Hi missmaster    Love and Peace

In my metaphysical studies I have learnt that we  do join our partners in the afterlife.

Every person that comes into your life, here in Earth, who you have had a long relationship with (that is over 12 years) you have known in previous lives.

These relationships might have been different in your past lives for example your husband may have been your father or mother; your daughter may have been your sister or brother.

This group that you belong to is part of your entity group here on Earth and in the Afterlife. One could say it is your 'blood-line'.

I have read that in fact once we pass over there is no-one 'new' that you do not know in the Spiritual realm where your Spiritual entity belongs.

Group re-incarnation happens to either - work out Karma; for strength, support and love; to carry out a certain task that needs to be done on Earth or other reasons.

The particular vehicle of the body ie male, female, husband, wife, daughter etc;  choosen for this 'meeting' suits the task, message or undertaking that was planned before birth.

It is no co-incidence when we meet someone for the first time on Earth and we feel have a 'bond' with them; especially when a long term relationship
develops.  They have entered your life at the right time for a reason.  Or we might have the feeling that something is 'missing' from our lives in could be part of entity choose not to re-incarnate with us this time around; for a reason.

The reason comes naturally, as in nature, it might be something big or something so small.  It cannot be forced it will happen naturally.

It is wonderful of you to say that fear is making you question there is an awakening that is taking place in your Soul.  Understanding your fear will turn that fear into love.

And upon that knowledge; tell fear to 'get down' you have conquered it as fear blocks and fear feeds on fear. Let go of the fear, surrender any thought of trying to control for control is fear of being out-of-control.

Surround yourself and your loved ones with colour and music to soothe and nourish your Soul and know you come from a magnicient place. You dont need to 'contact' anyone from the Spiritual realms as everything lives inside you already.

Look at your loved ones and say "I know you and always will" 

I hope this helps your path missmaster

er... Spitfire... your message is filled with sadness?

Love and Freedom.