Hello Starstream:

I get a buzzing sensation at the back of my head quite often. In fact, it buzzes most of the time. It buzzes in an area about the size of a grapefruit, opposite of my third eye. Some sources refer to this area as an extension of the third eye chakra.

It buzzes more intensly when I read spiritual books and meditate.

I've felt it become really active during conscious dreams, when quick changing images have been sent to me, and when packages of mental information have been fed to me from the spirit World.

I've felt it become more active while doing retrievels.

I've felt it become more active while paying respect to God and my higher self.

When I feel it, it isn't limited to the left side.

Even though I already have a pretty good idea as to why I feel it, I recently asked about it. I was shown a piece of paper with a number of words printed on it. The words that came through were, "kundalini,  Albert (my name), and connection to God."

The key thing is that it becomes more active when a being from the spirit World tries to communicate to me.

I wouldn't be surprised if your brother in law or another spirit who is close to you is trying to let you know there is no point in getting angry at your brother in law's ex girlfriend.

People often pass blame in such a way while down here, but I bet your brother in law isn't blaming her for anything. This isn't how it's done in the spirit World.

Things are set up so that nobody else holds the key to our happiness. Sometimes we allow them to hold the key, but this isn't their fault. Whatever, the case, as I said, I believe it is safe to say that your brother in law is now in a realm where such blame isn't practiced.

Your brother in law's ex girlfriend has lessons to learn, just like the rest of us do. If you make the decision to have empathy for her and the state of mind she finds herself in and wish her the best, you'll probably find that you feel love for her rather than anger.

There is absolutely no point whatsoever for feeling anger towards her. The only thing you'll do if you do so is hurt yourself. Plus you'll send some bad vibes her way, and doing so won't help her with her confusion.

I've also noticed that chakras will become more active when strong emotions related to an issue/energy block you're dealing with comes alive. I haven't felt this at the back of my head though. Mainly in my solar plexus, heart and throat chakras.