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snooziums

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Question on reincarnation
Mar 19^th, 2006 at 1:26am

Hiya

This is my first post here, so I am a bit scared. Actually, I am very scared.

Anyhow, this is my question: If someone's life is extremely emotionally painful, and if no one cares about them, and if they have no spiritual guides or guardian angels, then what happens if they take their own life in the afterlife? Will they avoid the pain of an unpleasant afterlife, or being reincarnation into a painful situation again with no guardian angels or spiritual guides?

Tragically, I am in that situation. After many many attempts to contact any guardian angels or spiritual guides, I have failed. I was a mistake being born into this world, and my mother regrets be being born even to this day. I have no family to find any comfort in, so no one would miss me, and me being gone would emotionally harm no one.

I really wish that there was some ray of hope for me, but after years of praying and wishing, there is nothing. I am so frightened and scared now, as I fear that I have fallen into "lost soul" status.

In many ways, I wish that I could just fall asleep forever, so that I would not have to feel the pain and rejection. Either that, or at least know that there was some entity in this universe that loved me for who I am, not what they expect me to be.

Well, I do not want to take too much of your time, so I shall end this letter. I do not wish to cause sadness or anything like to anyone else.

Thank you so much for listening. Cry

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LightR_on

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #1 - Mar 19^th, 2006 at 3:25am

Hello snooziums,

There are so many things that I wish to tell you, even though you feel you have know guide with you. I can assure you they are there by your side giving you as much support as possible. The problem we have in hearing then has to do with the density we presently reside within, as this worlds vibration is so low they find it hard to communicate and get clear messages through, put that problem with our incessant mind chatter and you will see why its so hard for you to actually hear what you are being told.But they are with you at night even fi you cant remember at this present time they are there.

I know the darkness you are presently facing for I to have felt and been where you are at, I to contemplated taking my own life so low had I sunk. The thing that holds us all back from taking our own life is the one thing we know deep within that there is no answer to be had by doing so. Your life is programed and agreed upon.The job you are facing is to move your consciousness above your present situation and find a way to heal all that has taken place in your world. I suggest you find yourself a good energy worker who can help you clear some of your emotional issues, this will make a big difference to your out look.

Theres a book I'd Like you to go out and buy, this book was the first book I ever read that explained how my mind/ thought's had created all my darkness. And it helped me know end to see where I was making my mistakes we need to introduce new information to our minds to heal our old programed wounds. The book is called YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE, its by Louise Hay , Its not overly expensive and if money is an issue you maybe able to get it through you local library. Please at lest give it a try.

As our souls evolve and our experiences grow through the continued re incarnation process. You can be assured that your soul has chosen this life as your last testing ground. For in truth the more challenging the souls journey the older the soul would be and the closer that soul is to its final hoary. So hold on don't give in, there is hope and I pray you find the strength needed to move forward, your soul is filled with beauty overflowing I know you can find what you need.

Love to you

Love is the key

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Mactek

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #2 - Mar 19^th, 2006 at 6:33am

Hi snooziums,

Welcome to the board. I’m not a regular poster here, although I’ve been trolling this site for many years now. More infrequently nowadays.

Aside from the obvious sadness in your post, it struck me that you are an extremely polite person. Good for you. I wish there were many more polite people around. Maybe there is, but they are just hiding!

Nope, you are not a lost soul. No such thing. Don’t get caught up on the idea that you have to contact your “spirit guides.” Hey, I’ve never knowingly had contact with mine either. But I have a little trick that will let you know somebody is paying attention “up there.” Don’t over-think this, but whenever you glance at your digital watch, start noticing how many 11’s start showing up over time. When you do notice that pattern, think of it as a “cosmic hug” from your “guardian angel.” You are never “alone”… even when you are alone. You have an entire entourage with you. (A bunch of backseat drivers… if ya ask me. Ha!)

Suicide is a tough call. You are essentially betting the farm that you can escape the emotional pain you feel through death. I get the impression that you are fairly young. Life looks a little bit differently when you are in your mid-thirties.

I do have a question, though. How can you live your life “on purpose” when you feel that your life was a mistake? It seems to me that those two mindsets are at complete opposites.

I have much more to say, but I’ll shut up for now.

Your pal,
Mactek

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #3 - Mar 19^th, 2006 at 10:01am

As to contacting spirit guides or guardian angels...mine are lying low too...I think one of my lessons this life is self-sufficiency!

As to the "mistake" part of your post...if your mother actually feels your being born was a mistake, that's not very relevant! I know that sounds wrong, but think about it...she has no idea! Maybe her job this trip was to learn that there are consequences to things (like sex makes babies). She wouldn't remember that at this point, so even if you and she arranged while on the other side for you to be born just as it happened, in minute detail, neither of you would remember that.

Heck, for all you know you were someone with immense power and ease in some previous life, and before you came here you thought "I should see how the other half lives, to become a more rounded soul."

I know I occasionally rant at my late husband (yeah, he's dead...he still has to listen to me!) that I know that this whole bit (me being widowed at fifty) was probably my idea for some lesson that could be learned. It may have been my idea, but it was still a lousy one!

He just grins...

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #4 - Mar 19^th, 2006 at 7:56pm

Hi snooziums,
your life was hard, but now consider this too: You are STILL alive and here, despite the lonelyness and rejections. This is something you can be proud of.
When I'm thinking of suicide, I use to think too: Now, you've been through all those years, now let's take the rest too.
There are people who seem to have all the things you miss. But some of those just don't appreciate and cannot utilize and see their luck and remain superficious. You aren't lucky that way, but you have realized what is important for you. Your realization of what you're missing, your deep wishes are much more important than to receive presents from life which worthiness one can't realize yet.
So try to ride on. There is a saying, those with the hardest life learn the most. And if you can stay here for the rest of this life's lesson, you will receive the reward.

To get the power to continue and if it's presently doesn't work with other people search for something where you can find joy for yourself. Something in nature. Something in arts. Something you don't have to compare with other's achievements, which is just for you. Something inexpensive. Further, when you have problems to get in contact with your guidance, try some "energetic", like Tai Chi or similar things, or meditations which don't require conatcts with entities. It is proven a thousand times that these things do work. I'm not an expert, but maybe something from Zen Buddhism could be fit with you.

There is a way for you, so watch out, maybe in a different direction than you had in focus before.
Spooky

"I'm going where the pavement turns to sand"&&Neil Young, "Thrasher"

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starstream

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #5 - Mar 20^th, 2006 at 7:04am

All I can say is please do not consider suicide as a solution to how you feel,there truly is a whole world of alternatives out there.
And you say you have no guides,well you found here,and I can truly say the folks in here are friendly,funny and full of information.Perhaps your guides nudged you here,as this is a good place to begin anew.
Life may look and feel dreadful right now,but keep at it,it is worth it.

Lots of love

Starstream

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RyanParis

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Re: Question on reincarnation
Reply #6 - Mar 20^th, 2006 at 7:45am

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I was a mistake being born into this world, and my mother regrets be being born even to this day. I have no family to find any comfort in, so no one would miss me, and me being gone would emotionally harm no one.

I really wish that there was some ray of hope for me.

In many ways, I wish that I could just fall asleep forever

Thank you so much for listening. Cry

Hi snooziums,

I can say first-hand that there is a God or higher power, and that all of us, including you, came from the spirit world. If you are on the Earth plane in a physical body obviously you are here for a reason and purpose. The spirit world is in many ways the controller of the Earth plane. We all and you yourself have spirit guides and angels watching over us - and you are a spirit too. I know this first-hand during my meditations/astral projections, sometimes completely by accident.

The first time I astral projected (spirit traveled- out-of-body), by accident, during deep sleep, I found out that I have an etheric body. A melting (melting like ice under a blow torch) etheric body! It shocked me to read four years later on Spiritual.com that the astral body is made out of etheric matter - a melting spiritual substance. Angels are said to be made out of ethereal matter. If you ever contact your guarden angels, don't except them to have wings and be wearing halos.

By the way, you can't "fall asleep forever" because when in deep sleep your subconscious mind kicks in and you start dreaming/lucid dreaming/astral projecting. Looks like you're out of luck as far as not existing comes. Your spirit guides and guarden angels probably do talk to you, your subconscious knows it, but your conscious (physical) mind doesn't remember it.

I suggest talking to friends and family about how you feel. It makes a world of difference and everything much better and brighter to talk to people about everything. Thanks.

&&&&Steve Austin > You

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