able to, from the bottom of his/her heart, truthfully say that he/she truly *loves* physical incarnation for what it is, clearly recognizing, appreciating and having deep gratitude for physicality, including for all of its wonderful  opportunities to deeply enjoy loving relationships (*every* relationship is truly unique and special), and evolve together with other souls.


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Reply #12 - May 3rd, 2006 at 4:14pm
 
Kyo Wrote:

" It's interesting and (amusingly) ironic, that the indication for a soul who is approaching the end of (the need for) physical incarnation, is that the soul is able to, from the bottom of his/her heart, truthfully say that he/she truly *loves* physical incarnation for what it is, clearly recognizing, appreciating and having deep gratitude for physicality, including for all of its wonderful  opportunities to deeply enjoy loving relationships (*every* relationship is truly unique and special), and evolve together with other souls."

Well put Kyo... Wink

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Reply #13 - May 3rd, 2006 at 5:48pm
 
I agree appearance can vary a great deal, from having physical form to nothing at all. I have experienced this on my OBE travels. I think, and feel as we evolve our appearance will evolve also. Shedding to need to have one.
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Reply #14 - May 3rd, 2006 at 6:53pm
 
From what I understand/have read... the way that our appearances change in the extraphysical is that the light that we emit as spiritual beings, (the light that is emitted from the form which we choose to create/embody, becomes "brighter"; more "all encompassing/comprehending/knowledgable/experienced" as we evolve spiritually... It is this "brightness" that signifies our level of spiritual development/PUL retention possibilities/capabilities.

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