Hi Chewbug,

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I feel your pains.  Your son in my prayer as well as you and your relatives.

My boyfriend passed away with brain Anuerysm in late Jan this year(a week before his 40th b-day).  It took his life less than a minutes.  He was up beat healthy good looking man and he touched everyone heart.  A couple of days after he crossed over.  He appeared in my dream with a happy smiley face and look younger and healthier then ever.  That meant I know he is in a better place right now.

And I believe that your son is in heaven by God's side.  Don't you realize that, good people always leave us earlier then we expected and go back home to be with GOD.  And those bad people are live longer, because they have to complete their tasts in this earthly realm and learn before they can return HOME.

To me, I think time was up for my boyfriend as well as your son.  We are the people that left behind and grief them so much of lossing them, but you have to look at this way, they are always with us, and the unconditional loves that we had shared for each others are unbearable.  And when our times are up, we will reunited with them and they are waiting for us, and they know when our times are up.  They want us to move on and live with the fullfill earthly time til the end.

Once again, I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you can make it throught your difficult times.

BRAVI
PS: I recommend you read the book called" HELLO FROM HEAVEN" it costs only $7.50(w/out tax)