Hi irina_81
May you have the strength to cope with your friends pass over into the Spiritual world.
Death does sting for the people left behind and for this may I offer you all the love and comfort that you need to understand why.
We need to know that the moment of death is the most glorious event for the Soul. If we could see 'on the other side' we would behold a sight beyond our normal senses - the rejoicing, the colours, the music, the angels ready to take the hands of your friends, the family members who have gone before are there ready for re-uniting.
Therefore, although it is difficult to do, we should rejoice at peoples passing over as the opposite of when one is born for being born into matter is quite sorrowful.
The time was right for your friends to go and a majority of souls do choose car accidents to depart. This is not an Universe of 'chaos' it is a well planned Universe and be rest assured that the time was right.
The right thing to do now is to send them all your loving thoughts and remember the times that you had to together. This may be a three day period of candle lighting and deep thoughts of your friends after this your loving thoughts throughout the day sent to them will be appreciated by them.
For the departed souls take strength from our loving remembrance of them and they can be restful that they know you understand it was their time to go.
They will have a 'settling in' period and a period of 're-conciliation' of their recently past life. Therefore loving thoughts will suffice for now until they are ready to contact you, if this is desired, often it is not. I say it is better not to force contact as your friends are 'flying high' now and earthly contact will bring them down. Unless they so desire then you will know through a still voice inside, be calm and strong. But most of all be happy for them and free yourself from grief.
You will be re-united with them when it is your turn to go home.
Our thoughts are amazing things, they do travel
and go were they are meant to go. This is the most loving thing that you can do for your friends.
I say this to you and your friends with my deepest respect; it is a matter that I do not take lightly and send you love.